Question re: tipping

[westwoody]

If someone advertises at 200/hr but expects a tip of 50 they should be honest and advertise at 250/hr.

Tipping after the fact for exceptional service is fine but tipping beforehand in the hopes of better service is not good. She already has your money so there is no incentive.

It is different if it is someone you know and you can count on, but there are a lot of flaky unreliable ladies. My worst experience was with a very expensive highly rated lady who was cracked out for our session. Should I have paid her a tip up front, not likely.

 

[VancityDivas]

Wow, a few interesting posts and a couple funny ones at that!

*Tipping is a personal preference and varies person to person and girl to girl
*Best gratitude, I can definitely agree is repeating rather than giving her a 20 tip and never seeing her again
*I laughed at the 250k a yr haha; this isn't wall street. Most girls don't see that amount of clientele and even the ones that do have costs to consider so you have to look at that too. Plus many do this on the side and have limited hours not full time
*Tipping is Never and shouldn't ever feel obligatory you should do it because you really liked it and want to
*Nobody should cut a person down for not tipping or should champion the idea of doing so; people have different disposable income to work with and lifestyles
*if tipping, do it at the end - probably make the guy feel more comfortable and the girl more grateful

Hopefully that hits the nail on the head from others perspectivees too!

 

[westwoody]

Well put ^ a lot of women do this so they can spend more time on other things, kids, school whatever. Most indys I have know would never see five a day.

 

[phreak]

Yes, nothing like free entertainment. Oh, but wait... we're all seeing upwards of 5 clients a day, maybe we should be paying him for these laughs? Let me just get in my new 700 series whatever and drive over to him right now to deliver it.

As I said earlier, 'seeing upwards of 5 clients a day' was in a reference to 'a girl working FULL TIME'. Up to 8-10 is quite possible for those who work really hard.

 

[escapefromstress]

As I said earlier, 'seeing upwards of 5 clients a day' was in a reference to 'a girl working FULL TIME'. Up to 8-10 is quite possible for those who work really hard.

In my 10+ years in the industry, I have yet to hear any SP's admit to seeing that volume of clientelle voluntarily. No one can keep up that pace - and no one would want to. The only exceptions I can think of are drug addicted SW's or ladies who are being forced to by a pimp/trafficker.

 

[Man Mountain]

In my 10+ years in the industry, I have yet to hear any SP's admit to seeing that volume of clientelle voluntarily.

I have. Independent, well reviewed, paying advertisers who admitted it in posts right on this very site as well as one or two who admitted as much in private. I'll leave it at that

 

[phreak]

In my 10+ years in the industry, I have yet to hear any SP's admit to seeing that volume of clientelle voluntarily. No one can keep up that pace - and no one would want to. The only exceptions I can think of are drug addicted SW's or ladies who are being forced to by a pimp/trafficker.

I was surprised myself to learn that it was just routine. And these were definitely not the 'urban legend' cases of 'drug addicted ladies who are being forced to by a pimp/trafficker.' Girls just wanted to make big bucks fast. 5 clients a day was a piece of cake - they couldn't even think of anything less. 8-10 was not always achievable due to purely practical reasons (e.g not enough orders on a given day).

 

[badbadboy]

I have. Independent, well reviewed, paying advertisers who admitted it in posts right on this very site as well as one or two who admitted as much in private. I'll leave it at that

Same here. Indy's plus agency and Massage Parlour girls have indicated they sometimes had seen 7 and one former agency girl had seen 10 clients (at a well known agency).

Not saying it's desirable from a client or SP point of view but I know of some who were game for that type of volume. Personally I prefer to see those who see only a few clients per day.

 

[P3t3rp4n]

I remember Lucy lake said in a post she clears 3K a day so I think some girls are "Wall Street". I think most will admit they pull in more than enough from doing this.

 

[Vanman1979]

I remember Lucy lake said in a post she clears 3K a day so I think some girls are "Wall Street". I think most will admit they pull in more than enough from doing this.

...and I think some people are full of shit. It makes for great internet schtik.

but that's almost a million a year. Yeah.. No.

 

[P3t3rp4n]

Of course not 3K everyday but if one day out of 365 she garnered that much then no doubt other girls are doing the same and maybe more. Not everyday but I'm sure some days are just bumping

 

[Vanman1979]

Of course not 3K everyday but if one day out of 365 she garnered that much then no doubt other girls are doing the same and maybe more. Not everyday but I'm sure some days are just bumping

Like everything there is a statistical top end and a bottom end. Focus on either, the answer is somewhere in the middle and certainly won't be resolved by pure consumer speculation in this thread or on this board.

 

[Dickson]

I find this very interesting. I tend to tip up front if I know the lady. I will bring gifts at times because if I make it special for her she will try even harder to meet my needs. Sometime they will want to see me again.

I found it interesting no one mentioned SPs that tip clients. I know a few SPs that go out of their for clients like on their birthday or a special event. Or SPs who will give an extra hour after for dinner. I know one SP who will go out and get her hair and nails down for an overnight or a dinner date. I was so impressed how she would give gifts to her good clients like a book they wanted or a special bottle of wine.

Some of these ladies take this very seriously and want to please clients. They dp not do it for the money but to ensure they touch the client and help them feel something special.

I find it strange that people here do not see what they are attempting to do. But 90 % of the SPs are like that nor is 90% of the clients. But when the 10% meet the 10% it is crazy good.

 

[Lucy Lake]

...and I think some people are full of shit. It makes for great internet schtik.

but that's almost a million a year. Yeah.. No.

I was just short of $800,000 in 1 year... I've got the bank account and the beef curtains to prove it! My signature don't lie baby... In fact I almost lost it the other day when I only saw 4 dudes... I thought my Buisness was over Worst day ever!!! I didn't know what to do with myself... Besides masterbate of course.

 

[Lucy Lake]

More along the lines of 1800 dicks I've estimated. I have some clients with China money that helped a bit

 

[Lucy Lake]

Ahh ~ Interesting ... Thanks.
That's a long line.

Like other posters here, my perspective is framed by PERB & local advertisers.
You're hinting at a whole different, lucrative Game.

roll_on

Only about $50,000 can be attributed to China money the rest was good old cock sucking skill money. I'm $350h here but when I travel I'm $400+ and there's nothing to do in the prairies except fuck hookers so sleepovers and movie n popcorn nights are a nightly occurrence. Nothing like getting paid to sleep!

 

[majordomo]

Wow. Many interesting opinions and all.
When i see asian SPs at micros, i tip even if it is $20 unless service sucked (in a bad way). The happy look on their face for $20 is worth the admission. Plus at the low cost of micro, the SP only makes 50% of what we are paying.

When i see independent SPs (at usually higher prices) i dont tip unless she provided something amazing beyond my expectations.
When they become regular SPs, i bring something small (gift card, etc)

Ditto. Micro ladies get a tip if the service is good, mostly because they're not getting a very big percentage of my donation.

But for an independent lady asking for $250+ an hour, I feel she's making a sufficient wage to not require a tip unless my mind was completely blown - then I'll put something extra in the envelope on my next visit. Handing out cash at the end of an amazing GFE session would ruin the whole experience for me. I'm a "leave the envelope on the table and never speak of it" kind of client, it helps maintain the illusion of actual intimacy for me.

I think most independent ladies would agree that the best reward for exceptional service is repeat business, though. Especially if the sex was very good for both parties, then there's something to look forward to for both parties.

 

[hawkervac]

lucy lake you are a gem o love reading your responses