Well, I had left this website a while ago, and then came back to read about romance with a few guys chatting about this in the context of the stuff they bought for SPs......Reminds me why I left.
what is Romantic? is romance dead?
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Oakley Doakely Ned...
If you read it carefully, and pay attention, you'll find that the opposite has been stated here many times....Unless you count a 1.99 jug of washer fluid as an expensive romantic gesture.
Miss Erica, Lady Via, Miss Tanya, and many others, have stated the exact opposite...it's the thought and not the money... that a person expends their efforts on ,that is romantic.
And to quote one of the fine young ladies here.."Romance cannot be bought at any price"
I'm not shitcanning you...I'm just saying maybe take the time to really read it before you comment....We are all guilty of doing that from time to time...Myself included.
If you read it carefully, and pay attention, you'll find that the opposite has been stated here many times....Unless you count a 1.99 jug of washer fluid as an expensive romantic gesture.
Miss Erica, Lady Via, Miss Tanya, and many others, have stated the exact opposite...it's the thought and not the money... that a person expends their efforts on ,that is romantic.
And to quote one of the fine young ladies here.."Romance cannot be bought at any price"
I'm not shitcanning you...I'm just saying maybe take the time to really read it before you comment....We are all guilty of doing that from time to time...Myself included.
Fair enough. I read a few of Dixon's posts and was over-wrought. In any event, a nice gesture towards an Sp is at best, just that-a nice gesture, and should not be typically viewed as a Hallmark moment.
Allright fair enough,......But in Dicksons defence, it ain't easy being Dickson....It isn't cheap either.
In my opinion, after participating in this thread, these beautiful young ladies may show us affection and require money for time spent....But they are women with feelings, fantasies, and emotions.
Some may look at it as a waste of time, others a nice thoughtful gesture....but there are the rare few that might take it for what it is....And that isn't that far off from dating a random civilian.
I have always loved the company of a woman. I like the way they react to me when I walk into the room, or open a door for them...I certainly like the way they react when I put some thought or effort ,into the time spent with them....Sometimes you don't get that Hallmark moment...But what could it hurt?
In my opinion, after participating in this thread, these beautiful young ladies may show us affection and require money for time spent....But they are women with feelings, fantasies, and emotions.
Some may look at it as a waste of time, others a nice thoughtful gesture....but there are the rare few that might take it for what it is....And that isn't that far off from dating a random civilian.
I have always loved the company of a woman. I like the way they react to me when I walk into the room, or open a door for them...I certainly like the way they react when I put some thought or effort ,into the time spent with them....Sometimes you don't get that Hallmark moment...But what could it hurt?
Exactly, people can't seem able to distinguish between the two. Maybe some of the same guys that think a waitress is interested in them when she's really just looking for a tip.
Yup if anything you guys are all correct. It is the little things. Romantic moments are just that moments. Romance is different for each person and can not be imposed on another. My poor excuse of romance was more for me than the SPs. SPs are not interested in the over the top events. But a nice tip is very much appreciated. Those little thing like opening the door, the cheezies go much further than the big events I have attempted. But the old saying a fool and his money could never be more true than when it comes to me and my SPs.
So respecting the SPs goes a long way no matter if it is a 30 min. Date or a 2day date. The romantic moment is just that a romantic moment. That is not bought nor sold they just happen.
Does that kinda of sum things up. Did I miss anything? Although so people here think romance has no place in the SP world and there are guys who want that with a genuine, warm, affectionate SP. Some SPs offer that and most do not.
So to each his own.
Enjoy the moments guys that is all we got!
Quite the opposite for me. I've dated three sps during my time in this hobby and each one said that there's usually a garbage can full of flowers from clients. At least when they worked for agencies.
Now that is sad! Yet so true for a lot of women in the industry. With some of you guys you just laid out a few bucks for flowers. Try spending $1,000s on events and gifts and then have them thrown back in your face. Oh a fool a his money. I am the biggest fool out there.
But the one good one like Erika, Anna, Catherine make it all worth while. I am such a sucker for a good adventure.
Some said I am pleaser in my personal life. That does allow some SPs to take advantage of me.
So when my "flowers" end up in the trash. I realize I gave the flowers for me not for them. It made me feel good. In the end I guess that is all that matters.
Romance is most certainly hard to define. I think that, when you offer more of a pampering experience, romantic feelings are more likely to surface. My friends have dated clients, and i would most certainly do it, given the right circumstance.
Some of my repeat visitors dropped by over 100 times; romance? maybe not necessarily, but there's gotta be something there.
Also, I have a 'friend' whom I haven't seen in a year, and he still texts me every morning and every night. What's that, if not some kind of romance?
Some of my repeat visitors dropped by over 100 times; romance? maybe not necessarily, but there's gotta be something there.
Also, I have a 'friend' whom I haven't seen in a year, and he still texts me every morning and every night. What's that, if not some kind of romance?
Really, a fool and his money ????? I've met rich fools, but they have usually gotten their money from their daddies or mommies as the case may be. I'm under the impression you earned your's, so I doubt you're a fool. That said, if you are looking for love and romance and this is the only place you're shopping, then you're an optimistic schmuck. Let's face it, this is a business deal and sometimes you have to do business with people you would rather not have to deal with. I have found that to be the case in my business, you've probably found it in yours and I'm sure the ladies here have that to be the case more often then either one of us. But we go into business deals with certain goals, so if in the end you're happy, you feel good and she has made a significant addition to her bank account, everybody wins. So enjoy life, you only do it once......but if there is chance you do get a second chance, remember you could come back flat ass broke, totally clueless, and with Lo-ki's dick.
I think this has been a damn fine thread that has brought out what's inside of the contributors. Epic sharing with heart, humor, and romance, also some interject denial, envy, and cynicism. Good getting to know people here who have opened up. Men and women here who are open to romance, are finding it. If you haven't found it, take a look around you, I see it displayed here in abundance. The money you put down on the table in this channel is the least you will ever spend for romance. Men always pay, that goes for dating, marriage, family. What's different here?
Romance never lasts, only fools believe that. An hour or two or a day or two of divine connection every so often is about as good as life gets.
Why did Shakespeare kill off Romeo and Juliet?
"And in the end, the love you take Is equal to the love you make"
Romance never lasts, only fools believe that. An hour or two or a day or two of divine connection every so often is about as good as life gets.
Why did Shakespeare kill off Romeo and Juliet?
"And in the end, the love you take Is equal to the love you make"
