Greetings:
I have observed several threads over the years with the sentiment that a number of members are lonely and find limited happiness in their life. This hobby often provides them some sense of connection and it is wonderful to hear of ladies who go above and beyond the traditional service provider role to lift the spirits of those afflicted by loneliness which is predicted to become the leading health concern of the elderly, if it is already not the case.
While finding things that make us happy can be challenging it is also worth considering how to make our lives more meaningful which is typically accomplished when we do things for others. When others offer gratitude for what we do for them it tends to energize and give us a reason to get up in the morning and take on the next challenge.
In my work life I have transitioned from a focus on advancing my career (happiness) to more of a mentoring role where I am helping others achieve their goals. I am getting far more joy from this set of activities than focusing on my own interests. While I have been quite fortunate in not feeling lonely I suggest to those who have that seeking opportunities to help others may provide the meaning in your life that can overcome the challenges of seeking out happiness.
The points I make are not just anchored in my own circumstance but have been written about extensively (see the book Man's Search for Meaning as an example)
I have observed several threads over the years with the sentiment that a number of members are lonely and find limited happiness in their life. This hobby often provides them some sense of connection and it is wonderful to hear of ladies who go above and beyond the traditional service provider role to lift the spirits of those afflicted by loneliness which is predicted to become the leading health concern of the elderly, if it is already not the case.
While finding things that make us happy can be challenging it is also worth considering how to make our lives more meaningful which is typically accomplished when we do things for others. When others offer gratitude for what we do for them it tends to energize and give us a reason to get up in the morning and take on the next challenge.
In my work life I have transitioned from a focus on advancing my career (happiness) to more of a mentoring role where I am helping others achieve their goals. I am getting far more joy from this set of activities than focusing on my own interests. While I have been quite fortunate in not feeling lonely I suggest to those who have that seeking opportunities to help others may provide the meaning in your life that can overcome the challenges of seeking out happiness.
The points I make are not just anchored in my own circumstance but have been written about extensively (see the book Man's Search for Meaning as an example)
