How does your SP experience compare with one night stands from the club?

[Chessmen]

If you've ever taken a lady home after meeting her at a club that same night, how does that experience compare with seeing a SP? Either way it is probably the first time you've seen her and both of you know its a one time thing.
After strolling Granville street on a Saturday night, I can honestly say that the girls who go there are some of the most beautiful I've ever seen which makes it intimidating for me as they always travel in packs.

 

[silenceisgolden]

For what it's worth, the best SP experiences I've had is where they've felt more "natural", like a one night stand, than a business transaction.

 

[VancityDivas]

For what it's worth, the best SP experiences I've had is where they've felt more "natural", like a one night stand, than a business transaction.

I agree with this... but, unless it was a lame one night stand then I will add it should feel more natural and not a business transaction and it should be a explosive and memorable one night stand But obviously if it's that good then you want to repeat! ..no longer a one night thing

 

[1nitestan]

Girl at the club - usually kinda drunk
SP - totally sober

Girl at the club - kinda trashy
SP - you can take her out for dinner

Girl at the club - less skilled (in general)
SP- More skilled

Girl at the club - gotta get past her friends and buy her a couple drinks and bla bla bla ...fake social bullshit then fuck
SP- Call> pay> fuck> Leave

Girl at the club - possibility of repeat less than 40%
SP- Possibility of repeat. A phone call and an envelope away

Girl at the club - might have to host cuz her roommate is a cock block
SP- always has a safe place to play

 

[badbadboy]

Girl at the club - usually kinda drunk
SP - totally sober

Girl at the club - kinda trashy
SP - you can take her out for dinner

Girl at the club - less skilled (in general)
SP- More skilled

Girl at the club - gotta get past her friends and buy her a couple drinks and bla bla bla ...fake social bullshit then fuck
SP- Call> pay> fuck> Leave

Girl at the club - possibility of repeat less than 40%
SP- Possibility of repeat. A phone call and an envelope away

Girl at the club - might have to host cuz her roommate is a cock block
SP- always has a safe place to play

You pretty much nailed it.

I would add that trying to bed a woman in a club is not a sure thing and seeing an SP is guaranteed.

Also seeing an SP (you know) will have quarterly STD checks - civilians only if it gets itchy lol

 

[Lo-ki]

$50 For a cab there and back if you don't score.
$20 To enter the club
$100 For yours and her drinks
$50 For food for 2 after you leave the club.
$220 Spent and no clue if your going to score

One phone call and $250 1hr for scoring fore sure with an SP

PRICELESS

 

[Caramel]

unless you find a really good slutty one who really also just wants to score, you're gonna have to weed through the ones that are looking for a boyfriend or a new friend...they are the ones who won't put out even after you've spent all that cash for drinks & dinner etc.

The really great ones are the ones who will pick you off the dance floor or bar and take you to the car and romp, then come back to the club 20 mins later...but then again she may have addiction or daddy issues so make sure she doesn't get your # or address, but those types usually keep to themselves anyways, and yes of course please use a condom and carry wet wipes

OH AND PLEASE CHECK HER ID!!! if she looks to be in her 19-25 age range, those types could be very horny naughty underage teens...but then those teens do lie to older guys about their age just to get laid, i know, i've been there...oh but then she could be carrying her older sister/cousin/friends ID, so be aware

 

[silenceisgolden]

Girl at the club - usually kinda drunk
SP - totally sober

Girl at the club - kinda trashy
SP - you can take her out for dinner

Girl at the club - less skilled (in general)
SP- More skilled

Girl at the club - gotta get past her friends and buy her a couple drinks and bla bla bla ...fake social bullshit then fuck
SP- Call> pay> fuck> Leave

Girl at the club - possibility of repeat less than 40%
SP- Possibility of repeat. A phone call and an envelope away

Girl at the club - might have to host cuz her roommate is a cock block
SP- always has a safe place to play

All true, but also don't forget, on the other side of the scale: Girl at the club actually wants to F you and isn't doing it because you're paying her. For me, that's a nice ego boost.

 

[manni]

$50 For a cab there and back if you don't score.
$20 To enter the club
$100 For yours and her drinks
$50 For food for 2 after you leave the club.
$220 Spent and no clue if your going to score

One phone call and $250 1hr for scoring fore sure with an SP

PRICELESS

very grateful for the single and unattached life. amen.

 

[ddcanz]

Girl at the club - usually kinda drunk
SP - totally sober

Girl at the club - kinda trashy
SP - you can take her out for dinner

Girl at the club - less skilled (in general)
SP- More skilled

Girl at the club - gotta get past her friends and buy her a couple drinks and bla bla bla ...fake social bullshit then fuck
SP- Call> pay> fuck> Leave

Girl at the club - possibility of repeat less than 40%
SP- Possibility of repeat. A phone call and an envelope away

Girl at the club - might have to host cuz her roommate is a cock block
SP- always has a safe place to play

Girl at the club- looks super hot but has the IQ of a turnip- also, maybe knows my kids, nieces or nephews.
Woman at the club- well, now you're speaking my language!
SP- might actually be the Woman at the club.

 

[Vanman1979]

Reality check.....

After you see enough of the ladies, review them right. THEY WANT YOU TO RETURN TO PAY AND PROMOTE THEM.

Especially if you're talented enough for them to tell you they orgasmed numerous times.

 

[1nitestan]

Reality check.....

After you see enough of the ladies, review them right. THEY WANT YOU TO RETURN TO PAY AND PROMOTE THEM.

Especially if you're talented enough for them to tell you they orgasmed numerous times.

Not true...some DNR ladies had become great fuckbuddys back in the day.

 

[1nitestan]

I wonder how many cancellations and no shows people have experienced from sps after prebooking.
I don't know the comparative with a girl at the bar.

The equivalent would be she gives you a fake phone number. Always call/txt here right there when she gives you a number to check.

 

[Dickson]

I only see SPs so I got nothing to compare too. Never had a one night stand and or been picked up at a club. It does not help I never go to clubs unless it is for work. So I can not compare.

 

[opticaltubeassembly]

Girl at the club - usually kinda drunk
SP - totally sober

Girl at the club - kinda trashy
SP - you can take her out for dinner

Girl at the club - less skilled (in general)
SP- More skilled

Girl at the club - gotta get past her friends and buy her a couple drinks and bla bla bla ...fake social bullshit then fuck
SP- Call> pay> fuck> Leave

Girl at the club - possibility of repeat less than 40%
SP- Possibility of repeat. A phone call and an envelope away

Girl at the club - might have to host cuz her roommate is a cock block
SP- always has a safe place to play

you forgot one

Girl at the club _ wysiwyg, what you see is what you get
SP - never know what you are going to see, until the door opens, auntie, clock watcher, business woman, fake photos, photoshop and flat out mails it in quite often

Last time I was in a club, a couple of drinks, didn't set you back $200-300, after tax

 

[Man in Submission]

Given a choice - obviously not always possible - I would take the girl at the bar (or soccer or slopitch tournament dance) in a heartbeat.

An SP is obviously a nice option to have, but you bring a girl home or back to their place and you don't have to worry about being 'on the clock'. Get in 3 or 4 hours of fun before crashing and burning. Much preferable to cramming some tonsil hockey, foreplay, banging, and cuddling into 60 minutes at $300 a pop. Just my 2 cents.

 

[Caramel]

Given a choice - obviously not always possible - I would take the girl at the bar (or soccer or slopitch tournament dance) in a heartbeat.

An SP is obviously a nice option to have, but you bring a girl home or back to their place and you don't have to worry about being 'on the clock'. Get in 3 or 4 hours of fun before crashing and burning. Much preferable to cramming some tonsil hockey, foreplay, banging, and cuddling into 60 minutes at $300 a pop. Just my 2 cents.

true...i was discusssing this with my cousin yesterday and i thought about it, another thing is that the lady is probably enjoying herself and wants you just as much as you want her

 

[Man in Submission]

If you have some blow it's pretty easy to get laid pickin up a chick from a club but you will be dealin with a bit of a wing nut. Still gonna cost you $$$ but it can be quite exciting, done this a few times in the past, I'm not a fan of blow myself so it just didn't feel right for me. I still like to strol Granville on a fri or sat nite plenty of times been solicited on the sidewalk had one of the best ever BJ's it was fuckin awesome behind an alley dumpster for 40 bucks!

Haha so true dat Hatrick ... those were the days hey? Man I miss the big city sometimes. Anyhew ... I only embarked on this hobby in the spring of 2013 after a nasty split with my live-in (and much younger) fiancée. Seeing SPs (primarily dommes:thumb: ) was exciting and new and helped ease some of the anguish without fear of commitment. But the combination of regrouping emotionally and getting in the best shape of my life, along with he fact the cost of visiting a reputable SP has skyrocketed the last 2 years or so, I now date more 'friends with benefits' and 'treat' myself to a romp with an SP every 3 months or so. It's hard for me to justify doing it more. Do I have $$$ to do it more? Yeah, probably, but getting older and seeing the uncertainty with pensions, etc, I realize it's better to invest some extra funds now to make the ride a little less turbulent in the golden years. But then I understand a lotta fellas are driven more by sex and maybe need it every day and twice on Sunday, which tends to throw logic out the window sometimes. While I enjoy it, thankfully I am able to stay disciplined and avoid letting it be the 'be all end all'.

 

[hankmoody]

Given a choice - obviously not always possible - I would take the girl at the bar (or soccer or slopitch tournament dance) in a heartbeat.

An SP is obviously a nice option to have, but you bring a girl home or back to their place and you don't have to worry about being 'on the clock'. Get in 3 or 4 hours of fun before crashing and burning. Much preferable to cramming some tonsil hockey, foreplay, banging, and cuddling into 60 minutes at $300 a pop. Just my 2 cents.

Haha so true dat Hatrick ... those were the days hey? Man I miss the big city sometimes. Anyhew ... I only embarked on this hobby in the spring of 2013 after a nasty split with my live-in (and much younger) fiancée. Seeing SPs (primarily dommes:thumb: ) was exciting and new and helped ease some of the anguish without fear of commitment. But the combination of regrouping emotionally and getting in the best shape of my life, along with he fact the cost of visiting a reputable SP has skyrocketed the last 2 years or so, I now date more 'friends with benefits' and 'treat' myself to a romp with an SP every 3 months or so. It's hard for me to justify doing it more. Do I have $$$ to do it more? Yeah, probably, but getting older and seeing the uncertainty with pensions, etc, I realize it's better to invest some extra funds now to make the ride a little less turbulent in the golden years. But then I understand a lotta fellas are driven more by sex and maybe need it every day and twice on Sunday, which tends to throw logic out the window sometimes. While I enjoy it, thankfully I am able to stay disciplined and avoid letting it be the 'be all end all'.

Good points.

 

[johnywalker87]

After you see enough of the ladies, treat them right. THEY WANT YOU TO RETURN TO FUCK THEM.

Especially if you're talented enough to make them orgasm numwrous times.

Regardless if there is pay involved it's a sure thing.

I'm not picking up a lady in a club Nahhhhhhhh what's the fucking point. Spend $200-$400 on an evening for fuck all. No, I'm spending time with a lady who cares enough to do what she's doing. Is a professional at what she does and I know at the end of the evening we will have 2 satisfied people wanting to meet again.

Paying $400 for one night stand is legal. Paying a professional $200 for one hour of sex is a criminal offense and you're pervert according to Canadian government