Pooners: How to hide your pooner surfing from your wife

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One of the better perspectives on this topic I have read comes from the Honest Courtesan, Maggie McNeil, who was responding to a letter from a woman who claims she would never marry a man who had paid for sex:

"I’m not telling you that all men will cheat, because that wouldn’t be true; what I’m saying is that many will, and that it’s foolish to throw out a man you profess to love merely because he has a fairly-typical flaw. I might point out that many a client comes to sex workers precisely because he is wise enough not to discard a woman he loves merely because she has the correspondingly-typical female flaw, namely losing interest in sex after a few years of marriage. Everyone agrees that good relationships need to be based on more than sex, so why is it that so many people believe that a sexual disagreement is sufficient grounds for ending an otherwise-good relationship? Even if a man cheats on you, applying some mechanistic “zero tolerance” rule like a guillotine to sever a connection you find beneficial in every other way is cheating both yourself and him."
Isn't this really fake news or like "science" from Monsanto telling me that GMO apples are better for me? The woman making this claim makes a profit off men cheating on their wife for their "needs". Should we just excuse the male "need" to do something. Should we forgive rape too? I mean, the male had needs so well...

So I'm a hacker. Would you forgive my need to attack every weak computer? Should I exploit everything I have the power too & release the information ignoring the sea of fire that would ensure? Should a cop, equipped with skills civilians don't have, use those skills for his own good because "he's just being a cop". Or the same with a soldier?

The claim "all men cheat" and the justification for it is nothing but bullshit. It's an excuse to do wrong just because you can and then justify it as "boys being boys". You've either got integrity or you don't.
 

GQ1

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Adding on life is all about experiences, and besides sex is just an act that every guy needs. To me your not cheating if your not emotionally involved. I'll still come home and take care of my girl because shes my girl.
Don't forget to kiss your wife/SO real good when you "come home", after you've been chowing down on an SP's pussy. I'm sure she'd appreciate the aftertaste.
 

Ms Erica Phoenix

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Don't forget to kiss your wife/SO real good when you "come home", after you've been chowing down on an SP's pussy. I'm sure she'd appreciate the aftertaste.
That's where the mouthwash, gum, toothpaste, bodywash/soap for a shower comes in handy AFTER the sex concludes, dude. I'm also always happy to provide makeup wipes to take off the extra red lipstick so many of you love to see smeared across your cock & to check you carefully for the telltale signs before you leave.
 

GQ1

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That's where the mouthwash, gum, toothpaste, bodywash/soap for a shower comes in handy AFTER the sex concludes, dude. I'm also always happy to provide makeup wipes to take off the extra red lipstick so many of you love to see smeared across your cock & to check you carefully for the telltale signs before you leave.
No, that's where that "dude" shouldn't be banging around on his SO, unless he's fine with her reciprocating his actions. But I know you ladies rely heavily on clients stuck in that joke called marriage.
 

Ms Erica Phoenix

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No, that's where that "dude" shouldn't be banging around on his SO, unless he's fine with her reciprocating his actions. But I know you ladies rely heavily on clients stuck in that joke called marriage.
A lot of us understand that monogamy is not a natural state for a primate, even one with opposable thumbs, & we don't judge.
 

GQ1

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Hence my statement, "that joke called marriage."
It's a "joke" because of the fact you pointed out: it's not natural for a man to remain with the same partner his whole life, which is why many have affairs and visit escorts. But if their wives had affairs, ninety nine percent would not be fine with it. I'm not married, thankfully, and I know if I did get married, I would want to start banging around on my wife after a couple of years, and that would not be fair, neither to her, nor to my kids. I've been in relationships, at which time I ceased this hobby. When the relationship ended, I resumed. I don't sneak around like a goof.
 

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In Japanese culture, pooning isn't considered as cheating and guys talk about their pooning life in front of their wives.
 

GQ1

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In Japanese culture, pooning isn't considered as cheating and guys talk about their pooning life in front of their wives.
Yes, and there are places that provide sexual services to ladies in Japan, though a lot less common, obviously. So as long as both partners are fine with the other's "pooning", then there's no cheating and sneaking around going on. There are also a lot of Japanese wives who are not fine with their husband's "pooning". But it all comes back to my earlier statement: "that joke called marriage."
 

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Nice! Another thing -- marrieds who own Macs that run on Sierra and who communicate with SPs via DM on Twitter might want to check their Notifications settings. It seems that Sierra defaults to providing on screen notifications for all the apps on your Mac, and that becomes a little awkward when an SP on Twitter messages you back while your wife is using the Mac :fear: :smash::bolt:
That happens with El Capitain as well. i don't like the Chrome sync shit at all! i have a few laptops and the newest one i keep clean if it's needed for something other than crushing candies!
 

mrman848

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I'll be that guy.

Don't cheat on your wife! If your wife and you have different levels of sex drive then maybe you should not have gotten married.

And yes, I'm an annoyed single 32 year old who can't get a wife because I refuse to settle for a church going prude who wants sex once per month but wants to nag 3times a week.
 

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Well said. I think it's very rare that you find "the right one". If you do, you're very lucky. Most relationships are a compromise. Far from perfect. The question is how far.

I've been married 35 years. Not all of it bad. The last little while has been more of a struggle. People has advised me to get a divorce and move on. But my sense of obligation to take care of my wife lives on. I was a frustrated man, feeling trapped. Seeing SPs over the past year actually made me less bitter because I know there's salvation. I've met some incredible ladies that I can have open conversations with on just about anything as well as fulfill the intimacy that was lacking. I think it actually saved my marriage. I'm more tolerant of my situation at home.

People says, move on, find happiness, you deserve it. Sure I may consider "moving on" if I can find happiness with another. But as I'm finding out, that is just not a realistic goal. A very wise lady told me recently (she just happens to be a SP), happiness is like a quilt. It's not one piece, it's many pieces stitched together that makes her happy. So it's not one person, it's many... I have much to learn...
You have pretty much described my life as well!
 

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In Japanese culture, pooning isn't considered as cheating and guys talk about their pooning life in front of their wives.
Yes....but do they post pictures..?
 
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