self loathing

[dickencyder]

I feel like a POS right now. Just realized I was robbed from one of three ladies I saw last week:

well reviewed rookie
reputable agency with rookie talent
neutral reviewed SP from

sigh...

left my bag on the counter while I showered. She took $400 USD from my wallet. Lol my regulars were all busy last week and i thought I would try some new blood.

 

[westwoody]

It can happen to all of us. It has happened to me, it was embarrassing and annoying.

Most women are decent and trustworthy. A couple I trust with my house keys, never any problem.

 

[VanessainVictoria]

wow , that is a disgusting thing for an sp to do

you should not be self loathing , it is not your fault that sp is a thief

Yeah thats pretty shitty and definitely not your fault

 

[FreeG]

A long time ago in a city far far away, I was getting a blow job and a very large man came through the door. I managed to get my clothes & ran about 400 feet up the street I got dressed. It was winter too. Many thanks to my then Goodlife Fitness pass. The blow job SUCKED and I wasn't lost in my own ecstasy when I noticed she picked up her phone and started to text someone.. I went home and read Terb on my Mac. lol.

I thought in your other thread you said you don't want a Mac?

 

[dickencyder]

Thank you for the PM's. some of you have asked who the ladies are. Since I do not know for a fact who the lady is I shall not even name them. I just want to vent and get internet hugz.

 

[Man Mountain]

I just want to vent and get internet hugz.

Sorry to read what happened. Internet hugz is the least I can offer...

:hug:

An old favourite:

 

[take8easy]

Thank you for the PM's. some of you have asked who the ladies are. Since I do not know for a fact who the lady is I shall not even name them. I just want to vent and get internet hugz.

Then what's the point of having a review board?
As much I feel terrible for you but I think by not naming you are doing a disservice to all of us!

 

[felixthecat]

As much I feel terrible for you but I think by not naming you are doing a disservice to all of us!

If he mentioned 3 names, would you start suspecting all 3 of them? It's not fair to expose them like that.

Most escorts can be trusted with your belongings. Too bad there are exceptions. It cannot even be worth the risk, only desperate ones or kleptomaniacs would do it I think. As Tim said, it's a good habit to not carry extra cash or wallet with you.

 

[Damaged]

At least provide the name of the agency so we can chose whether we want to avoid that agency to limit the risk.

 

[Lo-ki]

I feel like a POS right now. Just realized I was robbed from one of three ladies I saw last week:

well reviewed rookie
reputable agency with rookie talent
neutral reviewed SP from

sigh...

left my bag on the counter while I showered. She took $400 USD from my wallet. Lol my regulars were all busy last week and i thought I would try some new blood.

Sorry to hear that..
When I visit SP's I take nothing with me other then the donation and a car key...

 

[summerbreeze]

same with me, unless its a favorite who I absolutely trust

don't bring anything with you which can be stolen

probably a larger problem with the newer girls towards the end of the month, many only start this business after they have run their savings down and if business is slow (like it is in the summer) they might out of desperation need to supplement their cashflow

think of it as a donation to someone who really needs some help and that you have just made a deposit in the karma bank account

no need for self loathing if you take that perspective...

 

[clu]

If you as a booker can't give me the code and let me Write it down, and leave the phone in the car, I'm listening to the reasons why.

Address collectors.

SPs have to contend with people faking bookings just to get their address/apartment details for nefarious reasons (e.g. abolitionist vigilantes who intend to out the incall to the landlord, stalkers, whatever else). Having a line of sight on the visitor at the front door reduces the odds that it's one of those.

 

[felixthecat]

IF A Client SPECIFICALLY tells you that he prefers NOT to take his cell phone, PLEASE BE WILLING to text him the door code so that he can WRITE IT DOWN, while he keeps his cell phone in the car?

Not practical. It wastes everybody's time if the buzzer doesn't work or you were told a wrong code or written it down incorrectly, etc. Will you walk back to your car then? Without means of communication, you waste time (=money) and make the SP nervous in advance that you are some kind of no-show/creep.

Get a damn burner phone for $100 tops and carry it. Nobody will want to steal that, even if it's easy to do (it's not; you can keep it close to you all the time in a small bag or in a pocket).

 

[summerbreeze]

doubt the girls will steal your phone but some of the micros have been robbed by asian gangs in the past

 

[JonnyBoi]

I still feel as a PSA you need to let us know which agency and/or girl it was.

It's important to us in a review board to know this. The outfit needs to fire this girl and learn that actions like these could cost them many, many customers.

 

[BobbyMcgee]

100% need to share please as many, myself included, are scheduled upcoming with your exact stated theft profile
thank you

 

[Billiam]

I still feel as a PSA you need to let us know which agency and/or girl it was.

It's important to us in a review board to know this. The outfit needs to fire this girl and learn that actions like these could cost them many, many customers.

Please, please people, read the freakin' post - he's stating that there are three possible culprits - he doesn't know the answer to your ill-informed query.
It's just a friendly caveat.

 

[Claire Monet]

That really sucks that happened to you!! I would never in a million years think of stealing from a client. It's really too bad that you also don't know who did it because if you had a great time with the ladies I guess you won't be returning to either of the 3 out of suspicion. Money is replaceable but trust is harder to gain back. Don't let this ruin the rest of your adventures!

 

[badbadboy]

Sorry to hear this has happened to you. Always one of my fears seeing a new SP and not knowing if she is gonna go through my bag or pants when I'm not around.

I think it's unfortunate that you really don't know who did it. I do have a lot of respect for not divulging the three SP's no matter the amount of pressure.

Talk about tarring all three with the same brush! Honesty and integrity are recognized as attributes for everyone in this industry. That can disappear in a micro-second if attached to a theft they had nothing to do with at all. The two others would suffer the same blame even though innocent.

 

[ddcanz]

I've had misc. items stolen from my car during SW front seat BJs- even an attempt while face to face straddle fucking where she tried to reach into the back seat where my jacket was. Also, reaching down to go through my pockets with my pants around my ankles.
Live and learn.
There are SPs I would unequivocally trust- that is my basic nature and I'm a pretty good judge of character. Never had an issue at any incall- Indy, Micro, AMP.
However, doesn't mean you shouldn't still be cautious. No point taking anything inside to the rendezvous that you don't need- cash, keys, cell etc.
Of course, for those pooners that use transit or don't have a vehicle this is not always an option.