I'm thinking about having a regular, but my concern is that, if I see an SP a couple of times a month, will she judge me or think I'm weird because of it?
What are you guys' thoughts?
What are you guys' thoughts?
Will an SP judge you if you visit too often?
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probably just the opposite. she'll probably be happy knowing she has virtually guaranteed income from you and will be more comfortable with the session knowing who you are right away.
I dont see why they would judge you,their goal should be to get as many regulars as they can.As long as they enjoy their time with you its a win win situation where you both know what you like.I have seen my ATF weekly for 2 years now and we both are happy with it.
While their goal is to make as much money off of you as possible, you can bet your bottom dollar they judge you all the time - whether you seldom visit or you often visit.
Likely they think you're a nice person but also a pathetic loser that the only way you seem to get laid is by paying for it - in her eyes, she might not know the real truth but that's how it might be perceived - especially if you're too nice and seem hung up on her. Seriously, she wouldn't give you the time of day if you didn't pay.
Likely they think you're a nice person but also a pathetic loser that the only way you seem to get laid is by paying for it - in her eyes, she might not know the real truth but that's how it might be perceived - especially if you're too nice and seem hung up on her. Seriously, she wouldn't give you the time of day if you didn't pay.
the only things I would think about mostly is: wondering how much money this guy makes!?! Am I causing him to go broke? And...could he be getting addicted...what if he just suddenly stops coming back one day...is he getting sick of me? lol 
besides that, very frequent regulars are the best and the most favorite because seeing someone often creates a close relationship and bond, plus it is SO much better to do business with someone you already know and trust rather than taking the usual risks this hobby comes with meeting total new strangers.
oh and your SP will know exactly what you like and learn all your favorite techniques
besides that, very frequent regulars are the best and the most favorite because seeing someone often creates a close relationship and bond, plus it is SO much better to do business with someone you already know and trust rather than taking the usual risks this hobby comes with meeting total new strangers.
oh and your SP will know exactly what you like and learn all your favorite techniques
Couple of times a month is not unusual, nobody will think it's weird.
There is such thing as "too often", like three times a week would probably raise a suspicion you got addicted. Decent SPs would act on it, even if it seems the more money the better. The "too often" frequency may be client-specific.
But twice a month, no problem (unless she figures it's beyond your means).
Depends on the SP...
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If they judge you, it's doubtful that they will tell you so it'd be more your issue than anything if you are worried about them secretly judging. Unless they're named Nicole Green like Mr. Mountain said...
A couple of times a month is definately normal! If the girl likes you, she will appreciate your repeat visits, and even if she doesn't like you, and hides it, she will still will still probably appreciate a familiar face because she already knows what to expect from you. I sometimes have this thought too, more so around my thinking that I have been visiting SVIPS to much lately lol, and wondering what Harvi and Ruby think of me. It is all good business for either the agency, or the girl you like to see, so what ever frequency suits you and your budget I say have at it. I am totally comfortable visiting the ladies once a week, it's just when I have more than 1 visit in a week that I can feel a bit self concscious about booking again. Occasionally I will book a second hour if the one I had earlier in the week was a dud, and I want to "make up" for it.
The only time I think they will judge you though is if you were visiting the same girl 2 or 3 times a week and it was clearly causing you emotional/financial distress. At that point it is an unhealthy obsession. 2 or 3 times a month is just good business, never worry about that. If the girl judges you for visiting too much it just means she's not the SP for you.
The only time I think they will judge you though is if you were visiting the same girl 2 or 3 times a week and it was clearly causing you emotional/financial distress. At that point it is an unhealthy obsession. 2 or 3 times a month is just good business, never worry about that. If the girl judges you for visiting too much it just means she's not the SP for you.
Heidi Fleiss never judged anyone who became a regular of hers. She just kept a little black book with the names of all those men and their phone numbers.
I found this to be a strange question. So what? Why would you be worrying about whether an SP might judge you?
Why worry if anyone is judging you, for that matter. Way too much judgementalism in this world.
That is one of my negative attributes I'm working on eliminating. Makes for happier relationships without it. Been judgemental serves no positive purpose, in my opinion... but, maybe I'm now being judgemental
Why worry if anyone is judging you, for that matter. Way too much judgementalism in this world.
That is one of my negative attributes I'm working on eliminating. Makes for happier relationships without it. Been judgemental serves no positive purpose, in my opinion... but, maybe I'm now being judgemental
Perhaps the OP's question is best directed to the woman to whom he's thinking of becoming a regular?
Everyone has an opinion, indeed I believe this forum is designed to cater to opinion as well as advertising among other things.
So.
What will she think? I suggest: ask her.
Her response may be the telling and pivotal moment that determines if she is the one you want as a regular or ATF.
Everyone has an opinion, indeed I believe this forum is designed to cater to opinion as well as advertising among other things.
So.
What will she think? I suggest: ask her.
Her response may be the telling and pivotal moment that determines if she is the one you want as a regular or ATF.
This is a rather odd concern! What is too often and why worry? It might make more sense to ask if she would stop seeing you? The answer to either question is with the SP herself and probably more related to how she feels about you personally or her needs for your frequent income opportunity than anything else. And what about you? Are you going to tire of her if u see too much of her? I was in several of theses relationships over my past pooning career and those often lasted five to seven years with visits once to twice weekly. Good times on both sides. Well judgements? Yes of course we were more like girlfriend boyfriend than anything and really not like a pooning occasion arrangements at all. So the judgemental side was more like having a wife. It was a friendly time. Don't worry about it. If a frequent flyer relationship happens and is accepted go for it. It takes a lot of stress off everyone.
I helped two gals into new careers putting one through a medical course from which she graduated with honours after a lot of hard work and personal dedication. I was helping a third one but she has run into other issues. Lots of frequent visits. Go for it.
I helped two gals into new careers putting one through a medical course from which she graduated with honours after a lot of hard work and personal dedication. I was helping a third one but she has run into other issues. Lots of frequent visits. Go for it.
Unless you get creepy and possessive, or start stalking her, I doubt she would have a problem with it. I would think that having a regular customer they can trust not to go freaky on them would be seen as a plus.
I'm the kind of guy who tends to repeat many times with my own 'circle of friends'. Some I have seen steadily for 3 years or more.
I like them and apparently they do not have a problem with me repeating with them either.
I think if you find someone you click with and get the feeling its mutual, then why not repeat?
A regular is the best way to go! Speaking for my self I enjoy my regulars gives me a bit of piece of mind that I am not going to get short changed. I saw a new one recently and was disgusted with her appearance and attitude. Smokers teeth and smell as well as big wod of gum. I left before I paid. lol.
She might judge you to be a good source of income, and if there is a fit, a good source of income from doing something she enjoys.
