girls in houses

[esckyLover666]

How do you guys feel about incalls at a house, not in an apartment? I don't like when girls are in hotels or motels but also houses. I made an appointment with a black provider and everything seemed to be good while making the appointment. After getting the Addy and checking maps I seen it was a house and ended up ghosting her.

Has anyone been to a house for incall? How did it go? Safe?

 

[oktrythis]

I've been to SPs in there homes. But only if they are active on this board and have good reviews. I was still somewhat nervous but things subsided once was in. She was also a mature provider which also helps.

Hope this helps.

OTT.

 

[oktrythis]

Just to corrective above.

Once I was in.

I was always somewhat nervous but things subsided once I was in.

Also, they were all mature providers.

Sorry about that.

OTT.

 

[Asian Fever]

Was it Riza's place? Probably one of the most comfortable environments in the city.

Why ghost her? Kind of a dick move.. just tell her you're not comfortable with the location and cancel.

 

[Newb808]

Houses aren’t my first choice, but I feel safe at Riza’s. Used to prefer going at night but would do days now too with Uber—I have friends down the street. I’m not pooning ATM, but if I was and I had ghosted who I think you’re talking about, I’d offer to make it up to her and get that appointment. Looks and sounds amazing.

 

[VinVan]

Not to shit on you Escky, but I agree with AF - total dick move. Ghosting - whether SP or John doing the ghosting - is just the most cowardly thing you can do. It’s basically not taking responsibility for your actions. It’s turtling, and frankly, showing one’s character. Again, not to pick on you, but how will you react when you are confronted with a true ethical dilemma? Will you just look away when someone is being bullied? Will you lay down in the face of injustice? I’m not saying that this behavior can’t change - and maybe you don’t even think it’s inappropriate - but at the end of the day, it’s another human we’re dealing with and to that end I would only cite the golden rule, “Do unto others....”

 

[Riza]

After getting the Addy and checking maps I seen it was a house and ended up ghosting her.

There is never a reason to ghost someone. The biggest dick move and you have no idea how annoying and upsetting it is. Have just a little bit of decency and text "sorry cancel" even if you don't want to give a reason.

Was it Riza's place? Probably one of the most comfortable environments in the city.

Why ghost her? Kind of a dick move.. just tell her you're not comfortable with the location and cancel.

i've been to Rizas, its safe and friendly.

Houses aren’t my first choice, but I feel safe at Riza’s. Used to prefer going at night but would do days now too with Uber—I have friends down the street. I’m not pooning ATM, but if I was and I had ghosted who I think you’re talking about, I’d offer to make it up to her and get that appointment. Looks and sounds amazing.

Thanks guys, appreciate the plug. I try to make my place as clean, warm, safe and welcome as possible. You are all welcome anytime. Hey AF, been awhile since you have been by for bottle or two of wine. Drop by, just bottled 60 bottles

I wonder if esckyLover is one of my newer contacts saved. "Asshole no show #576"

 

[Asian Fever]

Hey AF, been awhile since you have been by for bottle or two of wine. Drop by, just bottled 60 bottles

Might just do that :heh:

 

[southcentralperb]

houses can definitely be sketchy. you just have to put all the info together. Riza and her girls have dozens of reviews on this board, she's as safe as it gets for a house

some random unverified 21 year old girl with an ambiguous ad and no reviews is something else entirely. use your big head. i've definitely cancelled before due to me being unsure of the location. an indian girl, a CBC, an asian. the common factors were that they were all claiming to be under 25, were unverified, had no reviews for their name or phone #

 

[Riza]

houses can definitely be sketchy. you just have to put all the info together. Riza and her girls have dozens of reviews on this board, she's as safe as it gets for a house

some random unverified 21 year old girl with an ambiguous ad and no reviews is something else entirely. use your big head. i've definitely cancelled before due to me being unsure of the location. an indian girl, a CBC, an asian. the common factors were that they were all claiming to be under 25, were unverified, had no reviews for their name or phone #

I am actually trying to figure out the rationale here. You would feel more safe in a hotel or condo over a house? Or is just hotel?

As I try to remember most of the postings of scams and guys getting ripped off I seem to remember most being in hotels. Guys shows up, pays money, girl goes to washroom to freshen up, boyfriend(s) show up and ask why he is there. Guys leaves without service or money. That's just one of the scams I have seen posted. Many variations to that scenario, to many to go into detail.

Girl can do this until management catches on and kicks her out. Move on to new motel/hotel and start over.

Girl working from her own house, maybe rented maybe owned. Has neighbors that know her, has been there for years, doesn't want any drama, has no intention of moving anytime soon, likes her place. Chances of her scamming someone and drawing attention to herself "0"

I know its easy to search me out and know there are no problems coming here and you have to be careful with someone without reviews but the same goes for girls in hotels if not more.

 

[vanblue]

I've never had a problem at a house, or townhouse. Much prefer it to an apartment or condo to be honest.

 

[TOAO]

I've always preferred high-rise condos. IMO, it's easier to blend in. The many floors diminish the chance of running into someone (vs a house or low-rise).

 

[southcentralperb]

In a condo its easy to blend in. And no, the person that is also using the lobby elevator has no idea what youre there for. Stop being so paranoid lol.

I have a mistrust for houses because, in my opinion, that is where you are most susceptible to a violent crime, like being robbed at gun/knife point or threatened. Nobody would pull that in a condo, way too many neighbours and witnesses. Kind of same with hotels. Yeah maybe at a cheap $60 motel so thats why i avoid those ones too. Ive only been ripped off in a nice hotel once, and it wasnt violent. It was less a robbery and more of a severe lack of services that were promised.

You would think that because an SP can afford the rent of an entire house or even a basement suite that she would be legit. I have seen from experience and reading reviews here that SP's in houses are more likely to be batshit crazy and want to pull a big scam on you. Someone who is willing to rob you probably doesnt care all that much if a neighbour or landlord or even police find out. They just bail and move shop

 

[Number17]

If the SP is well reviewed by multiple established members, it doesn’t really matter much. I’ve seen an SP in a house and in a lane way house because she rented them through AirBnB. In my case, it was safe because she was well reviewed.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

in my opinion and we call have one, I honestly have never had a problem with a house call. In fact for the most part I prefer it in particular well reviewed providers. I can street view the place get a feel for the neighbourhood, park on the street, text to my SP that I have parked and will be at the door in a bit, then take my time being careful (a degree of paranoia is good - believe me) walk in when I feel its all clear, get greeted and taken to our room and all is good. Leaving similar, being careful. Townhouses are good, similar to a house, then condos then apartments then hotels. Increasing chances of being around others the more things you need to go through to get to the final destination.

I think all of us have had a couple bad experiences but my worst was in a hotel, heading up an elevator, a shady looking dude got in after I had hit my floor button and said that one when I asked him what floor. Tried a shake down as I headed to my SP's door following me. I confronted him - stupid I know - and it was pretty intense for a bit, Ended after I called my provider to say I was followed and I'll have to cancel. I think he figured it wasn't worth it as I am a pretty big guy, older but I think that don't f-k with me look is the ticket. Anyway the point is the more public the place I think the more chance of something going off the rails.

Cheers all.
PS seems like more SP's are putting up ads - yay! that case of the DSB's is building up to something significant.
PPS that's deadly semen backup

 

[southcentralperb]

When i say i prefer condos to townhouses i of course mean when doing a TOFTT or visiting a lady with very few reviews. Of course i would prefer every SP have the comfort of Riza's house lol. But the unfamiliarity of a single family home does not feel safe to me when taking a gamble on an SP. Which is more often than not

 

[Johnywalker42]

I'm being serious:

You all know my paranoia about the concierge desks and security guards at condos and apartments.

A townhouse or house doesn't have those.

What is there to be paranoid about with that? Do they confront people even if they are buzzed in?

 

[esckyLover666]

No it wasn't rizas . It was destiny in Burnaby.

After reading all the replies. I do feel bad about ghosting her. You guys are right and I won't do that again
I still don't think I will be visiting any SPs in houses. Although I do now trust Riza and may try her in the near future
Thanks Everyone for the help on this

 

[Newb808]

Imagine, "Hey, what are you doing here? Who are you here to see?"

Or, even that inquisitive look they give, seeing me come AT :00 past the hour, and leave just around 60 minutes later.

AAA,
TJM

Unlike your reverence to brosans, I’m with you on this one Tim. The guilt and paranoia always vex me even though I remind myself that for a guard or neighbour to address a guest of a tenant/owner in an unfriendly manner would be unacceptable. I only attend incalls in mid to high end buildings and if someone were to try to ask inappropriate or nosey questions, I plan to just brush them off and ask who they are. I’ve had more than a few awkward elevator rides but it’s mostly paranoia for sure.

 

[duneek]

Think I've only been to a couple houses, one was a basement suite and the other was a really nice home in the suburbs of Portland, Oregon. Both ladies were mature/older and very pleasant providers.

It's the hotels you have to worry about. I won't even entertain a motel anymore.