When you recognizer a provider?

[duneek]

Just curious if anyone has ever gone to see a provider for the first time and either happened to know them prior to the session or recognized them as someone who frequents your "scene". If yes, how do you handle it?

For context, its happened to me a few times in Vancouver:

1) Arrived to the incall to be greeted by a girl I'd already slept with in my civilian life

2) Arrived to the incall to be greeted by a girl I matched with on Tinder

3) Arrived to an incall to be greeted by a girl whose number I got at a nightclub prior


Equally awkward is seeing a girl you've had a session with in a small, intimate venue (this happened to me about 2 weeks ago). That was easy though, we just avoided each other, lol.

 

[DATYer]

Man your life must be 10 times more interesting than mine. If I were you I'll listen to my little brother's honest voice. If he says go then go, if he says run then run.

 

[duneek]

Man your life must be 10 times more interesting than mine. If I were you I'll listen to my little brother's honest voice. If he says go then go, if he says run then run.

No, lol. I'm just a pussy hound man. I pretty much take it any way I can get it, but it's surprising me how many everyday ladies are involved in this business in this city.

 

[DATYer]

True my friend. I'm a big fan of seeing young college girls in Spas and I feel they are only the tip of the iceberg. There are much more hot girls on social media such as SA.

 

[pilpay]

Nothing as exciting as those situations.

Once saw the girl at a mall the next afternoon with a guy that was obviously her boy friend. We both had a quick smile then looked away.

Once saw a girl on the street while I was going to the Den, thought she was hot. Then ended up it was a new girl I had arranged the session with.

Another time also related to the Den was when the Best Buy was still down the street. Saw the girl I had a session with 1/2 before shopping. Again, no drama, just a quick smile and looked away.

 

[Lounge Lizard]

Had multiple sessions with a girl in a relatively short time. Kinda lost touch for a few months. Then ran into her shopping at the mall. She was with another girl who looked like she could have been her sister. When she saw me looking at her, she gave me a panicked subtle head shake as she walked by. I texted her shortly after and we made arrangements for another session later that day LOL.

When I was working in downtown, I ran into some Foxes a few times that I'd use to see regularly. They would always be happy to see me, greet me loudly, come up and give me hugs. They'd always be wearing something loud and exposing, like a velour Juicy Couture track suit, or something half zipped to semi-expose and accentuate their implants or whatever. Part of me would would be like "Yeeeeeah boyeeeeee, a hottie recognizing me in public for everyone to gaze at, I'm da man!" And the other part of me going, "Oh God, I hope nobody I know runs into me, I don't want to have to explain how I know this scandalous looking girl..."

In one of those instances, I ended up helping her carry her stuff back to her apartment. It was a small apartment. Her kindergarten-aged son was there as well, and she started getting frisky with me while he was distracted with the TV. I knew she was going through some personal things, so I wasn't sure if she was hoping to get paid that evening. But seeing her young song there and no real place for privacy, thoughts of turning into a low life scumbag crossed my mind, so I politely made my exit.

In another Fox incident, we hung out one time at a restaurant of her choosing. I think she chose that particular restaurant because there was a guy there she wanted to get a reaction out of... I noticed a group of dudes looking over at our table, and her making/not making eye contact with said group throughout the night. I guess it worked, because she stopped working in the industry almost immediately after that night, and heard that she had found herself a man.

Not quite a SP experience, but I went to high school with a girl who also happened to star in a locally produced TV show for teens. I didn't know her well, she was a couple of years younger, but we said hi a few times in passing. Several years later, I went into a local strip club and there she was walking the floor asking dudes if they wanted a lap dance. When we made eye contact, her eyes kind of widened and she continued to walk by, didn't ask me if I wanted a lap dance lol.

 

[duneek]

Had multiple sessions with a girl in a relatively short time. Kinda lost touch for a few months. Then ran into her shopping at the mall. She was with another girl who looked like she could have been her sister. When she saw me looking at her, she gave me a panicked subtle head shake as she walked by. I texted her shortly after and we made arrangements for another session later that day LOL.

When I was working in downtown, I ran into some Foxes a few times that I'd use to see regularly. They would always be happy to see me, greet me loudly, come up and give me hugs. They'd always be wearing something loud and exposing, like a velour Juicy Couture track suit, or something half zipped to semi-expose and accentuate their implants or whatever. Part of me would would be like "Yeeeeeah boyeeeeee, a hottie recognizing me in public for everyone to gaze at, I'm da man!" And the other part of me going, "Oh God, I hope nobody I know runs into me, I don't want to have to explain how I know this scandalous looking girl..."

In one of those instances, I ended up helping her carry her stuff back to her apartment. It was a small apartment. Her kindergarten-aged son was there as well, and she started getting frisky with me while he was distracted with the TV. I knew she was going through some personal things, so I wasn't sure if she was hoping to get paid that evening. But seeing her young song there and no real place for privacy, thoughts of turning into a low life scumbag crossed my mind, so I politely made my exit.

In another Fox incident, we hung out one time at a restaurant of her choosing. I think she chose that particular restaurant because there was a guy there she wanted to get a reaction out of... I noticed a group of dudes looking over at our table, and her making/not making eye contact with said group throughout the night. I guess it worked, because she stopped working in the industry almost immediately after that night, and heard that she had found herself a man.

Not quite a SP experience, but I went to high school with a girl who also happened to star in a locally produced TV show for teens. I didn't know her well, she was a couple of years younger, but we said hi a few times in passing. Several years later, I went into a local strip club and there she was walking the floor asking dudes if they wanted a lap dance. When we made eye contact, her eyes kind of widened and she continued to walk by, didn't ask me if I wanted a lap dance lol.

Damn man! Your stories give me anxiety, hahahaha.

I remember meeting a girl at a club and making out with her on the dance floor. We exchanged info but she lived on the island so getting together was tough. I responded to a Leolist ad and showed up but the girl wouldn't open the door, texted me and said "I know you....this is awkward". She then told me to wait 30 minutes until she was off. She came down and met me at my car, it was the girl I'd made out with at the club months ago. She proceeded to tell me she used to have a crush on me, let me follow her home, and had sex with me free of charge. I'm still confused at that situation, lol. I didn't know how to act towards her after and we just kind of drifted apart. She was a pretty well known provider at the time. Not sure if she's still active though.

 

[DHB]

Damn man! Your stories give me anxiety, hahahaha.

I remember meeting a girl at a club and making out with her on the dance floor. We exchanged info but she lived on the island so getting together was tough. I responded to a Leolist ad and showed up but the girl wouldn't open the door, texted me and said "I know you....this is awkward". She then told me to wait 30 minutes until she was off. She came down and met me at my car, it was the girl I'd made out with at the club months ago. She proceeded to tell me she used to have a crush on me, let me follow her home, and had sex with me free of charge. I'm still confused at that situation, lol. I didn't know how to act towards her after and we just kind of drifted apart. She was a pretty well known provider at the time. Not sure if she's still active though.

Can you pm me who she was as a provider?

 

[lukom]

Those all sound like ideal situations to run into someone you know. I'm always worries of an SP being a coworker, or studying in a program that leads to employment in my field of work, or being a friend of a friend. There's an SP I wanted to see ages ago who I believe is a childhood friend of my cousin. I'm almost certain it's that person and o avoided seeing her, she recently showed some unstable behavior when she came on Perb and am glad i me at chances it with her more than ever.

 

[Sprider69]

I once had a coworker come to a Christmas party with a provider I had seen. She was panicked and gave me an obvious STFU look and we just played like we didn't know each other. Turns out he didn't know her "real" job until soon afterward. That was the most awkward time but i have seen some others in civie life and either casually ignored each other or greeted like old friends. My experience is let them initiate any contact in public.

 

[LM987]

I've passed a client leaving a location when I was arriving.
Have met a few SP for which we have mutual friends.
Have had SPs become clients.

Decades ago I ran into a girl from high school that another buddy I was with asked me how I knew her. I said old friend from high school, he informed me she was an SP he had been with.

 

[duneek]

Can you pm me who she was as a provider?

Can't, your inbox is full.

 

[duneek]

One place I've seen a few providers is on Tinder. Some have used the same photos from their ads even though they're not soliciting business, they're actually on there for dating.

 

[DHB]

Can't, your inbox is full.

Try now, I deleted a bunch of messages

 

[Lounge Lizard]

One place I've seen a few providers is on Tinder. Some have used the same photos from their ads even though they're not soliciting business, they're actually on there for dating.

Lol, are you sure about that?? I've seen plenty of SPs I recognize on multiple dating apps. Pretty sure they're not there just for dating... a "foodie call" at the very least. But maybe I'm just jaded... I've had way too many "connections" turn into sugar daddy requests. Hell, there are so many fake accounts too, sometimes they can't even get their pictures straight... like in one pic they'll be some blonde Caucasian girl, and in the next pic they're an Asian girl... or two girls with different names will put up the exact same pictures.

 

[perbal rain]

A year or so ago I was browsing ads and thought the woman in the photo looked familiar (no face shot but her tattoos looked familiar). I realized she's friends with a bunch of people in my social circle and I kept seeing her tagged in my friends' pictures on Facebook.

Another time a few years ago I booked a massage through a massage therapy school, where for a low fee an active student will give the massage for practical experience, and you submit an evaluation after. The student I got was a provider I'd seen once a couple years prior. I'm pretty sure she didn't recognize me since my look had changed quite a bit, but I suppose she might have and not said anything due to us being separated only by a flimsy curtain from five other people getting massages. I noticed a few months afterwards that she started including "registered massage" in her ads so she must have finished school.

 

[duneek]

Lol, are you sure about that?? I've seen plenty of SPs I recognize on multiple dating apps. Pretty sure they're not there just for dating... a "foodie call" at the very least. But maybe I'm just jaded... I've had way too many "connections" turn into sugar daddy requests. Hell, there are so many fake accounts too, sometimes they can't even get their pictures straight... like in one pic they'll be some blonde Caucasian girl, and in the next pic they're an Asian girl... or two girls with different names will put up the exact same pictures.

Well not considering the obvious profiles that are trying to lure guys to some site or something along those lines. The gals I recognized were being pretty selective and were using real names with real candid photos. How could I tell they were being selective? Because they didn't respond to my attempts to connect on there, lol.

 

[abbylanelovesyou]

Some of my best regulars were people I knew before showing up at their door. Awkward at first. But if both parties are comfortable it can be perfect.

 

[SixShooter]

No, lol. I'm just a pussy hound man. I pretty much take it any way I can get it, but it's surprising me how many everyday ladies are involved in this business in this city.

Agreed. I see so many ladies in Yaletown during the day driving Mercedes Benz G Wagons picking up their lattes around 11am

Am I to believe they’re nurses who work shifts?

6.

 

[NEbaD]

I dream about the door opening, and it being someone I've known for awhile behind the door. Honestly, that would be amazing - you guys are very fortunate, from my perspective!