Ever felt sad about losing a regular girl?

[Superhonry]

I'm going through it.

Been seeing her for months on repeat.

She has a very sweet personality and looks cute and provides an awesome GFE experience.

She has let me try out lot of the things others didn't.

I took a two week break from seeing her and recently texted her for a session and no response.

We left on a positive note last time.

It stung because even though I know it makes no sense to feel this way, I really liked her personality and it was a liberating experience being with her.

I hope she is doing alright in her life and I am hoping to hear back.

 

[Thehouse]

I'm going through it.

Been seeing her for months on repeat.

She has a very sweet personality and looks cute and provides an awesome GFE experience.

She has let me try out lot of the things others didn't.

I took a two week break from seeing her and recently texted her for a session and no response.

We left on a positive note last time.

It stung because even though I know it makes no sense to feel this way, I really liked her personality and it was a liberating experience being with her.

I hope she is doing alright in her life and I am hoping to hear back.

Been there man. It's a crumby feeling.

 

[Abby Ryds]

Maybe try her again, sometimes communication via text isnt the best but if you say what you said here I cant see anyone not wanting to see you. Could be you two just had mismatched schedules or maybe got too close even?

 

[ExpCharlee]

It seems weird that she'd just ghost. I've noticed sometimes the text apps I use aren't always 100% reliable. Maybe try again, or try a different method of communication (email, booking form)? Obviously don't pester her but trying again shouldn't hurt.

And yeah. I've lost regular clients and felt sad, on the other side of it. Especially back when I was doing sugar; they are essentially relationships, and the feelings have a few similarities with a breakup. Feels kinda like the end of one of your favourite TV shows. hugs to you sir

 

[ludovico123]

It seems weird that she'd just ghost. I've noticed sometimes the text apps I use aren't always 100% reliable. Maybe try again, or try a different method of communication (email, booking form)? Obviously don't pester her but trying again shouldn't hurt.

And yeah. I've lost regular clients and felt sad, on the other side of it. Especially back when I was doing sugar; they are essentially relationships, and the feelings have a few similarities with a breakup. Feels kinda like the end of one of your favourite TV shows. hugs to you sir

I saw a young lady weekly for about a year and a half.
We developed a version of mutual feelings for each other, but it wasn't a dating relationship.
She made it to a point in her life where she was ready to work a regular job full time.
I was pretty bummed when she told me.
We did have an overnight visit to say good bye though.
I still think of her.
She was wonderful.

 

[ExpCharlee]

I saw a young lady weekly for about a year and a half.
We developed a version of mutual feelings for each other, but it wasn't a dating relationship.
She made it to a point in her life where she was ready to work a regular job full time.
I was pretty bummed when she told me.
We did have an overnight visit to say good bye though.
I still think of her.
She was wonderful.

I love hearing about positive stories like this <3 I have one client I have been seeing (rather infrequently) for 5 years. He enjoys special rates and is the only client who knows my real number and my legal name. I trust him implicitly and will be very sad if we ever go our separate ways forever.

 

[Equity Market investor]

I've lost a few regulars in the past few yrs. It got to the point that we we're becoming good friends. Least I thought anyway. Having a regular can sometimes suck and hurt. But shit happens and I moved on, but i also stayed out of the gm for some time.

Now, fast forward. Once the weather becomes a whole lot nicer and warm... I'll be looking for a new lady to visit... But with less expectations.

So many out there though....but I'd also like to find one who's into light fantasy plays. I like being dominated a bit, let's say lol.

 

[Superhonry]

Maybe try her again, sometimes communication via text isnt the best but if you say what you said here I cant see anyone not wanting to see you. Could be you two just had mismatched schedules or maybe got too close even?

Thanks for the responses guys. I haven't heard back for 4 days. My first text was just asking if she wants to meet up and second was about making a specific appointment, both on March 1. Today I texted again saying I hope she is doing alright as it is unusual to not hear back from her. I also said I try not to cross boundaries and I'm aware of the nature of our relationship and I apologize if I did by mistake. I followed that by saying that of course life can also happen and I wish all is good with with her. I concluded by thanking her for always being awesome when we met and I would still love to hear back.

One thing to notice is that she never openly advertises herself and she took a week break during the last week of December.

 

[Superhonry]

It seems weird that she'd just ghost. I've noticed sometimes the text apps I use aren't always 100% reliable. Maybe try again, or try a different method of communication (email, booking form)? Obviously don't pester her but trying again shouldn't hurt.

And yeah. I've lost regular clients and felt sad, on the other side of it. Especially back when I was doing sugar; they are essentially relationships, and the feelings have a few similarities with a breakup. Feels kinda like the end of one of your favourite TV shows. hugs to you sir

Sorry to double post but she doesn't seem to advertise. I tried finding her on leolist and on here. I lucked out and caught her AD in December last year before she set it to private (according to her). All I can say is these experiences with girls have made me grow as a person in different ways.

 

[UhOh]

Anymore texts at this point will be overdoing with negative outcome. You've said all that needed to said, its up to her now. Don't overdo it.

 

[ExpCharlee]

yeah, definitely seconding this. sounds like you've said your part, now just relish the memories <3

Anymore texts at this point will be overdoing with negative outcome. You've said all that needed to said, its up to her now. Don't overdo it.

 

[Bizzaynass]

I'm kinda in the same boat as the OP right now. I've been seeing the same girl on a bi-monthly basis since December and I learned a few days before Valentine's day that she'd left town for an indefinite period of time. I had planned to see her that week and finding out she was suddenly gone felt like a punch in the gut that took me a few days to recover from. I've seen a couple of different girls since but neither has really compared to her in that she had for me the complete package of looks, attitude, service and most importantly to me, chemistry. The service was always phenomenal but I truly missed (and still do) the post-sex conversation and cuddling that I never thought I'd ever enjoy as much as I do with her. I'm sad now more than I care to admit to the point where I don't really want to see any other provider just because I don't think I'd ever find anyone else I'd share that same level of intimacy with.

 

[Man Mountain]

One day she'll fly away...

 

[ExpCharlee]

this is the cutest thread ever, in case anyone was wondering

 

[Superhonry]

I'm kinda in the same boat as the OP right now. I've been seeing the same girl on a bi-monthly basis since December and I learned a few days before Valentine's day that she'd left town for an indefinite period of time. I had planned to see her that week and finding out she was suddenly gone felt like a punch in the gut that took me a few days to recover from. I've seen a couple of different girls since but neither has really compared to her in that she had for me the complete package of looks, attitude, service and most importantly to me, chemistry. The service was always phenomenal but I truly missed (and still do) the post-sex conversation and cuddling that I never thought I'd ever enjoy as much as I do with her. I'm sad now more than I care to admit to the point where I don't really want to see any other provider just because I don't think I'd ever find anyone else I'd share that same level of intimacy with.

Do you mind me asking who is the girl you are referring to? You can PM me if you don't feel comfortable about saying her name here. I'm only curious because you said the same girl. Thanks.

And ya, like with you, she definitely had an impact on me. I have no drive to seek out another girl at this time and I am still missing her.

 

[lostviking]

I lost a regular lady last summer who ive seen for 8yrs on and off. Wish her well and happiness. She set the bar high enough that I doubt any lady can ever surpass it. Im left with a lot of great memories which ill always be grateful for.

 

[2bfair]

Only been playing for a few years now and I must say it has happened more than once. Even tougher when you bump into her at the mall after she left the business and she gives you a nice hug. Her eyes made me melt.. BUT since then , a few nice gals, then eventually one makes a connection with another gal or two as is the case now.

The older i get, the population of younger women increases. Remember its just play time not a REAL GFE!

 

[badbadboy]

I'm going through it.

Been seeing her for months on repeat.

She has a very sweet personality and looks cute and provides an awesome GFE experience.

She has let me try out lot of the things others didn't.

I took a two week break from seeing her and recently texted her for a session and no response.

We left on a positive note last time.

It stung because even though I know it makes no sense to feel this way, I really liked her personality and it was a liberating experience being with her.

I hope she is doing alright in her life and I am hoping to hear back.

It's only natural to develop feelings for someone you've been intimate with for a long time. Its a tough thing to go through.

I've been through it a few times with being a regular for a few years. Sometimes they reach out months or years down the road and some just leave without saying goodbye and no drama.

Trick is to move on and not get bogged down with things you have no control over.

This is exactly what I think of when in your situation.

 

[ExpCharlee]

I had a regular who treated me so well, was so kind, brought fun gifts, the sex was good, we had a nice time. Then I found he he was MARRIED to another SP...that I KNEW...and he KNEW I KNEW...and he'd lied about it, to me AND her. It really fucked me up. I still think about it sometimes.

 

[sybian]

I had a regular who treated me so well, was so kind, brought fun gifts, the sex was good, we had a nice time. Then I found he he was MARRIED to another SP...that I KNEW...and he KNEW I KNEW...and he'd lied about it, to me AND her. It really fucked me up. I still think about it sometimes.

That's a pretty heavy case of absolute denial on his part.