Imagining myself in that same spot, I see no point in that giving out information to a stranger that would only contribute to the anxiety you will have just showing up. It's highly unlikely you will ever see that girl again if you stick to your singular objective of losing your virginity to get that out of the way. You start tacking on stuff to a shopping list of things you might do for your first time in an hour just complicates things. Guys with years of experience know what to pack in during that hour (or two) but a beginner with zero practice...
You might try and advertise your virginity on Plenty-Of-Fish or other sites and see who bites. The online interaction will be part of losing your virginity. Arranging a date is one component of the whole "losing your virginity" idea.
For most people, the various steps that lead to losing one's virginity involve looking at nudes, learning how to talk to girls, playing doctor, necking, groping, getting to first base with kissing, and second base, getting your hand on her bare tits, seeing a girl's pussy close up, eating said pussy, THEN shoot for the gold, and share the video on Facebook. Normally, that is a process that is typically spread out over years.
However, you want to skip over that long, and admittedly excruciating delay and jump right to third base, with maybe, an hour-long date at best. It will be a life-long indelible memory, good or bad.
How about you break down the "losing your virginity" into several stages so that each succeeding experience will build on the previous. So, perhaps a simple cuddle-up date first. You talk, maybe kiss next. That will give you the confidence to go to the next stage, groping and maybe a bj. After that, try a professional massage with a happy ending (typically no kissing). Then once you know your body a bit better and how it reacts with differing stimuli with different girls and situations, THEN find someone to lose your virginity to. A GFE girl, close to your age and size, and perhaps choose a "type" if you are lucky enough to figure that out this early on in the game.
It's too bad this learning about what leads to sex including losing your virginity isn't taught in schools fille with political agendas, like in the good old days when the cavemen trained concubines to entertain their leaders.
