Fear Of CBJ Saliva

[Cock Throppled]

An SP I've seen for a few years decided she would no longer allow daty about a year ago. That wasn't a deal-breaker, so I continued to see her.

A few months ago she decided to stop doing CBJ's (she never allowed BBBJ's). When I asked why, she said she was afraid of transferring her OWN saliva to her vagina. I was quite surprised, and it completely killed the mood. I've stopped seeing her because I think it's irrational and unreasonable, although she can set any parameters that work for her.

My question is, has anyone ever encountered a situation like this, and is there any valid health concern to it?

 

[angry anderson]

I had one tell me she didn't want to breathe the same air as me. does that count?

 

[Abbott_]

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That certainly counts more than my covered hand~job .

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[nickcan]

An SP I've seen for a few years decided she would no longer allow daty about a year ago. That wasn't a deal-breaker, so I continued to see her.

A few months ago she decided to stop doing CBJ's (she never allowed BBBJ's). When I asked why, she said she was afraid of transferring her OWN saliva to her vagina. I was quite surprised, and it completely killed the mood. I've stopped seeing her because I think it's irrational and unreasonable, although she can set any parameters that work for her.

My question is, has anyone ever encountered a situation like this, and is there any valid health concern to it?

Almost everybody has HSV 1, can transfer to genitals through oral sex and saliva.

She's in the wrong business to be that careful.

 

[Cock Throppled]

Almost everybody has HSV 1, can transfer to genitals through oral sex and saliva.

She's in the wrong business to be that careful.

Not her own salive to her own genitals, surely?

She only does this for a little extra cash. She doesn't advertise, and her client base is just regulars from before publically retiring. I'm guessing, but probably only about 5-10 clients anyway, and she only lets us know she's available for a few days every couple of months.

 

[ElsiDawson]

Even if she were concerned (however irrationally) of exposing her own genitals to her own saliva, had it occurred to either party to change the condom between CBJ and CFS?

 

[clu]

Can't remember the comedian, but I remember the joke: "I can't masturbate... I'm afraid I might catch an STD from myself."

 

[Cock Throppled]

Even if she were concerned (however irrationally) of exposing her own genitals to her own saliva, had it occurred to either party to change the condom between CBJ and CFS?

No. Why make it more awkward? I just assumed it was an excuse to not do cbj's.

 

[badbadboy]

Isn't the BJ the main reason most of us go to see SP's?

Not getting BBBJ or CBJ is the Wife Experience without a doubt ound:

 

[UhOh]

People should speak to their doctor about self inoculation risks before they go assuming, and maybe she already has.

 

[Cock Throppled]

People should speak to their doctor about self inoculation risks before they go assuming, and maybe she already has.

My question is, has anyone ever encountered a situation like this, and is there any valid health concern to it?

Could you elaborate?

 

[UhOh]

My question is, has anyone ever encountered a situation like this, and is there any valid health concern to it?

Could you elaborate?

There may be a valid health concern depending on what it is she's trying to prevent. Anymore comment than that could result in the thread being locked. A doctor is her best resource unless she able to filter out whats reliable information online from what's BS.

 

[Cock Throppled]

There may be a valid health concern depending on what it is she's trying to prevent. Anymore comment than that could result in the thread being locked. A doctor is her best resource unless she able to filter out whats reliable information online from what's BS.

Since a lot of SP's use their own saliva as lube, and virtually every porn has people spitting all over each other's sex organs, l'd have to conclude it' an irrational fear.

 

[firecracker-84]

The vaginal ecosystem is a very sensitive environment. Some ladies are more sensitive than others. But, as Elsi already mentioned, a simple condom change would suffice.

 

[firecracker-84]

Since a lot of SP's use their own saliva as lube, and virtually every porn has people spitting all over each other's sex organs, l'd have to conclude it' an irrational fear.

Because they do it in porn it means it safe? Really? Are you serious?

 

[UhOh]

Because they do it in porn it means it safe? Really? Are you serious?

Lol. Makes you wonder why bother with condoms when pornstars are doing 50 guy creampie gangbangs

 

[Caramel]

The vaginal ecosystem is a very sensitive environment. Some ladies are more sensitive than others. But, as Elsi already mentioned, a simple condom change would suffice.

this! this would be your answer...it's actually not irrational. She might be very sensitive down there, and the bacteria from her mouth might be causing some issues for her down there, like a smell or discharge, bacterial vaginosis, thrush etc....so I can see why she would want to avoid it. Not saying this actually happens or happens to all women, but I can see how it can happen to some women, it makes sense to me, especially if you have some dental issues. A simple condom change could be the solution, but that isn't economically feasible for some women....maybe this particular lady is on a very tight budget and can't afford dental care and extra condoms? It does happen.

 

[Caramel]

Because they do it in porn it means it safe? Really? Are you serious?

yeah that's a dangerous way of thinking lol

 

[Addison Cortez]

No. Why make it more awkward? I just assumed it was an excuse to not do cbj's.

Changing the condom shouldn't be awkward, it is safe....being unsafe is awkward and changing a condom takes 5 seconds

this! this would be your answer...it's actually not irrational. She might be very sensitive down there, and the bacteria from her mouth might be causing some issues for her down there, like a smell or discharge, bacterial vaginosis, thrush etc....so I can see why she would want to avoid it. Not saying this actually happens or happens to all women, but I can see how it can happen to some women, it makes sense to me, especially if you have some dental issues. A simple condom change could be the solution, but that isn't economically feasible for some women....maybe this particular lady is on a very tight budget and can't afford dental care and extra condoms? It does happen.

bacteria in the mouth is not a fun thing to research and not being a doctor....can't syphilis be spread via any body fluid? I dunno...don't mistake my nurses costume for a medical degree....

but condoms can be purchased at Costco at a very reasonable cost.

 

[ElsiDawson]

Changing the condom shouldn't be awkward, it is safe...


condoms can be purchased at Costco at a very reasonable cost.

No more awkward than getting through the door, dropping the donation, and getting a list of hard limits that includes all oral.


And condoms aren't just cheap (and a write-off), but they're also free any most any clinic or PACE or, fuck it, my house if you need a box or two.