I think it takes more than being polite, she looks for many traits with in your emails and text, then she wants to phone chat a few times..plus she will ask some direct questions etc..I agree I think her schedule is now where she wants it to be, I know she has a life outside of this life for us, and she sticks to it...blessed is all I can say that I am, very blessed...so if she is not responding then it might not be for what ever reason..but she has specifics so check her website out on EC and go from there..all the best...and again, nothing but respect she is far beyond what many have said, she is above all that I have ever read on...she is one of a kind!!! I assure you this...