Was wondering if SP's have a prepared story in case they are called by a wife/girlfriend/boyfriend who say they found your number or name on their partner's phone and wondered who you were?
Question for SP's
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I suppose I would say I was a personal trainer, but I can't imagine that happening. I only conduct business via email, save for a few trusted regulars. Why do women snoop anyways? My mom always taught me never to snoop, because you just might find what you're looking for, and it will make you unhappy. If you feel the need to snoop, I feel like you already have your answer.
if your wife is snooping around looking for things,
the writing is probably on the wall your goose is cooked my friend.
the writing is probably on the wall your goose is cooked my friend.
I'm sure a wife would never question why her fat, out of shape couch potato was dealing with a personal trainer. LOL.
Most SP's don't just use email for contact. In any event, email is not private, and the email address could still be questioned if it is unknown.
As for SO's snooping - it doesn't have to be a suspicion, it could be innocently looking for something else. If people live together they often share phones and computers. I just thought SP's might have pre-determiined stories just in case.
It doesn't happen often, but when it does, I have strategies in place.
First, I try to ascertain who she is calling about. That also serves the purpose of giving my friend a heads up that he is being scrutinized.
If I can quickly figure out who the gentleman is, I will create a believable explanation based on how often I know he has called me, what he does for a living, his interests etc.
Here is how one such conversation went:
Angry partner - screaming and crying at the same time because she googled my number and realized I was a companion
Me "I'm really sorry, but I don't know who you are taking about."
Partner "John Smith. "
Me "The real estate agent? I've been looking for a place on the Sunshine Coast for the last 3 years, and he lets me know whenever something comes up. This is really embarrassing for me. He knows I work in alternative medicine, and I would be mortified if you told him about this. It would just make things really weird. Is there any chance you could not tell him about this. I don't want him thinking any differently about me."
And the standard backup plan:
I'm getting rid of all my ex's crap. Everything from automotive parts, tools and outdoor gear to all kinds of things with wires and plugs sticking out of them. Are you interested in buying anything?
First, I try to ascertain who she is calling about. That also serves the purpose of giving my friend a heads up that he is being scrutinized.
If I can quickly figure out who the gentleman is, I will create a believable explanation based on how often I know he has called me, what he does for a living, his interests etc.
Here is how one such conversation went:
Angry partner - screaming and crying at the same time because she googled my number and realized I was a companion
Me "I'm really sorry, but I don't know who you are taking about."
Partner "John Smith. "
Me "The real estate agent? I've been looking for a place on the Sunshine Coast for the last 3 years, and he lets me know whenever something comes up. This is really embarrassing for me. He knows I work in alternative medicine, and I would be mortified if you told him about this. It would just make things really weird. Is there any chance you could not tell him about this. I don't want him thinking any differently about me."
And the standard backup plan:
I'm getting rid of all my ex's crap. Everything from automotive parts, tools and outdoor gear to all kinds of things with wires and plugs sticking out of them. Are you interested in buying anything?
I could certainly use investment advice!!
May I kindly request that, should I ever be unfortunate enough to leave such evidence on my phone, that the lady say she is an investment advisor and that she's been helping me set up funds to enjoy a surprise vacation with my dear significant other in the future.
An unlocked phone is irresistable to some. I've seen them with the tracking and monitoring spyware so wifey can watch his every move and listen to every conversation too.
As you say by then any trust is long gone and he is doomed.
ok, I have to ask, if you are married or with a significant other, why are you with a SP anyways?
I hear alot of well, she doesnt give me what i want, we dont have sex anymore
why are you still with a girl who is like that?
and no crap about ohhh our life is great except for the sex, we are guys, sex is pretty important
I hear alot of well, she doesnt give me what i want, we dont have sex anymore
why are you still with a girl who is like that?
and no crap about ohhh our life is great except for the sex, we are guys, sex is pretty important
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I'm getting rid of all my ex's crap. Everything from automotive parts, tools and outdoor gear to all kinds of things with wires and plugs sticking out of them. Are you interested in buying anything?[/QUOTE]
replying to an add on craigs list or he may have called about one of my adds, I am always buying tools off Craigs ...good Stratagy...
I'm getting rid of all my ex's crap. Everything from automotive parts, tools and outdoor gear to all kinds of things with wires and plugs sticking out of them. Are you interested in buying anything?[/QUOTE]
replying to an add on craigs list or he may have called about one of my adds, I am always buying tools off Craigs ...good Stratagy...
Because even without sex there is still a lot of merit to the relationship? If you loved line dancing and you and your wife were compatible in so many ways except she decided after a few years that she really wasn't into line dancing, would you call off the marriage or just go line dancing on your own?
