Lesbian Hobbyist

[jazzhands]

As if sifting through the ads and booking with a nice decent piece of ass wasn't hard enough - it becomes even more frustrating and often, quite sad, when I get declined/turned down, or only achieve lackluster service at best, all on account of my gender/sexuality/whatever the fuck..

I mean, I get it - not all SPs are open to catering chicks and/or prefer that of male clientele.. that is okay, yet it leaves lesbian hobbyist such as myself to resort to - for the most part - less desirable providers who are obviously only in it for the money and really want nothing to do with you otherwise. I don't have to shed much light on that subject as I'm sure we've all pretty much been there done that at some point.

Not sure if it's just my approach, the fact that I have pink lady bits, or what, but it does get discouraging to say the least - like what does a dyke really oughtta do to score something nice and at least seemingly genuine?! That's a serious question.. help?

 

[summerbreeze]

have you tried riza's eve, young thing who goes both ways I believe

 

[UhOh]

Mentioning it here is a good start. Not the sort of thing thats just going to fall into your lap.

 

[jazzhands]

I didnt even think about female pooners here. I'm curious about how it works. U just message SPs who do duo and see if they r cool with female pooner?
I know that Anna Bellucci is a ture bi. she has or had a girlfriend.
Ive asked some SPs who do duo if they r really bi. One said "umm kind of... i dont know, its like whatever, but I wounldnt date a girl". The other girl said, she is bi just for the business.

I've always just texted SPs regardless if they did duos or not, just simply asking what their restrictions are and after they answer, if not included in their response, I proceed to ask if they're comfortable with seeing females - to which the response usually ranges between them ghosting me entirely or strongly declining with a sweet "insult" to touch up the rejection. I've heard about Anna Bellucci, might be worth a shot? Otherwise yeah I've only ever seen "gay-for-pay" escorts who make it painfully obvious they don't want to do it but feel like they have to for the bills.. which is NOT a good feeling to be left with.

I'm not sure how common or uncommon it is for female pooners to call up agencies or even partake in the hobby. I mean, I'm sure I'm not the only one! Or am I..?

 

[ndillinger]

Erica Phoenix has advertised all genders welcome before. Emily Darling advertises as queer and shoukd be open to female clients. Both do duos, and probably couples.

 

[Paul Gauguin]

Otherwise yeah I've only ever seen "gay-for-pay" escorts who make it painfully obvious they don't want to do it but feel like they have to for the bills.. which is NOT a good feeling to be left with.

I am of the opinion that most SPs are gay and only have sex with men to pay the bills. We all know that feeling of which you speak. Please don’t take their insults to heart either.

If you come to Victoria, contact Nicole Bliss. She has even put out women oriented ads, I seem to remember.
Good luck.

 

[bdan]

I've always just texted SPs regardless if they did duos or not, just simply asking what their restrictions are and after they answer, if not included in their response, I proceed to ask if they're comfortable with seeing females - to which the response usually ranges between them ghosting me entirely or strongly declining with a sweet "insult" to touch up the rejection.

Perhaps that is part of the problem. Why aren't you leading with the fact that you identify as a lesbian and are seeking an SP that is comfortable with that aspect of sexuality?

They probably think you are a guy that wants some spank bank material so they see you as a time waster.

I personally know an SP that prefers females but goes with males for the money. But she picks her female playmates for her attraction to them.

I think it's easier to be with a MAN she isn't attracted to than a woman as it isn't personal.

It's fantasy.

Just know there are far more lesbian SP's than you, nor any man here would believe.

Good luck with your search.

EDIT: Just saw this post by you, "I mean, I know I'm not really one to talk being that I have a track record of over 100 bans myself (that of which I'm not entirely proud of, and have grown past my trolling days and learnt to keep... "

Now I wonder if you ARE female or still being a troll?

I'll learn someday.

 

[ndillinger]

Perhaps that is part of the problem. Why aren't you leading with the fact that you identify as a lesbian and are seeking an SP that is comfortable with that aspect of sexuality?

Good advice. When I initially contact a SP, I introduce myself by giving my name (which may or may not be my real name) and aproximate age, so that the SP can make an informed choice about selecting me as a client. I still get ghosted half the time by SPs who are currently advertising, but that's a separate issue (or is it?) ...

 

[jazzhands]

Perhaps that is part of the problem. Why aren't you leading with the fact that you identify as a lesbian and are seeking an SP that is comfortable with that aspect of sexuality?

They probably think you are a guy that wants some spank bank material so they see you as a time waster.

I personally know an SP that prefers females but goes with males for the money. But she picks her female playmates for her attraction to them.

I think it's easier to be with a MAN she isn't attracted to than a woman as it isn't personal.

It's fantasy.

Just know there are far more lesbian SP's than you, nor any man here would believe.

Good luck with your search.

EDIT: Just saw this post by you, "I mean, I know I'm not really one to talk being that I have a track record of over 100 bans myself (that of which I'm not entirely proud of, and have grown past my trolling days and learnt to keep... "

Now I wonder if you ARE female or still being a troll?

I'll learn someday.

I tend to avoid the ads that say "gentlemen only" due to the fact that I interpret that as "no women, sorry!" But you do make a pretty good point there - maybe I should just be more forward in my introductory rather than just ask right away what their restrictions are and then proceed - I've had some ladies accuse me of being a time waster/troll/desperate housewife/etc. and even go as far as insult me (Mini Barbie takes the cake for that one that's for damn sure) I've learned my lesson about seeing ladies who will only take me on for extra - guess there's a few things I still need to work on lol

And for the record, I'm not boy nor am I troll. Despite my history on this board, I learnt better and the mod whipped me into shape (finally lol but no in all seriousness, I've changed my ways and am honestly seeking help)

 

[badbadboy]

Perhaps that is part of the problem. Why aren't you leading with the fact that you identify as a lesbian and are seeking an SP that is comfortable with that aspect of sexuality?

They probably think you are a guy that wants some spank bank material so they see you as a time waster.

I personally know an SP that prefers females but goes with males for the money. But she picks her female playmates for her attraction to them.

I think it's easier to be with a MAN she isn't attracted to than a woman as it isn't personal.

It's fantasy.

Just know there are far more lesbian SP's than you, nor any man here would believe.

Good luck with your search.

EDIT: Just saw this post by you, "I mean, I know I'm not really one to talk being that I have a track record of over 100 bans myself (that of which I'm not entirely proud of, and have grown past my trolling days and learnt to keep... "

Now I wonder if you ARE female or still being a troll?

I'll learn someday.

I was gonna post til I saw your quote from her.

Who gets banned 100 times and still survives to post another day? Not around here unless it's a VPN .

Throws all credibility out, don't you think?

 

[jazzhands]

I was gonna post til I saw your quote from her.

Who gets banned 100 times and still survives to post another day? Not around here unless it's a VPN .

Throws all credibility out, don't you think?

It was actually over 100 if you include this one - not that I take pride of any kind in last year's little shitshow with the continuous bans which were well-deserved to say the least.. I guess you could say I matured, got off my soapbox and stopped insulting the ladies who'd turn me down or giving PerbMod grief for all the bans. Yet that is a fair call, and I know it takes a lot off my credibility regardless but I'm honestly trying to move past that and stop being such a poor loser on the playing field. It is what it is - and the mods are well aware of my history - especially PerbMod. I've learnt to keep my cool and use the forum for its purpose not just because I need somewhere to lash out because I couldn't score a date with the latest 10/10 babe due to her restrictions/preferences (pathetic and immature, I know)

 

[jazzhands]

I appreciate everyone's suggestions and advice though! Helps a ton! Thanks guys :happy:

 

[jazzhands]

thats impressive.:amen:



who is this 10/10 babe? 10 for both f and b?

There's been a few here and there that striked me as straight 10s, mostly the traveling/part-time who literally come and go like fucking seasons lol but personally if I had to name one I'd say Tia Luxx (obviously!) but that's just all based on expectation (unfortunately) rather than experience being that I have yet to actually meet a 10 or at least something above 7.5

 

[Officeguy]

ive never seen Tia but I seen her face pic on her twitter before(now deleted). She's more like 7 for looks but 10 for attitude and service. Thats what i heard from one of her fans.
Ive seen 20-30 SPs here but have only seen 1 SP with 10 for looks. I think if u really wanna see 10 looking SPs u need to go to bigger cities like NY or Toronto. Im from Tokyo and there r many fabulous 10 Russian SPs there. But their rates start from $500 1h with rusty cbj. lol

Tia Luxx at one time did post a close up of her eyes only on twitter, but she has never had a pic of her full face on any website

 

[jazzhands]

Tia Luxx at one time did post a close up of her eyes only on twitter, but she has never had a pic of her full face on any website

Yeah I don't do Twitter lol guess I missed out on that - however she's been at the top of my to-do list for quite some time now but she seems very selective when it comes to her clientele and not sure if she'd even be down to see chicks. Pretty sure she only digs guys but I could be wrong. Regardless, she definitely looks yummy and based on previous reviews - oh so fucking delicious ^_^ ugh

 

[eatnout]

Yeah I don't do Twitter lol guess I missed out on that - however she's been at the top of my to-do list for quite some time now but she seems very selective when it comes to her clientele and not sure if she'd even be down to see chicks. Pretty sure she only digs guys but I could be wrong. Regardless, she definitely looks yummy and based on previous reviews - oh so fucking delicious ^_^ ugh

From a man's point of view, I can confirm she IS delicious! I'd bet she would be OK with it. Book through her website and let her know your intent.

 

[jazzhands]

From a man's point of view, I can confirm she IS delicious! I'd bet she would be OK with it. Book through her website and let her know your intent.

No confirmation needed, however you did just make me that more envious that I don't have a penis lmao she's gotta be the only provider I'd happily throw over 300 quid at. Easily!

 

[DHB]

I think your first text should be "Are you ok with Female Clients?" If you get any attitude from that question then it is someone no one should bother with.

Also if you deal with the more reliable services like WCA, 1122, 9005, Nugens you will be talking to the phone person who is less likely to have an attitude.