Party Friendly
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Just because you do drugs does not mean you are a drug addict. I often get gentlemen inquiring about “party sessions” and if I have “party favours”. These providers are just saying they’re willing to use with clients who want to. Of course people from every walk of life can be addicts—I’ve had my share of addict clients (IE a lawyer visiting at 10am on a Sunday doing lines in my bathroom).
I advertise as sober because I am and I don’t do well with alcohol or substances around me.
I advertise as sober because I am and I don’t do well with alcohol or substances around me.
It's is a red-flag for sure. But it's a bit dismissive to jump into the "addict" labeling right off the bat.
Generally it means that the SP is open to drug use to enhance the experience of the session. And sometimes offering their warez as well as offering themselves.
My personal rule to avoid that red flag is to establish trust with the SP through repeat visits before entertaining the idea of adding drugs to situation. ...unless you like the thrill of unknown consequences, which could lead to the old wives tale of waking up in a tub of ice with your kidneys removed....
It varies from provider to provider. When an SP says she's a "party girl" I skip to the next ad, cause that means that she will partake and may expect you to bring some for her. When it comes to SP's who say "party friendly" I've always understood it as them allowing you to do drugs around them without them necessarily partaking. I'd ask those SP's directly what that means to them, and make a decision from there. You can bluntly ask them when inquiring, "If I bring party favors would you partake?" and if they say, "No, bring what you want, but I won't partake."Then you know you're safe.
I mean, alcohol is a (extremely damaging) drug, so I guess I’m the only provider you can see in YVR lol. I don’t know any other providers who don’t drink
haha I'm mostly pointing out that alcohol can be just as damaging as other drugs, and it seems kind of arbitrary to discriminate against providers who use some drugs but not others! But yeeeehhh I'm opening June 1 get over here for some sober fun times lololDoes one put "I am party friendly" in their ads, because they consume alcohol? I didn't think so
I'm glad we can meet soon though!
I indulged in some stuff way back in my younger days --- nothing harsh. But I've come to the conclusion that nothing beats being clean in terms of that stuff. With a friend, the occasional 1, 2 brews and no more as far as that goes nowadays. Climbing the age ladder lol.
I much prefer sober tbh.
I much prefer sober tbh.
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Giant red flag.
When I see "party girl" in an ad I assume at the very least the person in question is a habitual drug user. “Party favours” equals drug dealer or proxy and likely a habitual user. The lone “party friendly” tag leaves open the possibility that perhaps the SP doesn’t use or sell drugs, but simply tolerates clients using. For me I just keep moving if I see any of these labels in an ad. Not judging the individual rather precluding my exposure to their behaviour which I find saddening and unappealing. I’d be no more or less interested in an SP who was always drunk or half cut.
When I see "party girl" in an ad I assume at the very least the person in question is a habitual drug user. “Party favours” equals drug dealer or proxy and likely a habitual user. The lone “party friendly” tag leaves open the possibility that perhaps the SP doesn’t use or sell drugs, but simply tolerates clients using. For me I just keep moving if I see any of these labels in an ad. Not judging the individual rather precluding my exposure to their behaviour which I find saddening and unappealing. I’d be no more or less interested in an SP who was always drunk or half cut.
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I think I read a review here somewhere where the party girl was too high and didn't put on a condom for the deed and freaked the John out. Don't remember who, but if the girl did it once, she could have done it many times, so I have been wary of that tag ever since.
Among so many other things that can go sideways when one is under the influence is the SP could be nodding off or otherwise disoriented and the guy takes the rubber off intentionally.
I agree. I'm not naive - this stuff is out there anyways to some degree, like background radiation.
But risk-wise, it's just not worth it being around that shit on purpose. Higher risk of all the bad things - for you, for her, and in general.
Automatic avoid for me too.
Agree. If she’s party friendly, she’s scary. If she’ll share a doob or a glass of chard, she’s cool with me.
In my experience, Mary Jane makes me hungry, or inspires DIY creativity. Booze makes me jolly, then stoopid after a well known threshold, then kinda limp, so I stop at 3 every time.
Any other “party” items have been a complete crap shoot, ranging from melancholy, withdrawl, or hyper tension, through hallucinogens, uncunsciousness, and psychotic behaviour. (Took a very skilled buddy with a hacksaw to get that traffic cone off my throat at 4am).
So yes, I will share drinks and weed with an SP , but a Party Girl indulging in anything harder is Red Zone No-Go for Punt.
Totally agree/ A few years before I wasn't against this, but now totally changed my mind.
