I’m mostly new to this. A few years back, after finding myself without a partner, I
looked online via backpage (RIP), and found/tried a few SPs. But every one was
a meh experience, and I pretty well gave up.
Fast-forward to today, I’m once again without a partner, and needing to scratch the itch, so to
speak, I decided to be more diligent, and do my homework. I read reviews, looked over web sites for
agencies and independents… you get the idea. Decided to drop a review here in order to
‘pay it back’, so to speak. Hopefully this is useful, but also I have a question at the end for the more
knowledgable/experienced perb’s
I contacted several several SPs, casually, but not booking anything. I’m not sure what I
was “screening" for, to be honest. With most SPs, the msg'g was about cost for how much
time, menu selection for which service, and at what time and place. In other words, mostly
logistical, very perfunctory and kinda boring. I found myself going back to their web page or
ad, looking at their pictures, and trying to assess whether it was a good value, and whether
that was going to satisfy me.
In other words, it was kinda like being at McDonalds, looking at the pictures of a Big Mac vs
Quarter Pounder vs McChicken, and deciding which was going to disappoint me the least,
while the cashier impatiently drums their fingers on the counter, waiting for me to order.
But then Eve… she insists on a “neutral ground” first-meeting, but our messaging wasn’t
just about scheduling and "the menu". Like the others, her style was direct and business-like,
but she was also casual and friendly. After the scheduling, we continued to msg, and she
continued to draw me out of my shell… on hindsight she was assessing me as much as I
was researching her. That struck me as savvy, with a level of sophistication beyond the other SPs.
And smart on her part, in her line of work.
Maybe I’m over-using the metaphor, but it was more like interacting with a sommalier
to understand preferences, likes, tastes, to guide my decision.
All of which got me curious.
This review has already gotten too long, and I haven’t even gotten to the so-called “dirty
details”. I’m going to skip the overly-explicit porn-like details. If you’ve read the above,
and it’s piqued your interest, then you get it. But I will say this much…
We met for coffee, and, physically, for me, she hits all the right notes. Beauty, hotness, etc…
it's a personal pref thing, so YMMV, obviously. But I found Eve very attractive... medium height,
slender, with curves in all the right places, and she obviously takes care of herself.
And the play time was great. I wasn't necessarily expecting to go past the "casual first meet",
but it flowed that way. It felt much more relaxed and natural than my prior experiences from
a few years back. I could say more, but again, this is probably already TL;DR. I will say that I
never felt rushed, Eve let me ease my nerves and get into my groove… and into her
groove... it was actually pretty steamy, at least for me.
Overall, the experience exceeded my expectations. By a LOT.
Now, a question for the fellow perb’s here… it seems that I’ve “lucked out” on my
first shot, and found a great SP. What would you do? Would you end the search/sampling,
and continue to see Eve, or continue to look and maybe try out others?
looked online via backpage (RIP), and found/tried a few SPs. But every one was
a meh experience, and I pretty well gave up.
Fast-forward to today, I’m once again without a partner, and needing to scratch the itch, so to
speak, I decided to be more diligent, and do my homework. I read reviews, looked over web sites for
agencies and independents… you get the idea. Decided to drop a review here in order to
‘pay it back’, so to speak. Hopefully this is useful, but also I have a question at the end for the more
knowledgable/experienced perb’s
I contacted several several SPs, casually, but not booking anything. I’m not sure what I
was “screening" for, to be honest. With most SPs, the msg'g was about cost for how much
time, menu selection for which service, and at what time and place. In other words, mostly
logistical, very perfunctory and kinda boring. I found myself going back to their web page or
ad, looking at their pictures, and trying to assess whether it was a good value, and whether
that was going to satisfy me.
In other words, it was kinda like being at McDonalds, looking at the pictures of a Big Mac vs
Quarter Pounder vs McChicken, and deciding which was going to disappoint me the least,
while the cashier impatiently drums their fingers on the counter, waiting for me to order.
But then Eve… she insists on a “neutral ground” first-meeting, but our messaging wasn’t
just about scheduling and "the menu". Like the others, her style was direct and business-like,
but she was also casual and friendly. After the scheduling, we continued to msg, and she
continued to draw me out of my shell… on hindsight she was assessing me as much as I
was researching her. That struck me as savvy, with a level of sophistication beyond the other SPs.
And smart on her part, in her line of work.
Maybe I’m over-using the metaphor, but it was more like interacting with a sommalier
to understand preferences, likes, tastes, to guide my decision.
All of which got me curious.
This review has already gotten too long, and I haven’t even gotten to the so-called “dirty
details”. I’m going to skip the overly-explicit porn-like details. If you’ve read the above,
and it’s piqued your interest, then you get it. But I will say this much…
We met for coffee, and, physically, for me, she hits all the right notes. Beauty, hotness, etc…
it's a personal pref thing, so YMMV, obviously. But I found Eve very attractive... medium height,
slender, with curves in all the right places, and she obviously takes care of herself.
And the play time was great. I wasn't necessarily expecting to go past the "casual first meet",
but it flowed that way. It felt much more relaxed and natural than my prior experiences from
a few years back. I could say more, but again, this is probably already TL;DR. I will say that I
never felt rushed, Eve let me ease my nerves and get into my groove… and into her
groove... it was actually pretty steamy, at least for me.
Overall, the experience exceeded my expectations. By a LOT.
Now, a question for the fellow perb’s here… it seems that I’ve “lucked out” on my
first shot, and found a great SP. What would you do? Would you end the search/sampling,
and continue to see Eve, or continue to look and maybe try out others?






