legal name and deposit...

[JonnyBoi]

I think that's a fair statement. This forum is full of professional pooners who should know what to check/where to check. But for a whole bunch of the casual guys who do this a couple times a year they may simply not realize to check the website. And given the prevalence of older guys in this industry they simply may not be that good at computers. Yeah, there are guys who ignore the shit solely in the hopes of chatting up the SP but I think a good portion just might not realize. People ask me for technical assistance *all* the time. My solution is usually to Google it. I don't turn to them and say "google it"

Being to harsh or constricting might well turn off what is a very good client. Sometimes questions really are just innocent.

Thanks for the empathy Yvr_hacker, it is much appreciated.

Yeah I ain't sore about it - it is what it is. I just figured if I ever want to see these "courtesans" I'll have to put up a great bit of effort.. Perhaps when I am older (currently though, Scarlette Rose and Catherine James interesting, but Catherine says she's from the corporate world and I am afraid we've met before... ><)

 

[JonnyBoi]

I haven't thought about what would actually happen if I do meet up with someone that I know IRL - I just think it might be awkward...
I doubt she'd be a co worker, it's much more likely she's in the other side of the table and we have discussed business in a conference room before. I am unsure at this point - to be fair, I just can't find too too much info about her but I really enjoy her write up.

As for questions: i don't think I asked anything stupid? I was super new and didn't have any references. I enjoy reading some ads/peruse their websites and see what they've written (I hope it's them anyways..). It feels like I am going to read a whole book and I found their write ups (to be equivocal to the first few paragraphs of the first chapter) to be interesting... I don't know if it makes sense.

For trying to contact them again: well the one that rejected me is a lost cause I think; but I am interested in the two ladies that I suggested.

I just don't know when or if I might take that plunge due to prior experience.. I am slightly nervous about it now because this whole process makes it feel like a job interview... Hahha. I've met CEO's with less anxiety..

EDIT: to be back on topic - as this point I am not super interested in a lengthy "screening process", but perhaps in the future. I cannot give up my legal name or my job title however.. that's just a flat decline for me

 

[steverino]

I am in the group of those who would find this far more effort than necessary to visit one of the many high quality sp's that are available without this requirement.

 

[mrman848]

Interesting responses. I now know why SP require all this effort. Makes sense with lots of no shows.

Didn't know SP treat this as a turf war. ....I guess there isn't enough pooners to go around in some areas. Lol

 

[Alix Turner]

At 1,734 CAD/oz gold price, a 200lb accountant currently would be over 5.5 million CAD.
Not worth it for most. Perhaps rentals are cheaper.

I don't think you can rent an accountant, even if they are made of gold, you still have to pay them for their services. :eyebrows:

 

[Damaged]

...An upscale, well reviewed escort has no desire to share your personal information with anyone. That's how she makes a living and this is her job. Why would she destroy her income producing ability? She's very aware that information is shared on these forums, etc. This isn't the FBI man. You're name is Joe Blow, you want a blow job.

Some Sp's take the scorched earth approach to leaving this business and think nothing of burning as many guys on the way out as possible. Nothing positive comes from a SP knowing your true identity, my advice, just move on and find a SP that doesn't require this info. After all she isn't going to give you her real name.

 

[BaconNeggs]

Paying before the service is a really bad idea. This is a stranger.
If she isn't a stranger because you are a regular she wouldn't ever ask you forna deposit.
First at the very least ask her to text you a picture of her business license and her drivers license to be sure she is who she claims so she has something invested into this transaction if she flakes out with your money.
Or else here is an easier way to get rid of all your extra money.
Put a wad of cash in your pocket.
Go out for a nice dinner.
Eat the delicious meal.
When the waitress brings the bill hand her the wad of cash.
She at least earned it and will appreciate the 200 dollar tip on your 50 dollar bill.
Much better use of your extra money since you want to give it away.

 

[lenny]

Interesting responses. I now know why SP require all this effort. Makes sense with lots of no shows.

Didn't know SP treat this as a turf war. ....I guess there isn't enough pooners to go around in some areas. Lol

Turf war type stuff is just the dark side of human nature. It occurs everywhere, from the streets of Vancouver to the gogos of Bangkok to the dens of sin in Singapore.

As for effort, that's why many guys prefer the DTES. No ID, no pre payment, no condom, no shower. Lots of HIV, though.

 

[mrman848]

Some Sp's take the scorched earth approach to leaving this business and think nothing of burning as many guys on the way out as possible. Nothing positive comes from a SP knowing your true identity, my advice, just move on and find a SP that doesn't require this info. After all she isn't going to give you her real name.

And this is why. You never know who gets vindictive. They could be mad because they now have wrinkles and can't charge courtesan rates. Most likely she is addicted to something, cigs, drugs, gambling, etc... And addicts cease to be rational and literally do anything.

Like I said before, as long as buying sex remains illegal, I'll never give out real name. If you get ripped off you can't trust porky pig to back you up.