Poor Introductions..., Why "Hi", Just Doesn't Cut The Mustard !

[Mr Quim]

This is probably more for the benefit of the Newbies to this Hobby . But, I'm sure a few Veterans might garner something too .

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I prefer Email myself, for my first introductions, and have been fairly successful with that approach .

First impressions, do go a long way !

Just some thoughts...

Hope it helps .

Cheers

 

[ludovico123]

This is an interesting post.
I think I may often be sending a wordy version of "Hi"
I usually book last minute, as my schedule is generally unpredictable.
When I contact a lady for the first time, I usually ask if she is available and what area her incall is located in.
When she replies with that info, I GPS the general location and see how long it would take to get there.
I then reply asking if she is available around the time I would get there.
I have decent results with this method, but I do get a fair amount of non response.
Or, I get a "Yes, I'm available" and then nothing else.
I have been trying to set something up with Maddi 5868 on LL for months, and getting no where.

Looks like I need to change the way I contact the ladies to add more information in the initial text / email.

 

[Mr Quim]

Thanks for posting this! I loved this tweet because it really helps put it into perspective why so many providers are email only. We’re not doing it to make things difficult or tedious for anyone, it’s just after experiences of dealing with time wasters!

I appreciate all my friends who send out well thought out and polite introduction emails, and find the chemistry to be even more amazing when we meet :clap2:

You're very welcome .
Welcome to PERB, by the way !

It certainly sounds like one way, to get "Shot down in Flames" .

Cheers

 

[pussy_stretcher]

Send a thoughtful, well worded introduction, response:
160hh 260h full service gfe no cim no cof no bbfs

Send a turse, quick introduction, response:
160hh 260h full service gfe no cim no cof no bbfs

Try to ask follow up questions, or to book either, no response.

Why should I be sending MY resume? I'm looking to HIRE, not be hired.

If I'm in the mood, I'll send some texts out. Sometime I'm looking for something tomorrow, and I state it. Sometimes I'm looking for something now, and I state it. Life happens. Hopefully the providers are busy enough they'll stay in business. So I expect a lot of non-returned texts. If you return text after a period of time, I might have moved on to my next option. Calling me a waste of time because I'm looking to get laid, instead of waiting around to be approved is a bit insulting.

 

[blakealridge]

yo, we're literally going to fuck you (maybe) and hope you don't kill us or rape us. treat us with some respect.

Send a thoughtful, well worded introduction, response:
160hh 260h full service gfe no cim no cof no bbfs

Send a turse, quick introduction, response:
160hh 260h full service gfe no cim no cof no bbfs

Try to ask follow up questions, or to book either, no response.

Why should I be sending MY resume? I'm looking to HIRE, not be hired.

If I'm in the mood, I'll send some texts out. Sometime I'm looking for something tomorrow, and I state it. Sometimes I'm looking for something now, and I state it. Life happens. Hopefully the providers are busy enough they'll stay in business. So I expect a lot of non-returned texts. If you return text after a period of time, I might have moved on to my next option. Calling me a waste of time because I'm looking to get laid, instead of waiting around to be approved is a bit insulting.

 

[Mr Quim]

Send a thoughtful, well worded introduction, response:
160hh 260h full service gfe no cim no cof no bbfs

Send a turse, quick introduction, response:
160hh 260h full service gfe no cim no cof no bbfs

Try to ask follow up questions, or to book either, no response.

Just curious about a couple Things ?

Can I assume this is two separate attempts, to see the same Lady ? And were You ever able, to arrange a Date with this Lady, that fit your Schedule ?

Another Wrench, that sometimes might fall into this Scenario, is a lot of Ladies follow a great Protocol !
Which is, if They can't respond for some Reason within an Hour, They don't respond at all .

Which is to avoid a S.O., possibly intercepting the Text !
Another reason, I prefer to use Email, as my initial contact Method .

This is an interesting post.
I think I may often be sending a wordy version of "Hi"
I usually book last minute, as my schedule is generally unpredictable.
When I contact a lady for the first time, I usually ask if she is available and what area her incall is located in.
When she replies with that info, I GPS the
general location and see how long it would take to get there.
I then reply asking if she is available around the time I would get there.
I have decent results with this method, but I do get a fair amount of non response.
Or, I get a "Yes, I'm available" and then nothing else.
I have been trying to set something up with Maddi 5868 on LL for months, and getting no where.

Looks like I need to change the way I contact the ladies to add more information in the initial text / email.

I have a feeling, We're talking about the same Lady ? LOL

https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...naby_newwest_petite_sweet_4_10_90_lbs-1555023

She's got some great Reviews !

Cheers

 

[Miss Hunter]

A generalization, but usually true... I've noticed over the years the guys who take the time to read the ads fully, do their research, take the time to write up a thoughtful introduction that contains the necessary information we need to consider them for a booking, are more likely to be reliable, serious about arranging a booking and not looking for free chit chat, respectful, have pristine hygiene and show up on time.


I put instructions on my ads stating the information I need. I'm accustomed to dealing with obedient submissive men, or, at least, ones who can behave that way for a session, so it's part of my screening process to see if they can read and follow the simple directions I have on my ad.

 

[Lady Companion]

Why should I be sending MY resume? I'm looking to HIRE, not be hired.

True. But I have yet to meet a worthwhile 'employee' or 'contractor' who doesn't have at least a rudimentary understanding about the 'company' they are deciding whether or not they want to liaise with.

Other than the safety aspect, there is a whole compatibility thing. Your way works great if you are looking to see a lady who views you as a dick attached to an atm - but not for one who cares about providing you with a great experience. Clearly you are happy with the former, while the ladies replying to this thread are interested in the latter.

 

[Lady Companion]

A generalization, but usually true... I've noticed over the years the guys who take the time to read the ads fully, do their research, take the time to write up a thoughtful introduction that contains the necessary information we need to consider them for a booking, are more likely to be reliable, serious about arranging a booking and not looking for free chit chat, respectful, have pristine hygiene and show up on time.


I put instructions on my ads stating the information I need. I'm accustomed to dealing with obedient submissive men, or, at least, ones who can behave that way for a session, so it's part of my screening process to see if they can read and follow the simple directions I have on my ad.

Making decisions based on research, clear and effective communication, decisiveness and follow-through are traits of successful people. Not just financially successful.....success at some aspect of life.

investing a few minutes into making a meaningful connection shows you respect both yourself and me. This means you are much less likely to waste my time, because in doing so. you also wastes yours.

 

[Bizzaynass]

investing a few minutes into making a meaningful connection shows you respect both yourself and me. This means you are much less likely to waste my time, because in doing so. you also wastes yours.

Absolute truth. Thank you for putting it down so clearly and eloquently. It boggles my mind how someone could possibly think that "hey bb, u avail?" would be an effective way to set up a date and then rage on these forums when they don't get a reply. How you initially present yourself to a prospective SP can go a long way toward determining whether you see her or not.

 

[Cock Throppled]

As with everything, there's two sides to this coin.

For whatever reasons, a lot of SP's are just as poor communicators as the clients. A LOT have problems responding in a timely manner.

If a pooner has limited time, and might be loking for a session within the next few hours, why invest the time in a long-winded introduction if he might not get any response?

A quick "Hi" might be enough to at least show she's there, and then a follow-up can get into proper introductions and have questions answered. It might sound rude to some SP's, but it is no different than meeting a girl at a party, and saying "Hi" before engaging further.

I can write, a long, detailed and witty introduction, and get either no response, or a "Hi" back, so we're both in the same boat.

Too many let their pictures act as their only attraction.

An SP's initial job is engaging with possible clients, so any first contact, nomatter how brief, should be welcomed as a potential opportunity for employment.

 

[nwtl]

Send a thoughtful, well worded introduction, response:
160hh 260h full service gfe no cim no cof no bbfs

Send a turse, quick introduction, response:
160hh 260h full service gfe no cim no cof no bbfs

Try to ask follow up questions, or to book either, no response.

Why should I be sending MY resume? I'm looking to HIRE, not be hired.

If I'm in the mood, I'll send some texts out. Sometime I'm looking for something tomorrow, and I state it. Sometimes I'm looking for something now, and I state it. Life happens. Hopefully the providers are busy enough they'll stay in business. So I expect a lot of non-returned texts. If you return text after a period of time, I might have moved on to my next option. Calling me a waste of time because I'm looking to get laid, instead of waiting around to be approved is a bit insulting.

Good luck

 

[Miss Hunter]

There’s a term Darwin called “sexual selection”

For example; Male peacocks with brighter feathers have a much better chance at getting their sexual needs met by female peacocks than the males with dull feathers. The same can be said in regards to inquiries to providers. There’s bright inquiries and dull inquiries... when a lady has an inbox full of both, there is a higher chance she will put priority on the more brightly written ones.

 

[Miss Hunter]

The “hi” “hello” “hiiiiii” “hey sexy” “hi there”
“hey bb r u avail?” “Hey babe” “Rates?” “Address?” “Nice tits, wanna fuk?”

Are competing with the

Hi ___My name is __I saw your ad on ___ I would like to book a __hr session with you on “insert date” at “insert time” at “insert location” please let me know if you are available. I have references if you need them. Which email address/number would you like the deposit sent to?

 

[Big_Guy_Rye]

Good luck

To be fair, he ain't wrong, except for the fact he's looking in the wrong places for the type of action he's shopping around for.

 

[angry anderson]

There’s a term Darwin called “sexual selection”

For example; Male peacocks with brighter feathers have a much better chance at getting their sexual needs met by female peacocks than the males with dull feathers. The same can be said in regards to inquiries to providers. There’s bright inquiries and dull inquiries... when a lady has an inbox full of both, there is a higher chance she will put priority on the more brightly written ones.

obsequious greetings miss hunter
i'm a dull feathered kind of a punter
though my plumage is drab
i will pick up the tab
if you don't act like a self absorbed c**ter

 

[Mr Quim]

obsequious greetings miss hunter
i'm a dull feathered kind of a punter
though my plumage is drab
i will pick up the tab
if you don't act like a self absorbed c**ter

I'm not sure if that's a Poem or a Limerick...
Some wordsmithing it is !

Surprised some of the other resident Smiths, didn't take up the Challenge . LOL



Miss Hunter, Miss Hunter
Please don't scare the Punter
Or He will not share his Gold
But Truth be told...
He just wants to be your C**khold !



LOL

Cheers

 

[Miss Hunter]

I'm not sure if that's a Poem or a Limerick...
Some wordsmithing it is !

Surprised some of the other resident Smiths, didn't take up the Challenge . LOL



Miss Hunter, Miss Hunter
Please don't scare the Punter
Or He will not share his Gold
But Truth be told...
He just wants to be your C**khold !



LOL

Cheers

Haha.

I never bothered responding to him because he censored out the insult

 

[Miss Hunter]

I suppose I should give this fellow credit for taking it a step above a “Hi” with an emoji. Perhaps one day he’ll make it up to an entire sentence...

https://gasstation-nearme.com/bp

 

[Finewine60]

I see I will have to change my introduction a bit.
Normally my message is hi there insert ladies name, my name is xxxx I like your pictures and I would like to book around
This time, may I ask your rates and approx. Location. Thanks for your time.

The reason I use this is there are lots of ads that are not answered by the girl.

My next message I give my personal details