Do many SPs also enjoy a personal sex life outside of the industry?
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LADY-VIA
Sometimes I'm not in the mood with significant others, regardless of weather or not I've played elsewhere that day. I'm not charged up round the clock
other times I'm just an animal, once I get going I really want more. I've Plucked ex boyfriends out of the recycling bin and given them a day pass, eye up my neighbours, all sorts of antics. Here's a funny little story for you.
My last boyfriend would say things, I believe to get a rise out of me but they could have been true as well. I'm not sure and quite frankly never cared who tickled his pickle away from me, so long as he was good to me.
If it was a rise he tried to achieve, he never got them. I take everything in stride and find many things funny that others wouldn't. Life's funny.
I was more open minded than him, kind of ....... towards a swinger type life style but I don't think he strayed that way.
Example - I asked " babe can you help me move all those boxes after work ? "
Him - " ok, but I've got to see my escort after work so I'll need a bit of time first, then I'll do it "
Me - , casual response " ok cool. thanks....... Hey , remember to tip her if she's good cuz that's always nice, we appreciate it "
Him - "ok " walks away
Me -- " why don't you give me her details, I'll send her off a nice gift basket at Christmas for taking such good care of you "
Card reading ( I thought this in my head ) --- dear escort, thanks for all the tender care youve been providing my boyfriend with when Im not in the mood. My apologies if he slammed your cervix as he gets a little wild in the bedroom sometimes. I'm sure you have noticed, he is hung like a horse. Perhaps you can work on that with him please. Anyways thanks for being a trooper !!!
Signed -- appreciative girlfriend and fellow escort. Take care luv & keep up the good work !
That's how those conversation games went between us.
you were dating a sex addict...i decided.Sometimes I'm not in the mood with significant others, regardless of weather or not I've played elsewhere that day. I'm not charged up round the clock
Here's a funny little story for you.
My last boyfriend would say things, I believe to get a rise out of me but they could have been true as well. I'm not sure and quite frankly never cared who tickled his pickle away from me so long as he treated me well when he was with me. I was more open minded than him, kind of towards a swinger type life style but I don't think he strayed that way.
Example - I asked " babe can you help me move all those boxes after work ? "
Him - " ok, but I've got to see my escort after work so I'll need a bit of time first, then I'll do it "
Me - , casual response " ok cool. thanks....... Hey , remember to tip her if she's good cuz that's always nice, we appreciate it "
Him - "ok " walks away
Me -- " why don't you give me her details, I'll send her off a nice gift basket at Christmas for taking such good care of you when I'm not in the mood "
Card reading ---- dear escort, thanks for all the tender care youve been providing my boyfriend with when Im not in the mood. My apologies if he slammed your cervix as he gets a little wild in the bedroom sometimes. I'm sure you have noticed, he is hung like a horse. Perhaps you can work on that with him please. Anyways thanks for being a trooper !!!
Signed -- appreciative girlfriend and fellow escort. Take care luv & keep up the good work !
That's how those conversation games went between us.
Yes Vanman totally agree. Why is there a need by some to shit all over the sandwich before eating it. Just enjoy the question or the post.
To answer the question. I would say yes SPs have personal lives out side being a SP. The SP life is a temporary life style. After a certain time period they move on. The big question is what happens after? Do they find a partner who accepts it or just not tell their partner? If the partner finds out how does he react? Interesting if their partner knows how do they deal with their partner as a SP? How does that affect their relationship?
It is an interesting topic from the SP perspective and the partner perspective.
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LADY-VIA
No, I don't think so. I've dated sex addicts before, and I didn't find his character traits to be the same but I could be wrong.
Hmmm... what are the character traits you've picked up of a 'sex addict'? Just curious.
For some reason, whenever this topic is brought up on the forum, it reminds me of this scene from Friends...
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LADY-VIA
I'm not exactly sure. Maybe not character traits, but more of An attitude. I've dated men that could not for the life of them keep their dicks in their pants. Can't stay faithful. It's not at all possible. Look at women and strategise how to get into their pants. One in particular would often call me upset about the new girlfriend he'd lossed. The newest flavour, as he couldn't keep girlfriends. All over the tail chase. He couldnt for the life of him help himself. Just a horn dog.
When your sexual affairs become more important than your true happiness then there's a problem. It's one thing to sleep around and be ok with it. Another to cheat and feel bad ect. But when you do it all the time and regret it, or feel bad then There's a problem. Men don't admit often the feeling of guilt. It's masked but it's there. I can sense it. I saw it on him. Only for brief moments and then he was right back to Mr sexy, womenizer.
When your sexual affairs become more important than your true happiness then there's a problem. It's one thing to sleep around and be ok with it. Another to cheat and feel bad ect. But when you do it all the time and regret it, or feel bad then There's a problem. Men don't admit often the feeling of guilt. It's masked but it's there. I can sense it. I saw it on him. Only for brief moments and then he was right back to Mr sexy, womenizer.
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LADY-VIA
I'm not the only one turned on by the thought of watching
it's kind of taboo hotness ! I guess that kind of outlines what my sex life is like, and on that note. Yes we most definitely have a sex life outside of our escort lives. Some of us may be a little more vanilla with our civilian partners, and some of us just coast from our escort lives right into our personal lives in terms of sexual preferences. ThIs industry and hobby can really open up a person's eyes.Thank you. And my SO used to say I was a sex addict because I wanted it more than once in a blue moon... and she thought I was getting too old to be interested.
Nowhere close to your description
She has no idea. Thanks.
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LADY-VIA
No I don't think wanting sex a few more times as year than when the seasons change classifies you as a sex addict luv. I believe you are a healthy normal man in the aspect
I believe you are a healthy normal man in the aspect 