Ideal SP

[Dickson]

Ok boys, we are always rating the SPs we see but lets put it perspective. What is your fantasy SP look like and act?

Face
Body
Services
Attitude

Let me start

My fantasy SP has always been the same since I was younger although she has aged with me. Now she would be in her mid to later 40's. Tall over 5'10" tall. She would have an athletic body, natural breasts not to big not to small. She would be classy and elegant in the way she moves, dresses and behaves. Long blonde hair that is full with big blue eyes. A pouting beautiful lips and a smile to die for. Then her eyes draw me in and I can get lost in. I want her to have long legs but not to thin. Nice hips that fit well in a body forming dress. Some one I can take to an event and not be embarrassed by.

Services include role playing. Stays in character and plays the wife I never had. I want to be able to take her places and there is no question in everyone's eyes she is my wife who is madly in love with me. Is elegant and classy when we are out but an amazing love maker in the bedroom and get more pleasure out of our romps than I do. She wants me more and wants me all the time. All the services are available if we both choose. I want her at times to take the lead with her fantasies as well as build on mine. Lives to please me as much as I please her. Is very spontaneous and when I least expect she pulls be out of my world into our fantasies.

Attitude must be a pleaser and lets me please her. Very open and lets me explore all the hidden desires we both share. Caring, giving, wanting to share. Has to be very positive. Wants to build on each of our experiences. Appreciates me and what I do. Does not judge me. Very open to the experiences we have and wants more of them when she is with me and is totally into me and the experience. Smart and able to hold her own in a conversation if I took out to my events or dinner meetings.

So that is my first attempt. Lot to ask out of a SP but I am a very demanding client.

Look forward to hearing other guys perspective on the ideal SP.

 

[westwoody]

Double post sorry

 

[westwoody]

Looks are secondary to someone who is easygoing and fun to be with. I like longer dates, overnights, and this year did a weeklong. So let's face it, nobody is going to be fucking for that much time. You want to be able to talk to the lady across the table from you, or watch tv together, or sightsee together.
I don't care if they are a Brazzers star as long as they are reasonably presentable. Sure it helps if they are a babe but that's not my primary discriminator.
Currently only seeing two ladies I consider perfect 10s in every metric.
Find someone really good and stick with them.

 

[Dickson]

Gee Dickson, that's pretty specific.

Do you have anybody particular in mind .... Someone we may have heard of?


( I know how you feel now buddy. I would have answered this question much differently a month ago)

Good thread though. Would be interesting in hearing other responses.

What about your ideal SP? When after booking some one you have a picture in your mind what you want to see when the door opens. It can even be how you want them to dress. I am curious if I am the only guy out there who has an idea of what my dream SP looks like? Come on Lance you have to have an idea of what you perfect SP would look like? How you want her to act or what you want her to say to you?

 

[Dickson]

Lance just describing my perfect SP since my first experience with SPs. I have had a number come close like Jenna, Victoria, Ms Fleming, but the best one over all is Catherine.

However, I think many guys rate the ladies on bench mark of 1 to 10 scale but no one knows what the 10 looks like so how do they hit it?

Yes at different time we might want a dark haired beauty. I never thought Jasmine would have won the elimidate but she did and she was great. Same with Diana from Scarlett who won another elimidate. She never thought she had a chance. But she did fit my ideal SP at the moment. But there I a fantasy girl we dream about. Right! Who is she? What does she look and act like so the SPs out there can at least have a fighting chance.

Just an idea.

 

[Dickson]

Looks are secondary to someone who is easygoing and fun to be with. I like longer dates, overnights, and this year did a weeklong. So let's face it, nobody is going to be fucking for that much time. You want to be able to talk to the lady across the table from you, or watch tv together, or sightsee together.
I don't care if they are a Brazzers star as long as they are reasonably presentable. Sure it helps if they are a babe but that's not my primary discriminator.
Currently only seeing two ladies I consider perfect 10s in every metric.
Find someone really good and stick with them.

So Woody my man what does a perfect 10 look like? Just out of curiosity.

 

[Lo-ki]

So Woody my man what does a perfect 10 look like? Just out of curiosity.

Mine is Bo Derrek
They even made a movie about her being a 10...

 

[sevenofnine]

My fantasy sp would be a combination of the two sp's I was a regular with,
One was what you would normally think of in porn stars or escorts. Pretty blonde, porn star, fake boobs. where anything went, when I asked such foolish questions as what was on her menu she just shrugged, it was all good. her hand jobs were to die for, I considered cutting my prick off and giving it to her in a box to play with when she went on holidays. Oh my god. everything she did was great but her handjobs fuck.

one of the most favorite pse girls in Calgary would ask you what would you like and how many times can you cum
with this lady you would cum as many times as she wanted you too, If I couldn't I would cut the dam thing off myself. god.

my other favorites lady was not full on pse but was magical. the stars shone brighter when I looked up at the sky after leaving her place.
very feminine very sensual the best moments were after " were after the fire works" she seemed so soft and her skin had a certain sheen
many many times I was left speechless. she would ask me something my mouth would open, but no words would come out.
you would never ever think she was an escort by looking at her and just casually talking to her, she looked dressed like a teacher a nurse, though one you had a hard on for. a librarian even.

she was easy to live with, some one I could see and have sex with once a week for the duration something I did and still do.

the other sp though she was the most amazing pse I have ever encountered was a lot harder to live with,
she is an amazing women who lives life rather on the edge, and I will leave it there.

I often imagined both of them in the same bed, something they didn't do though

 

[westwoody]

So Woody my man what does a perfect 10 look like? Just out of curiosity.

Tall, 5'9" would be perfect, no tattoos or tramp stamps, long hair either dirty blonde or light brunette, maybe touch of red.

FIT not skinny. Athletic women turn me on more than any skinny girl with implants. I mean really fit, not scrawny from starvation dieting or drugs. I like girls who go to a real gym and work out, either crossfit or weights+cardio.

Really good looking women look great when they wake up, they don't need a ton of makeup or an hour on their hair. And they aren't afraid of being active. They don't go "don't touch my hair", "my makeup is smudged" and they don't constantly check themselves in mirrors.

They have pride in themselves but without any airs of superiority. They don't meander around malls looking at purses. They have things to do and they get them done.

 

[76duster]

18, 5'3", 95 lbs, DD tits, always on time, loses track of time when she's being fucked, not a drug user, smart, really pretty, gives discounts if she enjoys the fuck, has a real job, and is only doing this part time.

I also believe Santa will give me $2 million this year for Christmas.

 

[Caramel]

Dickson, you sound like a great candidate for a sugar-daddy relationship instead of escorts, have you ever tried or considered that? Maybe you would even offer some of your favorite SP's to engage in that sort of arrangement

 

[Dickson]

Dickson, you sound like a great candidate for a sugar-daddy relationship instead of escorts, have you ever tried or considered that? Maybe you would even offer some of your favorite SP's to engage in that sort of arrangement

Been there done that my dear. Big mess after a number of months. Covered her apartment, clothes, spa, gym membership, car, allowance but after three or four months she was not available, got sick could not travel, showed up at the apartment and she was banging some young guy who was staying with her. She said he was an old friend.

So that came to an end in a hurry. Once burned second time shy. You can take advantage of me once but not twice.

 

[87112]

ALL natural.
Please no tats or pierced anything.
Natural colored hair with bush.
No fake boobs.


Probably have to go to the heart of China or South Korea, Japan for that.

 

[westwoody]

Once burned second time shy

Oh yeah we've all been down that road.

None of that Pretty Woman horseshit in the real world.

 

[Dickson]

Oh yeah we've all been down that road.

None of that Pretty Woman horseshit in the real world.

Don't you know it! I see why they used fake moans, to fake boobs, fake name, fake games result in the use or be used mentality.

Finding a geuine person is nearly impossible. But do you go to Disney Land looking for reality? Do you go to see Star wars movie looking for truth and realist situations. We get lost in the fantasy. That is why the SP is a fantasy girl. If we have no idea of what she looks like we have lost before we begun. So that is why I ask the question. Other wise the poor SP has no chance of giving us what we if we don't know what it is we want.

Does that make sense?

 

[PoorGuy]

5'7" natural 34C-24-34 so stripper or ex-stripper type of physique. There was a girl like that at the No.5 years ago, but was strictly a private dancer. Also saw these women with similar bodies in Montreal. So yes, looking for Montreal style GFE, face not really a factor for me, and an attitude that changes from cheerful/helpful upon greeting to sexpot once the action begins.

It was the only time I spent $250/H on a SP, and that was in Montreal in the mid 2000's. Absolutely spoiled me and I couldn't believe the effort she put into pleasing me.

 

[apl16]

Hmmmm......intangibles seem to make the difference for me. A woman can move, or look, or talk a certain way that makes me want her......

 

[Dickson]

Thanks for the questions Dickson.

I'm not sure I've ever had an "ideal" picture of what an SP should be like. True, there has always been a certain "fantasy playback reel" in my head - and it always seems to have resembled SP's like Natalia Bijoux, Cassie and Evelyn Snow. Yet, I've also had surprisingly great times with women who are at polar ends from those (Whitney Bloom and Naughty Nicki for instance)

I guess it's fair to say that, even if I had one, my vision of what is ideal keeps changing. For instance, until a few weeks ago, Catherine James would likely not have been a candidate for that fantasy playback reel (before I met her) as I've generally not been attracted to tall, blond women. Now I can't get her out of that playback reel (or get anyone else into it). I understand why you find her so captivating.

I've met a number of SP's over the years that I adore and I try to treat them well and repeat wit the ones I connect with. But, I have rarely tried to compare them to an ideal - certainly not on the basis of any number scale. Hate the number scale. Means nothing to me. What's a "10". No idea.

I'm not attracted just to looks. Some of my worst experiences have been with the best looking women (ie, 9s and 10s) , and some of my best have been with "normal" looking women. So much depends on attitude and rapport. I need someone I can talk to and relate to, which is why I tend towards longer sessions. I also respond to people who try to establish a deeper connection - and they have to have a great sense of humour. If they can't keep up an intelligent conversation, and demonstrate wit and warmth, it's doubtful I'll repeat - even if they looked like Adriana Lima.

I also don't need an actress since I don't really respond to play acted fantasies.

I do, however, know a few things I don't like. I am not attracted to implants and I hate tattoos (unless they're small , hidden, and tasteful). I don't like smokers and won't abide any semblance of drug use. I tend to avoid very young SP's (<21) since they generally have nothing to say. Most importantly, I'm not attracted to ego-centric SP's. This is a service-oriented business. If they're self-absorbed, or just going through the motions, my interest wanes very quickly.

Aside from these few disqualifiers, I'm pretty much open-minded to a range, but not drawn to exactly the same type or features every time.

Does that help clarify?

I'm afraid to even ask what an "elimidate" is? It can't be what I'm thinking, is it?

Well done Lance that clears it up. It is nice to hear that you have some very clear ideas on what you do want. Sounds like Catherine fits that profile. I feel like you in some respects. I too want the connection. My role play is very important to me. In that role I have always had certain appearance that I was looking for.

Maybe over dinner I will share my experiences at elimidates. I use to do them after a hard week. What a wonderful experience. Three beautiful ladies via for your affection..ladies can get pretty competitive. Very Veronica set up my last one with Jasmine, Lady T, and Blake. I think if you look back you will be able to read about that one. Thanks for sharing.

 

[Dickson]

Oops double post.

 

[Dickson]

Dickson, you sound like a great candidate for a sugar-daddy relationship instead of escorts, have you ever tried or considered that? Maybe you would even offer some of your favorite SP's to engage in that sort of arrangement

I did recently offered that to one lady and she turned me down. She likes seeing her regulars. She enjoys the variety of clients. She is a pleaser so having different clients with different needs is important to her rather than being locked in to one client. Then of course the travel is an issue for her. She likes it once in a while but not all the time.

So does that answer your question?