whats with the increase out reach by SP

Dickson

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Interesting how in the last little while I have noticed an increase emails and pm on Perb from SPs.

Don't get me wrong I love it when an SPs contacts me from days gone by and want to reconnect. Even a few news ones who just want to say hello. In the past I had to reach out to them but now they are contacting me and I am in Europe.

Did someone put something in the water there in Vancouver.

Strange......but I have also noticed more wanting just to have a drink or coffee when I come in again.

I guess a spin off my old meet and greet.
 
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sybian

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I figure they can PM me all they want, and I welcome it.
I am kind of new here, and was surprised at how many messages I had received. If a young lady takes the time to message me and ask to get together for coffee, or whatever, next time I'm in Vancouver, the least I can do is respond to her PM.
 

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Interesting how in the last little while I have noticed an increase emails and pm on Perb from SPs.

Do get me wrong I live it when SPs contact me from days gone B and want to reconnect. Even a few news ones who just want to say hello. In the past I had to reach out to them but now they are contacting me and I am in Europe.

Did someone put something in the water there in Vancouver.

Strange......but I have also noticed more wanting just to have a drink or coffee when I come in again.

I guess a spin off my old meet and greet.
Funny, I NEVER get pm's from ladies here. Ladies pm'ing you.....maybe it's because they all know you have big $$ to spend on them lol. It's all about the money, as they say :cool:;)
 

Vanman1979

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Interesting how in the last little while I have noticed an increase emails and pm on Perb from SPs.

Do get me wrong I live it when SPs contact me from days gone B and want to reconnect. Even a few news ones who just want to say hello. In the past I had to reach out to them but now they are contacting me and I am in Europe.

Did someone put something in the water there in Vancouver.

Strange......but I have also noticed more wanting just to have a drink or coffee when I come in again.

I guess a spin off my old meet and greet.
Hoping for the big pay day my friend.
 

Real Sonny Burnett

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Interesting how in the last little while I have noticed an increase emails and pm on Perb from SPs.

Do get me wrong I live it when SPs contact me from days gone B and want to reconnect. Even a few news ones who just want to say hello. In the past I had to reach out to them but now they are contacting me and I am in Europe.

Did someone put something in the water there in Vancouver.

Strange......but I have also noticed more wanting just to have a drink or coffee when I come in again.

I guess a spin off my old meet and greet.
Call me a hopeless romantic, but I think they are contacting you because they want your money.
 

Ms Erica Phoenix

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Interesting how in the last little while I have noticed an increase emails and pm on Perb from SPs.

Do get me wrong I live it when SPs contact me from days gone B and want to reconnect. Even a few news ones who just want to say hello. In the past I had to reach out to them but now they are contacting me and I am in Europe.

Did someone put something in the water there in Vancouver.

Strange......but I have also noticed more wanting just to have a drink or coffee when I come in again.

I guess a spin off my old meet and greet.
I can only speak for myself, and why I sometimes choose to send a PM rather than respond in a thread. I don't mean to anyone particular, just in general. There are members here who are QUITE vocal about their feelings that the women here should be whored but not heard. They enjoy being able to speak freely ( and often quite disparagingly) about the women they pay for sex, but dislike those women sharing THEIR sides of the story, defending themselves, or showing any evidence of an IQ that's measurable in triple digits. Sometimes, I read about a negative experience a pooner has had, or another rip-off thread, and I choose to respond with a PM to send a statement of empathy.

So really, we can't win. If we respond in a public way, we're opened up to scorn by God & everybody, because every comment we post publically is 'just so we can keep our names on the front page' or the like. If we choose to respond in PM, we're still just chasing your money?
 

Vanman1979

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Three main possibilities as to why a lady would 'cold call' in order of likelihood:

1) she thinks there may be a large potential $ payout
2) she thinks there may be a potential for significant on line promotion for the poster
3) she is genuinely curious and thinks you may be an interesting to get to know socially
 

hedgeman

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I haven't gotten any kind of messages from any of the ladies on here...oh well *sigh lol I'll live
 

Man in Submission

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I take it as a lady extending friendship and as a nice compliment, though admittedly I have been told more than once in my lifetime that I'm pretty naïve.
 

Ms Erica Phoenix

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Well of course it comes down to $, at some point. I pay an ever-increasing sum in order to advertise here. I advertise here in able to participate here as part of my overall marketing strategy. When I read something that tells me that a particular gent and I might get along, and our purposes seem mutually compatible, sure I'll send him a PM. When I'm choosing who I'm going to let get through my backdoor, lots of things factor into my choices besides the size of their dicks or the thickness of their wallet.
 

hornygandalf

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I can only speak for myself, and why I sometimes choose to send a PM rather than respond in a thread. I don't mean to anyone particular, just in general. There are members here who are QUITE vocal about their feelings that the women here should be whored but not heard. They enjoy being able to speak freely ( and often quite disparagingly) about the women they pay for sex, but dislike those women sharing THEIR sides of the story, defending themselves, or showing any evidence of an IQ that's measurable in triple digits. Sometimes, I read about a negative experience a pooner has had, or another rip-off thread, and I choose to respond with a PM to send a statement of empathy.

So really, we can't win. If we respond in a public way, we're opened up to scorn by God & everybody, because every comment we post publically is 'just so we can keep our names on the front page' or the like. If we choose to respond in PM, we're still just chasing your money?
Don't dwell on the negative, no-win view of this Ms. Erica. Let it be their problem, not yours. :) Not everyone sees the reaching out, whether by PM or posting as being purely about money. Some of us know it is also about community and engagement. Continue to engage in whichever way you see appropriate :)
 

escapefromstress

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Interesting how in the last little while I have noticed an increase emails and pm on Perb from SPs.

Don't get me wrong I love it when an SPs contacts me from days gone by and want to reconnect. Even a few news ones who just want to say hello. In the past I had to reach out to them but now they are contacting me and I am in Europe.

Did someone put something in the water there in Vancouver.

Strange......but I have also noticed more wanting just to have a drink or coffee when I come in again.

I guess a spin off my old meet and greet.
Could be all the posts you've written about wanting to be romantic, and the amount of money you're willing to invest in your dates. :nod:

I figure they can PM me all they want, and I welcome it.
I am kind of new here, and was surprised at how many messages I had received. If a young lady takes the time to message me and ask to get together for coffee, or whatever, next time I'm in Vancouver, the least I can do is respond to her PM.
It's 'the sybian effect' ... ;)

Funny, I NEVER get pm's from ladies here. Ladies pm'ing you.....maybe it's because they all know you have big $$ to spend on them lol. It's all about the money, as they say :cool:;)
Not true - I just PM'd you a few days ago. :p

Three main possibilities as to why a lady would 'cold call' in order of likelihood:

1) she thinks there may be a large potential $ payout
2) she thinks there may be a potential for significant on line promotion for the poster
3) she is genuinely curious and thinks you may be an interesting to get to know socially
I think all three are accurate. :thumb:

Or maybe she just likes your writing style and wants to chat.
That's entirely possible. ;)

I take it as a lady extending friendship and as a nice compliment, though admittedly I have been told more than once in my lifetime that I'm pretty naïve.
I've made a ton of friends here that I enjoy PM'ing with. :)
 

hornygandalf

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Clear. Incisive. No pretence here, though I do note that cocks seemed to be an afterthought in a following posting.
Makes me wonder if a gentleman wants to just enjoy the company of Ms. LL, whether her nymphomanic tendencies would lead her to decline the appointment in favour of money with an active cock accompanying... ;)
 
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