I know it’s individual preference but what do SPs generally think of clients over 60? Is it time for me to give this hobby up as a younger man’s sport?
Not a sp but
If you wish to give up this hobby that is your choice . However I do not think age has any bearing. If you should or should not participate . Personal finances as well Physical and mental health would . But this has to do with your lifestyle and not your age.
I actually find it quite odd myself. I am in my early 50's How some of the much younger sp I have had over for an out call . Find it a challenge to walk up the three flights of stairs to my apartment .
I actually had one young lady age 19 . This girl was not an unfit looking girl . She was a very thin and in shape looking woman . She said at the end of the walk up the stairs to my apartment . After she stopped a minute to catch her breath leaning on the hand rail and breathing very heavenly . Her mouth looking similar to that of a gold fish in its bowl said " oh my god I have got to give up smoking " .
Also as far as physical and mental health go sex is good for both I think . People don't realize this but sex is actually a form of exercise . Something I soon found out the day I lost my virginity. To a much older women at a swingers club It was in the missionary position. When I was inside her (condom on) I was so happy to be actually having sex with a women for the first time . Her husband then told me. I had to move my hips back and forth to actually be having sex. I was at that moment thinking( Shit sex is hard work. Shes just lying their . I am doing the work. Why the fuck then is it so hard to try to get women to have sex with you ? When men do all the work ?
Going to this forum. To ask advice on giving up this hobby. Is a bit like going to a bar to ask people about giving up drinking alcohol .
However if you do decide to stop participating for a while .
Rather than thinking that your permanently going to give up this hobby . As a metaphor . You might think of the idea of turning a corner while walking or driving . So in other words your not cutting yourself off. Of the possibility of ever again participating in the hobby .
Your simply turning the corner away from the hobby for a while That you could always walk back to it when you feel like it.
I know your not talking about ending your sex life because of your age . But you are talking about cutting down on the amount of sex you get .
Here is a rather morbid piece of information that might make you think
Any nurse or doctor who works the graveyard shift in hospitals. Will tell you that one of the last thing's a mans body does before he dies.Is he has an erection when death is going to happen soon same thing with men who are executed by hanging .
That is how important sex is think about it .
