How often do you want to have sex?

[lostviking]

Now that I'm in my 50s, once a week will do. I miss the companionship more now that I'm older.

Same here, finding the companionship is the most important thing

 

[clu]

That was supposed to say decreases

Are you sure you didn't have it right the first time? Decreasing interval means increasing frequency.

 

[thodisipagal]

For me, even in my advancing years, it's 4 or 5 days every week.

When my ex-lover (affair) came to visit when I was living by myself, we had sex several times a day, every single day for 24 days; 7 times a day was the record. Same thing when she came back to visit again, for 11 straight days.

So, yeah, the answer is every day, several times a day.

She got married later. I wonder if she has sex that much with her hubby. I never did that much with my wife.

 

[Sifupoon]

How often? Mostly when the price is right and the service is excellent.
time wise? Once or twice a month if I'm not busy doin other things.

 

[Avioneto123]

Every day in my head,but realistically once a week ,as I need time to build up juice and enjoy more when coming.

 

[mistermetro]

How often do we want to have sex, or how frequently are we willing to pay for it? A fair distinction for this forum.

 

[jamasianman]

I thought the thread was just asking how much we'd like to have it in a week, regardlss of factors. If you have to keep it realistic then its not very insightful or interesting.

 

[johnnydepth]

The question was how often you Want, not how often you get.

 

[Miss Hunter]

I have a very high libido but something changed in me awhile back and I can no longer handle casual sex. It makes me neurotic for at least 3 days afterwards. So I no longer partake. I have an intolerance to casual sex similar to my intolerance to gluten. I have celiac disease and will get sick for at least 3 days following a gluten contamination.

It’s a bit of a conundrum for me but I manage with the assistance of my high end vibrator collection.

Overall I’m happy with my job but it makes it hard to get close enough to someone in order to pass through that casual sex barrier into something more meaningful. Or, if the situation is coming from another angle, when I have a high level of emotional intimacy with someone it’s scary to bring sex into the situation because of feelings.

 

[wtfguy]

Interesting....I've never heard of anything like that before, and yet I kinda get it. Maybe if you were able to put up with the neurosis for a couple of times with the same person, you could develop a FWB (friends with benefits) type of situation that would satisfy your libido and not compromise the emotional side of things by keeping the intimate feelings at arms length??

But I'm not a doctor...I only play one on TV

Feel free to PM me if you want to try

I have a very high libido but something changed in me awhile back and I can no longer handle casual sex. It makes me neurotic for at least 3 days afterwards. So I no longer partake. I have an intolerance to casual sex similar to my intolerance to gluten. I have celiac disease and will get sick for at least 3 days following a gluten contamination.

It’s a bit of a conundrum for me but I manage with the assistance of my high end vibrator collection.

Overall I’m happy with my job but it makes it hard to get close enough to someone in order to pass through that casual sex barrier into something more meaningful. Or, if the situation is coming from another angle, when I have a high level of emotional intimacy with someone it’s scary to bring sex into the situation because of feelings.

 

[WashboardAbs]

How often? - I could receive a BBBJ daily, easily. But, sex with my "wife" - once a week. Sex with an escort - I could easily do a different escort 7 days a week. Time and money is the limiting factor for me.

 

[Miss Hunter]

Interesting....I've never heard of anything like that before, and yet I kinda get it. Maybe if you were able to put up with the neurosis for a couple of times with the same person, you could develop a FWB (friends with benefits) type of situation that would satisfy your libido and not compromise the emotional side of things by keeping the intimate feelings at arms length??

But I'm not a doctor...I only play one on TV

Feel free to PM me if you want to try

No thanks. I see my post flew right over your head. That's understandable though, so I'm not intending to be snarky. Most guys just don't get it.
Bottom line is if I could deal with feeling shitty after sex that involves no deep genuine emotional and spiritual connection, I'd just go back to getting paid for it. Especially considering I could command a much higher rate. Some guys out there are willing to pay a lot for BDSM + FS. But even the money isn't worth me acting like a batshit crazy lunatic afterwards. When I said "neurotic" that was a polite way to put it!

 

[LADY-VIA]

every day... sometimes several times a day. Pick a place, pull over....... But I think this is biological as well, since the older I've gotten the hornier I've gotten. My body must be screaming for babies now, even though I've taken full measures to make sure I don't recieve a pop up baby.

 

[sybian]

every day... sometimes several times a day. Pick a place, pull over....... But I think this is biological as well, since the older I've gotten the hornier I've gotten. My body must be screaming for babies now, even though I've taken full measures to make sure I don't recieve a pop up baby.

Yeah...nothing spoils the mood, like a screaming kid with a loaded diaper.