What are your feelings on “party favours” / “party and play”?

[Schweps]

"Party friendly" is always a red flag. The one time, long ago, waaaay before online ads, I prioritized drugs over sex when seeing a provider, I ended up in a humiliating situation where I was mocked for my, shall we say, inadequacies, and I was sold some terrible weed.

Those were the days ...

Talk about adding insult to injury! :heh:

Given that fentanyl is showing up everywhere, I'd be terrified if someone OD'd in front of me. I've seen a couple of OD's, and without a narcan kit you are powerless to help (other than calling paramedics).

Brr

 

[PierreCoeur]

My idea of a party favour is showing up at the door and finding out the girl is the person in the advertised pics.

 

[Lo-ki]

My idea of a party favour is showing up at the door and finding out the girl is the person in the advertised pics.

I second that comment.....

 

[lukom]

I second that comment.....

Me too. :clap2::clap2::clap2:

 

[Big_Guy_Rye]

One vice at a time, imo.

My only exception would be, if I were with someone I frequently see enough, but even that's a hard sell.

 

[hedgeman]

considering Kaka, everyone's fav bbbj queen apparently is a "partier" now, doesn't seem to have stopped them from seeing her at all really that I can see

 

[Joesph]

In the old day's partying was done more often than not especially with the higher paid provider's lot's of booze and drug's .People are more health conscience today . I know I am .

 

[Mrmotorscooter]

These days not a good idea, most of the drugs are now artificial chemical compounds that can kill you, a bit of 4/20 never hurt anyone or some wine/beer, keep it simple.

 

[donjoh]

No, just no.

 

[cruefan]

It is a total deal breaker to ever see an ad that the provider is party friendly.

A couple escorts that I seen in the past were definitely high on something when I seen them and the appointment was very bizarre and awkward due to their paranoia, mood swings and erratic conversations that made little to no sense.

 

[NEbaD]

I would think that perb users aren't the clients typically represented in the Party & Play category, and likely neither are the SP's active on the site, however judging by the number of ads that mention the term "Party & Play," I would suggest that it's pretty frequent in general. If anything, the poll results and what I'm reading here only illustrate to me what a small segment of an SP's business perb users appear to represent.

 

[tedsweettangv]

Slightly off topic, but I always assumed, since I never partake, that SPs offering "party" are talking about harder drugs than Pot or Alcohol. I assume that because both are legal and offering somebody a beer or a joint I don't feel would or should stand out unless the person offering has something exceptional, a pre-WWII Chateau Lafite Rothschild for example. Am I correct in this assumption?

 

[GerryD]

Party and play usually refers to meth (aka side street slang) while having sex..... Party also refers to other narcotics. Most sp’s that I have met and have had party in their ad do partake. There is just so many things that are unpredictable under the influence .... I have seen a sp regularly in the past that does party all the time, her service is still great. But not something I seek out.

 

[tedsweettangv]

Party and play usually refers to meth (aka side street slang) while having sex..... Party also refers to other narcotics. Most sp’s that I have met and have had party in their ad do partake. There is just so many things that are unpredictable under the influence .... I have seen a sp regularly in the past that does party all the time, her service is still great. But not something I seek out.

Thank you for the clarification, it is sort of what I thought. I guess while not being a deal breaker, it would probably make me consider other options first.

 

[PuntMeister]

These days not a good idea, most of the drugs are now artificial chemical compounds that can kill you, a bit of 4/20 never hurt anyone or some wine/beer, keep it simple.

Yes! Ads that are 420 friendly, or “enjoy a glass of wine” are OK in my books, but anything harder is a no-go for Punt.

Don’t want to be be so messed up that I can’t enjoy a good fuk, and for sure don’t want to feed drug habits and bad lifestyle decisions - big turn off and a line that the professionals I would want to see do not cross!

Unfortunately the fuzzy-nuts “party Friendly” is the new (ill-defined) “GFE”.

Thank god DFK, FS, and Anal are all rather clear for the discerning pooner! Lol.

 

[PierreCoeur]

What we think and the fact that the online poll reflects most are saying "NO to Party Favours" will not change your desire to partake and offer it as part of the experience you want to create. You can live your life the way you want to live it but don't think the life style won't catch up to you.

I had a cousin who was in the sex industry years ago, who was a party girl.

The party became her life. Her clients were fewer and abusive and uglier. She ended up on the streets of Vancouver doing $10 blowjobs and having unprotected sex.

Soon she was homeless and the drugs changed her looks from beautiful to an old Hag.

She died at age 52 and all alone in the world. Her family found out a year after she died.

All I have to say is enjoy the Party. You likely already made the choice.

 

[helloim]

I love it, but I generally dont like the SP's that advertise party and play because they take advantage of your soft dick when the drugs are in your system.

 

[Mr Quim]

Yes! Ads that are 420 friendly, or “enjoy a glass of wine” are OK in my books, but anything harder is a no-go for Punt.

Don’t want to be be so messed up that I can’t enjoy a good fuk, and for sure don’t want to feed drug habits and bad lifestyle decisions - big turn off and a line that the professionals I would want to see do not cross!

Unfortunately the fuzzy-nuts “party Friendly” is the new (ill-defined) “GFE”.

Thank god DFK, FS, and Anal are all rather clear for the discerning pooner! Lol.

I would have to agree with your Viewpoint . Once You get past Wine & Weed, I'm out !

Everything in moderation, makes for a contented Life !
It's the extremes, that send You down the wrong Path .

This is so 80's... LOL

Mr Q.

 

[KinkyKatey]

What we think and the fact that the online poll reflects most are saying "NO to Party Favours" will not change your desire to partake and offer it as part of the experience you want to create. You can live your life the way you want to live it but don't think the life style won't catch up to you.

I had a cousin who was in the sex industry years ago, who was a party girl.

The party became her life. Her clients were fewer and abusive and uglier. She ended up on the streets of Vancouver doing $10 blowjobs and having unprotected sex.

Soon she was homeless and the drugs changed her looks from beautiful to an old Hag.

She died at age 52 and all alone in the world. Her family found out a year after she died.

All I have to say is enjoy the Party. You likely already made the choice.

Is this a general post or is this directed at someone?

Xo
Katey

 

[KinkyKatey]

Since you started this thread, what are your thoughts on the whole party girl vs party friendly experience?

I personally am not cool enough for such things, I haven’t even had a drink stronger than beer since my crazy teen phase. I started this thread as I get requests probably once or twice a week to do a night of “party and play” and even more requests to provide favours, I assumed it was pretty popular.

Xo
Katey