What kind of factors are in YMMV?
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I think, simply put, that if the SP is at all into you, for whatever reason- your good and respectful attitude, stellar hygiene, gentlemanly manners, sexual chemistry, maybe even looks- whatever- then she may go above and beyond what she might be willing to do for someone else. I'm sure there are too many factors to mention what affects your particular "mileage" with any given SP.
Are you able to say anything, like "Hey this isn't fair, I read on your reviews that you are supposed to do this!" If she wouldn't dfk I may ask why and see if I can use mouthwash or change something about my attitude for a better experience next time
I see.... so what days are you on now then....To be honest..the best usually 7 days after my period started up to day ummm...days 23-24...
Riza knows all about it...lol... she'll remind me my periods on its way..she sees the mood shift...ound:
Well today is Day 17
But I do tend to excel at my CP Domme sessions while in the danger zone....
I to have found that ymmv but I have shifted to a more mature class of ladies. I have found that ymmv is not as noticeable as long as you have good manners ,hygiene and easy to talk to but I think that ymmv in this hobby is always going to be there. We as hobbyist can not forget that for the ladies this is as job and a lot are good actors. As Erica said this is not a dating site, and it is all about all mighty dollar for the job.
Really? You mean, I'm not going to pick up a new girlfriend here? Damn... and I thought I was having better luck than PoF and Craigslist.
I do have a few factors in regards to YMMV, some practical and obvious, some not so much…
I prefer the gentleman to have well-manicured & clean nails, especially for digits, I'm very sensitive and I do not consent to getting scratched or injured, so sharp nails are not ideal. If the nails are sharp I will simply say no to digits, and work with some daty, toys or go all the way, there's so many fun things to do! If they need digits, they can use a glove.
Too much friction with whiskers, some in nice in certain areas, back of the neck and shoulders, hint hint* too much down there or across the face, is not my preference. In that situation I would just direct the action so there's less friction.
Kissing a heavy smoker is a turn off for me, they do not realize that their hair and fingers also smell etc, … light smokers I am ok with if they are freshly showered, clean clothes and hands, breathe etc… seems obvious, but some may not realize…
Anything obvious, injuries, or the person is not as flexible as in their fantasies, health concerns are always a consideration, or if they have a small penis and think it's easier for greek, sometimes yes, sometimes no…
There may be others but these are the main ones for me that come to mind…Age, Gender, or Race are never an issue for me
I prefer the gentleman to have well-manicured & clean nails, especially for digits, I'm very sensitive and I do not consent to getting scratched or injured, so sharp nails are not ideal. If the nails are sharp I will simply say no to digits, and work with some daty, toys or go all the way, there's so many fun things to do! If they need digits, they can use a glove.
Too much friction with whiskers, some in nice in certain areas, back of the neck and shoulders, hint hint* too much down there or across the face, is not my preference. In that situation I would just direct the action so there's less friction.
Kissing a heavy smoker is a turn off for me, they do not realize that their hair and fingers also smell etc, … light smokers I am ok with if they are freshly showered, clean clothes and hands, breathe etc… seems obvious, but some may not realize…
Anything obvious, injuries, or the person is not as flexible as in their fantasies, health concerns are always a consideration, or if they have a small penis and think it's easier for greek, sometimes yes, sometimes no…
There may be others but these are the main ones for me that come to mind…Age, Gender, or Race are never an issue for me
You really think they are "into us" more like into the money in our pocket. Yes they are human but lets not fool ourself it is about the money boys. Is is about the money more so than all the other stuff. There are a few SPs out there that enjoy the experience but for the most part. We pay them to be into us. To tell us what we want to hear. The real genuine ones are few and far between. If the longer they are around the colder they can be and thus ymmv.
Yes very much. Or at least in my case. Even if you drop serious cash if they are not in the mood they are not in the mood.
Oh Chemistry? Care to define that one. The only chemistry I have is the $. Other than that I am blowing wind.
Obviously I mean beyond the financial end. Of course it's pretty much all about the money. And most SPs probably don't really give a rat's ass about us in general- we are their paycheck. Having said that, I guarantee you that some SPs go the extra mile with some dudes, or relax certain restrictions, or even put something on the table that they generally don't do, for any number of reasons. It's human nature. You've never had a session go way past time, or have the menu expand, or share a bottle of wine and engage in some great conversation? This is another form of YMMV, as opposed to getting the bums rush out the door.
It's a business for sure, but it's not ALWAYS just about the money- so what's the reason then? It's not charity, so it must be because of some other connection- so YMMV.
Aside from the grooming and hygiene aspect, all women respond well to a warm approach to them; whether physical or on interpersonal level that is not driven by "value for money or time on the clock". i.e. The pooner who is wanting to get everything on the menu like a check list in the least amount of time will probably not enjoy the experience as much as someone who exhibits to the SP that they are warm, respectful and fun plus knowing what they are doing
As far as the money goes we all know that everyone is motivated by a good pay day. SP's are no different but are savvy about it. I tend to be a bit on the generous side and tip accordingly. The comments back from the SP's range from "thanks for the tip" to "its not necessary, I had a great time, please come back and see me".
Those are my YMMV thoughts.
Yes I would agree bad boy but these situations are rare and should not be expected unless you are one hot guy. But lets get real, majority of the ladies are doing this for a reason and it an't because we are dream boats. They say things and do things to get more out of us. The good ones know that. I laugh at the SPs who attempts to get an extra $50 for out call. Nickle and dimeing me will get you the $50. But the ladies like Kimberly or Lana or Anna worked me for years and got $10s of thousands out of me by showing interest or giving me something special.Aside from the grooming and hygiene aspect, all women respond well to a warm approach to them; whether physical or on interpersonal level that is not driven by "value for money or time on the clock". i.e. The pooner who is wanting to get everything on the menu like a check list in the least amount of time will probably not enjoy the experience as much as someone who exhibits to the SP that they are warm, respectful and fun plus knowing what they are doing
As far as the money goes we all know that everyone is motivated by a good pay day. SP's are no different but are savvy about it. I tend to be a bit on the generous side and tip accordingly. The comments back from the SP's range from "thanks for the tip" to "its not necessary, I had a great time, please come back and see me".
Those are my YMMV thoughts.
Treating me special by emailing me or meeting me because she says she wants too. Or meeting me at the airport. Or kissing me or saying what I want to hear makes me want to spend more because I want too not because she ask me for more. SPs just have to know who she is dealing with. What are my hot buttons. It is not about this session but the next 5 or 10 sessions. The good SPs are helping me live out my dreams, fantasies, my wishes and desires. The good ones live out my fantasies and add to it to make it thiers. For them it is not about ymmv. It is about me. Since I am pleaser I want it to be about them enjoying the experience. Wow now we are both trying to make each other feel good. What a session that this.
But try and stick me and I walk. Abuse my good nature or take advantage of me and I am gone like sunshine at midnight. So it an't about ymmv. But that is the difference between a good SP and a great SP.
Over the last 30 years I can only count on one hand the great SPs. But there is only one Super SP. That is what keeps bring me back to Vancouver. That SP knows how to treat a man. Not as a client but so much more. I question her on what she does but she thinks of each guy in a unique way giving more of what they want and less of what they don't like. Funny but I really think she is more motivated by seeing her clients happy than by charging more. Even though it might not be good business it is good for my soul and thus the reason I travel half way around the world to see her. Or I fly her to me when she lets me.
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I'm not GQ handsome nor what one lady might call a hot guy or a stud; just a friendly, easy going pooner who enjoys the company of the great SP's I visit.
I'm not saying I get more services than the next guy. I probably get the same services served up but with a similar attitude to mine which is to have mutually enjoyable sex. IMHO that makes for a much more enjoyable session.
Perhaps if you took the focus off the thickness of your wallet, the size of your cock and your desire to be romanced by SP's; you too might find happiness in this hobby one day.
Dude. It's not about being "one hot guy" as you say. Or the tens of thousands of dollars you spend.
It's about being a decent, honest and respectful guy. Good Karma. What goes around, comes around.
Everyone's mileage will vary accordingly.
