Rough month
- Thread starter JJ Marshall
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The thing with SA is trying to find somebody looking for the same thing as you. SA has it's share of fake profiles, fake pics,etc... What it is mostly missing compared to BP are the hard druggies, gang members, pimps, etc... Some of the girls have an SP point of view, some want to see only a few guys, some want a one on one setup. Some are happy with pay as you go, some want a monthly stipend, some don't want anything other than casual hookups. Some only want money and support without any physical contact. From what I've seen some treat it like a regular dating site and don't really understand its purpose.
From my point of view there just aren't enough women on there to make it worth while for me; I find most to be too young for my taste.
From my point of view there just aren't enough women on there to make it worth while for me; I find most to be too young for my taste.
Rough month? Try rough year....i dont use backpage at all it is gone to the gutter i dont waste my time on it whatsoever... I see one woman who i have an arrangement with and no i didnt meet her on SA but she almost went on there but i used to know her and just happened to start seeing her before she did....its working out well but like anything else feelings always develop its human nature...but we are still doing it....i recommend to anyone to find that one woman that would want such arrangement. I do see an escort seldom when my one is not available but stick to that one escort who plays safe. Backpage is a cesspool and i strongly advise any newbies to look at other sources of entertainment.
So rough. Here I am early Saturday evening with money burning a hole in my pocket and can't find anyone, anywhere. Maybe I'm expecting too much. Don't rob me, don't stab me, be halfway decent looking, and don't weigh more than I can squat. Best choices appear to be jerking off to chaturbate or Aquarius for a blow job that may or may not be from a tranny. Happy Saturday to me. Hope others are doing better.
I met with two as well in the past 6 months. One was really really really short and cute, but had entirely idiotic expectation$.
Harley, Gia and Nikita all in the advertising section.
If you still don't want to go you could give me the money and i'll tell you all about it.
Nice selection. Nikita not my type. Gia works restricted hours. Harley really, really interested me but I'm not willing to give out my account name or provide references. I like to stay under the radar. My loss on that one. Although I'm surprised I haven't seen a review or comment on Harley.Harley, Gia and Nikita all in the advertising section.
If you still don't want to go you could give me the money and i'll tell you all about it.
Gia works some weekends by her ads. Wouldn't hurt to send a text and ask.
I've seen Harley. She's good. Fit, friendly, as advertised. One of the best kissers i've seen.
More reviews in the Van section.
The most accurate one i remember reading was Hugh's. Possibly on the other board.
In general, it's getting tougher to find a good sp to scratch that itch. It's been on a steady decline, but in my opinion this is one of worst months yet. More fakes/scammers and uglies that you can shake your stick at. Yeah, I know, somebody will reply with a list of girls to see blah blah blah. But this month , in my opinion stands out as the worst one I have seen in the last 2 years.
Just pull it already and stop the nagging........geesh
View this while you tug away...try not to get your computer screen sticky!!
View this while you tug away...try not to get your computer screen sticky!!
Many of us do not see members nagging - just stating their opinion and their experiences. The problem is the extremely high percentage of ads that are scams - many using stolen/fake pics, some out to rip off clients by short-changing on time or even setting up clients to be robbed. This problem has never ever been as pronounced as it is now. The % of fake appointments made by clients is also at an all-time high too, so the legitimate SPs that provide consistent positive service are also noticing this. Some of us have been "investing" over $1K every month, some even more, and would be more aware of how this hobby is not as fulfilling as before.
SA was a great concept that provided satisfaction for both the SBabies and SD. Some were satisfied with occasional dates but majority were looking for a longer arrangement but it could be mutually arranged. Lately though, many of the ladies advertising on BP have heard about SA and pretend to be students on SA (bio claims "'some college", etc) and some are asking for funds up front. So it is changing there also.
Sure there are a few great local SPs to book but a majority of clients relish variety and an SA arrangement does not offer a solution. If a client has to travel far to an arranged appointment and it ends up as a no-show or a rip-off, then it becomes even more frustrating, same with someone taking time off work to drive across the city for a similar disappointment! In the past at least there were more massage parlors with more appealing attendants that could be visited, but that has also deteriorated. Result? Some of us that were spending over a K are now holding off, as mentioned in a post where the client states that he has cash in hand but no place to go to spend it after a failed session. Try finding a reliable provider on short notice when you have a limited time frame. At least it helps this time of the year (April 30) to fend off the biggest rip-off organization in this country!
SA was a great concept that provided satisfaction for both the SBabies and SD. Some were satisfied with occasional dates but majority were looking for a longer arrangement but it could be mutually arranged. Lately though, many of the ladies advertising on BP have heard about SA and pretend to be students on SA (bio claims "'some college", etc) and some are asking for funds up front. So it is changing there also.
Sure there are a few great local SPs to book but a majority of clients relish variety and an SA arrangement does not offer a solution. If a client has to travel far to an arranged appointment and it ends up as a no-show or a rip-off, then it becomes even more frustrating, same with someone taking time off work to drive across the city for a similar disappointment! In the past at least there were more massage parlors with more appealing attendants that could be visited, but that has also deteriorated. Result? Some of us that were spending over a K are now holding off, as mentioned in a post where the client states that he has cash in hand but no place to go to spend it after a failed session. Try finding a reliable provider on short notice when you have a limited time frame. At least it helps this time of the year (April 30) to fend off the biggest rip-off organization in this country!
So, you'll use a phone to contact her, but won't reveal your anonymous name on a private board? I can see not wanting to reveal too much to an unknown advertiser with stolen pictures in her ad. This is not that case.
Under the radar is one thing, but not wanting to give a well reviewed lady your screen name or references, that is either paranoid or creepy.
And, as you say, your loss. As well, when you put that level of restriction on your search for happiness, not finding a suitable partner is not really something you should be complaining about
Or, you can use a board like this one to help make your decision, and use it to weed out the risky advertisers, and qualify the providers that are well reviewed by respected members.
That is the reason this board exists. If you cannot trust the reviews here or heed the warnings, why bother coming here, let alone posting?
The board is a great resource for oldies and newbies.
A few days ago someone said they did their homework and read the board. Then they said they transferred money to someone they had never met.
So why did he go against all advice?
Same with fake pics.
There are lots of posts explaining how to do image search. There are lots of post about fake pics in ads.
So why do guys ask about ads that are easily detectable fakes?
A few days ago someone said they did their homework and read the board. Then they said they transferred money to someone they had never met.
So why did he go against all advice?
Same with fake pics.
There are lots of posts explaining how to do image search. There are lots of post about fake pics in ads.
So why do guys ask about ads that are easily detectable fakes?
Here is the post from Pharic who sent the wire transfer money, for those who did not see it or don't remember it.
https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?236295-Just-starting-out-Tough-go
https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?236295-Just-starting-out-Tough-go
