~*~ do you share your hobby? ~*~

[Larry Storch]

I don't share with anyone. Society definitely frowns on this activity as it is mainly viewed as exploitative and pooners are considered to be taking advantage of and contributing to the abuse of SPs. So, better to keep quiet.

This thread is timely. I find it natural to want to share my exploits with friends, but don't dare with most for reasons described by others.
Tonight I am meeting an old high school friend who has been in his words "imprisoned" by a woman, just because he is brainwashed and doesn't know how to lay out boundaries. He's basically single, loves to fuck, and then falls quickly to a woman's innate ability to capture him and make him pay, for the rest of his life. I am going to bring up what I do as an option for him to consider, if he wants to be a free man. He's fallen for the holier than thou attitude towards many laws that I bend, and he doesn't.
I share my love of this hobby and a few other "sins" with a very few men I know, in whom I have absolute trust in their word that what is said between us, stays between us. One is married, and is self aware, so can suck it up, without resentment. I am sure he enjoys the stories. In his future there will be a time when he too can get back to being a cowboy. It's good to have men like that in my life. I wouldn't be here if a friend hadn't shown me the path.

I know you think you are helping your friend, but speaking from personal experience, what he really needs is to learn how to set boundaries. He isn't "brainwashed" and I don't believe women have an "innate ability to capture" anyone. Getting involved in this hobby at this point in his life certainly won't "free" him, it may set him up for an even greater problem. I've been there and tried to rescue my share of ladies in this business and it sounds as though he will fall into this same self imposed trap. He needs to learn to look out for himself and realize that it doesn't mean he's being selfish. He sounds co-dependent. He sounds like the way I used to be. What is really freeing is coming to the realization that you are not responsible for someone's happiness.

 

[newman78]

i've been out of the hobby for a little bit mostly for health reasons but i had shared it with my dad as we were pretty close and he just laughed and said like father like son and also shared it with my best friend and she was intrigued by it and she asked a lot of questions

 

[Cami Parker]

Wow.... Not to perpetuate bad stereotypes and please nobody take this wrong but I think that traditionally that culture may not hold any women in the highest regard, SP or not. I appologize in advance if that offends anyone as its not my intention...

surrey, indo-canadians lol ...not all of them are like that and its not only that race but its most of the time (definitely not white guys, the first guys who went down on me were white or half white), not the guys I see, just the ones I grew up with (even the ones I fucked around with in high school, they were still fucking me but still saying that shit! WEIRD) . I'm not sure if its immaturity or if its the culture, I have no idea, it is sure fucked up and sad!

 

[Cami Parker]

You're lucky to have such positive and open relationships in your life. Please do let us know how it goes with your friend!

This thread is timely. I find it natural to want to share my exploits with friends, but don't dare with most for reasons described by others.
Tonight I am meeting an old high school friend who has been in his words "imprisoned" by a woman, just because he is brainwashed and doesn't know how to lay out boundaries. He's basically single, loves to fuck, and then falls quickly to a woman's innate ability to capture him and make him pay, for the rest of his life. I am going to bring up what I do as an option for him to consider, if he wants to be a free man. He's fallen for the holier than thou attitude towards many laws that I bend, and he doesn't.
I share my love of this hobby and a few other "sins" with a very few men I know, in whom I have absolute trust in their word that what is said between us, stays between us. One is married, and is self aware, so can suck it up, without resentment. I am sure he enjoys the stories. In his future there will be a time when he too can get back to being a cowboy. It's good to have men like that in my life. I wouldn't be here if a friend hadn't shown me the path.

 

[Cami Parker]

You're lucky to have such positive and open relationships in your life. Please do let us know how it goes with your friend!

This thread is timely. I find it natural to want to share my exploits with friends, but don't dare with most for reasons described by others.
Tonight I am meeting an old high school friend who has been in his words "imprisoned" by a woman, just because he is brainwashed and doesn't know how to lay out boundaries. He's basically single, loves to fuck, and then falls quickly to a woman's innate ability to capture him and make him pay, for the rest of his life. I am going to bring up what I do as an option for him to consider, if he wants to be a free man. He's fallen for the holier than thou attitude towards many laws that I bend, and he doesn't.
I share my love of this hobby and a few other "sins" with a very few men I know, in whom I have absolute trust in their word that what is said between us, stays between us. One is married, and is self aware, so can suck it up, without resentment. I am sure he enjoys the stories. In his future there will be a time when he too can get back to being a cowboy. It's good to have men like that in my life. I wouldn't be here if a friend hadn't shown me the path.

 

[Cami Parker]

That's so cool.... You gotta love Dear Old Dad!!

i've been out of the hobby for a little bit mostly for health reasons but i had shared it with my dad as we were pretty close and he just laughed and said like father like son and also shared it with my best friend and she was intrigued by it and she asked a lot of questions

 

[Cami Parker]

I really like that... I always say that only weak men are intimidated by strong, sexually confident women. Next time you guys are ever having a party, please don't forget to invite us ladies! It's so nice to feel appreciated!

Your comment on immaturity and culture is probably very accurate.
I'm a man who employs a lot of real Cowboys to handle my stock. From spring to the fall gather I can have up to 12 working for me.
There is always 2 or 3 young guys thrown in the mix, and some from towns or cities.
Around the fire the subject of women almost always comes up. We'll talk about girlfriends, wives , and SP....I've been witness to many an old Cowboy give warning to the coarse opinions put forward by the younger generation of so called" cowboys ".
If the warning isn't listened too, the greenhorn is kind of excommunicated for awhile, and I'll take him aside, or ride next to him, and explain....As any good employer would do.
If he continues the negative behaviour, we'll get back to the homestead and I'll let him go...Before he gets a "good ole' boy" beating from the rest of the guys.

 

[escapefromstress]

That's so cool.... You gotta love Dear Old Dad!!

My parents kicked me out of the house when they found out I was sexually active, and the other day, my dad apologized to me about it for the first time ever.

 

[Cami Parker]

Wow what a breakthrough...
That must have been really validating for you.
Congrats Love!

My parents kicked me out of the house when they found out I was sexually active, and the other day, my dad apologized to me about it for the first time ever.

 

[sybian]

If you, or any other girls get invited to one of our "Parties".....You may get a branding iron, or castrating tool shoved into your hands.
Unless of course some of you are good with a rope....and I've a sneaking suspicion some of you are.
I also know that my boys will be so preoccupied making sure you ladies are comfortable doing the work, it will be the longest branding ever held on my place.

 

[luvsdaty]

I'm single so I don't really care who knows but I don't go around bragging about it. I have told the odd tradesman buddy and we've exchanged who we've seen, other than that I just keep it to myself just as I don't really brag to my friends about fuck buddies or fwb's.

 

[Cami Parker]

Haha! Sounds like a good time!

If you, or any other girls get invited to one of our "Parties".....You may get a branding iron, or castrating tool shoved into your hands.
Unless of course some of you are good with a rope....and I've a sneaking suspicion some of you are.
I also know that my boys will be so preoccupied making sure you ladies are comfortable doing the work, it will be the longest branding ever held on my place.