Rule #1 If you are going to pay for your trip to a SP do not use a credit card that is a joint account with your wife. This is especially true if your wife does online banking and is checking usage of the card daily.
Rule #2 When your wife asks what the mysterious charge is from a company, don't respond with "Someone must have stolen my card and is using it" When you charge your credit card with me I have a TD POS machine which chip reader and PIN entry. When the wife calls and reports the card stolen and the transaction fraudulent they respond with 'sorry mam, the card had a chip purchase with correct pin entered, either it was your husband or he gave his pin to someone else to use'. Now he has two lies to explain.
I didn't call him out and would do whatever I could to protect him but his goose is cooked even before I knew about it. I would refund the transaction if asked but the damage is done, the lie has been exposed and I think a shit storm is in the air.
Take steps to protect yourself. Common sense prevails. Legit and upstanding sp's like the ones on this board will do everything in their power to protect you but we can't do anything for you if you sink yourself. I hear a lot talked about burner phones and text app's. Again if you are using a legit and professional sp you never have to worry about an unsolicited text. I have thousands of contacts and would never think about calling or texting anyone out of the blue. Also my phone is password protected with erase phone on 3 wrong tries along with being able to erase it by remote if ever I lost it. I take your privacy and safety very seriously.
All we ever ask in return is for you is to do the same for us and we will be your friend, your lover and your loyal confidant.
Rule #2 When your wife asks what the mysterious charge is from a company, don't respond with "Someone must have stolen my card and is using it" When you charge your credit card with me I have a TD POS machine which chip reader and PIN entry. When the wife calls and reports the card stolen and the transaction fraudulent they respond with 'sorry mam, the card had a chip purchase with correct pin entered, either it was your husband or he gave his pin to someone else to use'. Now he has two lies to explain.
I didn't call him out and would do whatever I could to protect him but his goose is cooked even before I knew about it. I would refund the transaction if asked but the damage is done, the lie has been exposed and I think a shit storm is in the air.
Take steps to protect yourself. Common sense prevails. Legit and upstanding sp's like the ones on this board will do everything in their power to protect you but we can't do anything for you if you sink yourself. I hear a lot talked about burner phones and text app's. Again if you are using a legit and professional sp you never have to worry about an unsolicited text. I have thousands of contacts and would never think about calling or texting anyone out of the blue. Also my phone is password protected with erase phone on 3 wrong tries along with being able to erase it by remote if ever I lost it. I take your privacy and safety very seriously.
All we ever ask in return is for you is to do the same for us and we will be your friend, your lover and your loyal confidant.
