#1 Safety 1st! Do not sacrifice safety or let clients tell you what they think is "safe" etc, use common sense and talk to your dr. and other ladies in the industry.
#2 Take self defense, even if you have security or not, it helps you be assertive and avoid unwanted confrontations...
#3 Only get into this lifestyle if you really enjoy sex. If you don't it will be like you are raping yourself every time! If you enjoy sex and giving pleasure, it's more fun!
#4 Always have a safety net, safe-call, driver or some other way you can call before and after your appt and/or send the addy to a trusted person for outcalls so someone has your location and your eta home! Do not skip this step!
#5 If you get a weird or bad vibe from an inquiry, they ask too many questions or want to know exactly where you live, just avoid these types if you get a weird vibe. Trust your instincts, it's not worth the potential $$ to actually risk your life and safety because some dude wanted to ask 20 personal questions etc. Also: gents plz keep questions particular to booking inquiries for dates/times/rates, and a few goals for the session to make sure that the lady does what you prefer. usually by the 3rd text the details should have been discussed. Anything longer can be emailed. If you have seen a guest before that is different, but for new people it's good to keep it short and avoid personal questions, and only give your address once you speak to the person over the phone. Again, if you get a weird vibe, just walk. 99% of the time you will probably not have a problem and the phone call is to hear their voice, no slurred speech etc.
#6 Stay the hell away from car dates!!! That's how ladies go missing! If you have a long-time client who is definitely not a threat and you have established trust and it's a fantasy fulfillment that may be something fun, but car dates with strangers is like playing russian roulette. Respectable gentlemen will find better alternatives to get together with an escort like Perb leo or BP.
#7 Go to Work Sober! As with any other job, arrive sober! If you are doing a dinner date a glass or 2 of wine may be normal during the appt. But arriving drunk or smelling of alcohol is not acceptable. I also would suggest not smoking right before an appt, since you show up smelling like an ashtray. Do not do any other substances before, during or after the appt while in the company of your guest. ie: I do stags which have anywhere from 8-150 people usually. At some point someone always offers the dancers blo or weed... Just say "no thanks sweetie/babe/sexy, I have to work, but I hope you are enjoying yourself!" While your tits are 2" from his face... I think saying no is a lot sexier, imo, and from what I've seen and heard... When in doubt, plz refer to step #1
Good luck to the new ladies, these are just the basic safety considerations. There's more to consider, any limits you have, make the list and see if you have age/race restrictions or gender preferences or what activities you enjoy and what activities you do not enjoy.
I'm sure there are a lot of other points to consider, and there is something a person cannot teach, which is experience.
payphones are becoming like unicorns - which makes the use of one especially worrying to an escort. There is a payphone directory on the Internet http://www.payphone-directory.org/#Canada. Google a phone number - even when talking to the person - if it doesn't come up as assigned to Bell, Rogers, Shaw, Telus - it's probably a "one time" internet number. A person that has looked for a payphone or is using an internet app is either "too shy" or too dangerous to take a risk on.
