what do you know about sugar baby arrangements

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GimmeT&A

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Hello all,

It have been a while since i have been on here. I have not really seen many SPs that are currently on here, but lately I have a real need for just one girl and the same girl. and a girl that is really damn dynamite but yet is discrete and their when i need. yes i could just see an one SP on regular basis. I love those sexy model blonde types, the ones that you just look at and you cannot thing about anything else but FFFing her. Also that she may only be with you apposed to having to deal other gentlemen. but with a already busy life, i have no extra time to build such relationship with a regular girl and frankly dont want to put up with games. I am not a patience guy when it comes to going thru a certain amount of dates till you score. I want score everytime and i fricken enjoy it!
So i tried having a sugar baby, who was perfect and stunning. but i guess i had a hard time getting her clues and playing her games. She was more a gold digger, She would be lovely one moment then bitchy the next. Frankly it was exhausting try to deal with her and i was worried that she would never put out no matter what luxuries i provided her. and you live and you learn.
Now i am out there and i found a new sugar baby! yippy and she damn gorgeous. I used a website so now at we we really both know what each other are looking for except for donations. But the questions is how establish donations to her. especially, in the begining i just want an NSA until i know she is worth it. I do well for myself but doesnt mean i want to piss it away. i mean these girls dont ask, they aspect you to know and offer.

does anyone have any pointers on this subject and the best way to "make an arrangement and how to properly maintain it. Do SPs try to such sugar baby sites. ?

rgds

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GimmeT&A said:
Hello all,

It have been a while since i have been on here. I have not really seen many SPs that are currently on here, but lately I have a real need for just one girl and the same girl. and a girl that is really damn dynamite but yet is discrete and their when i need. yes i could just see an one SP on regular basis. I love those sexy model blonde types, the ones that you just look at and you cannot thing about anything else but FFFing her. Also that she may only be with you apposed to having to deal other gentlemen. but with a already busy life, i have no extra time to build such relationship with a regular girl and frankly dont want to put up with games. I am not a patience guy when it comes to going thru a certain amount of dates till you score. I want score everytime and i fricken enjoy it!
So i tried having a sugar baby, who was perfect and stunning. but i guess i had a hard time getting her clues and playing her games. She was more a gold digger, She would be lovely one moment then bitchy the next. Frankly it was exhausting try to deal with her and i was worried that she would never put out no matter what luxuries i provided her. and you live and you learn.
Now i am out there and i found a new sugar baby! yippy and she damn gorgeous. I used a website so now at we we really both know what each other are looking for except for donations. But the questions is how establish donations to her. especially, in the begining i just want an NSA until i know she is worth it. I do well for myself but doesnt mean i want to piss it away. i mean these girls dont ask, they aspect you to know and offer.

does anyone have any pointers on this subject and the best way to "make an arrangement and how to properly maintain it. Do SPs try to such sugar baby sites. ?

rgds

GTA
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You have to be brutally honest with yourself. What do you want? If you want to have sex with her often, 3 or more times a week, you are going to have difficulty finding a woman that is willing to devote that kind of time. If you also want her to act like a girlfriend or wife - but - don't want to give her any of your affection, you are better off seeing a high end SP.

You also have to have a honest conversation with the women who potentially are willing to be your Sugar Baby. I know a woman that was willing to spend the night with you for $1000. However if you wanted an exclusive Sugar Baby relationship, it was $50,000 a month and she wouldn't live in your home.

I have a good friend / relative who had a Sugar Baby relationship with a woman for 5 years while she went to UBC. It cost him $5000 a month and he picked up her tuition and books. She saw him two nights a week and one weekend a month.
 
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This is my experience..


If you want a sugar baby, they truly exist. However, It seems that so many want to get freebies, so many ladies cut off the ties. In reality, at the end, everyone wants something in return. So, when someone wants something for free without giving something in return.......Then it becomes not interesting. So many hack into the ladies personal site, that they run scared!
 
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My experience with being a "sugar baby" lead to my creating Claire Monet. Much less hassle, much more fun.

If you want to know what she expects then ask her and express your expectations; have an open and frank discussion, otherwise you may both have regrets down the road.
 
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GimmeT&A said:
does anyone have any pointers on this subject and the best way to "make an arrangement and how to properly maintain it.
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GimmeT&A said:
What do you mean?
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the deal is, you grab some balls, look them right in the eye and tell them how much money you can afford to give for them to provide you with x sessions of intercourse/week for y hours per session (insert details on intercouse requirements here)

if they can't handle the no bs approach, then you don't want them

if you don't have the stones to speak freely, then sugar daddy'n ain't for you
 
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Such a bad idea, you're basically just a pay pig. The ultimate pay pig if you pay several thousand dollars for one girl.
 
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vancity_cowboy said:
the deal is, you grab some balls, look them right in the eye and tell them how much money you can afford to give for them to provide you with x sessions of intercourse/week for y hours per session (insert details on intercouse requirements here)

if they can't handle the no bs approach, then you don't want them

if you don't have the stones to speak freely, then sugar daddy'n ain't for you
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This is excellent advice.
I've been in "an arrangement " for several years, and before we started, we had a long detailed discussion about money, sex, and expectations.
She was a mature UBC student, no experience as a escort or SB; negotiated price, frequency, what sex acts, etc., and it has been great.
It ca be done.
 
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Depends on the girl, ultimately. I had one a few years back and it was $1,500 for the month. For at least 3 visits, but those visits included movies, dinner, hanging out. We both enjoyed each other's company so that was a bonus.
 
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I don't know that much about this but I was browsing it online one day, and it seems so complicated and like there is a game of cat and mouse to play...being honest and straight forward upfront seems like it is crossing the blurred lines between sugar and escorting, and some of these people don't ever want to be associated with escorting or prostitution :doh::pound:

I was watching these funny videos from SeekingArrangement, and I don't really agree with the idea of fucking a guy just to be "spoiled" with gifts and trips, the shoes and purses aren't going to pay the bills! Unless he slips a few hundreds in that Chanel as a "surprise" :rolleyes:And I feel SO bad for the girls that get tricked! I was reading this blog about this documentary being made called "daddies date babies" and some poor naive soul wrote about sleeping with 7 people in a few weeks and only making $220 bucks :doh:

Some notable posts from the thread. Ladies these men are professionals/hobbyist. They do this for fun, for sport. It’s disgusting and frightening. Please please be careful.
“My total cost after sleeping with 7 people in three weeks (all on the first “date”) is around $220 bucks.
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http://daddiesdatebabies.tumblr.com/



very interesting world but I could never do this, I'd loose my marbles!
 
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I could say I know a lot about it with a lot of the last ten years tied up in SA longer term arrangements. But let's not dwell on SA as the only resource.
Yes if you want a regular friend then you're going to have to afford it. But it doesn't have to be a lot. I had a friend over the last three years that met with me twice weekly and that would cost in the $300 per week. We liked each other and travelled together too. We met at her place usually and I often brought Starbucks so we enjoyed coffee too. Now this deal just didn't develop overnight but there came a realization that a steady date arrangement at a reasonable rate was far better than high costs for a short term etc. So it lasted three years and has just completed with leaving for Asia permanently. In fact SA was a resource for a few other arrangements over the years similar in nature. Yes there are gold diggers and high hopes mates on SA. But a practice of up front non commital meeting to discuss business before action weeds out these undesirable types.
So if there is a flat refusal to an interview over coffee or demand for supper in Paris then drop those candidates. It has worked very well for me.
 
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