I've been doing this now for several years and I feel I have enough experience to give my personal perspective / opinion / insight, whatever you want to call it, on this secret side of my life.
I've broken it down into categories. I won't be naming names, dates, times, locations etc. My experiences are based on SP's mostly in and around Vancouver but also other cities across North America.
Caucasian vs. Asian
I have seen both and I have to say hands down, Asian SP's are a better experience overall. Let's disregard the obvious old Asian aunties and compare young early 20's, in relatively good shape SP's that make your head turn as you pass them in the mall. They both look really good on the outside. When I see a SP, I'm paying for an experience. I understand that every session is an experience in the sense that you are in a place, you are coherent, you are present and that you are experiencing something, good or bad. That's not what I'm referring to. I mean an "experience". Let me try and explain. I see some members on here constantly referring to the "standard k-girl routine" as it's a bad thing. I understand it's routine and it becomes expected but that's what I like and want. I've been to Caucasian SP's where they are too free and flexible and sort of wait for you to initiate. I'm there to be shown a good time, not to direct. I'm sure some like to direct but that's not me. I prefer the SP to take the lead, offer things I know I already like without asking if I want it or even worse, wait till I ask for it. Bodyslide, dfk, bj, daty... yes please. Just do it. Why else do you think I'm here? Also, outfit requests (unless it's a ridiculous request) should be the norm. It's all part of the fantasy.
Another thing i've noticed. Caucasian SP's skin is never as smooth as Asian SP's. No matter how young, how in shape and how toned a Caucasian SP is, I can always find an Asian SP with smoother, softer, tighter skin. And yes, I have seen some high end 'elite' Caucasian SP's if that's what you are wondering.
Incall vs. Outcall
I, like many other members on this board, have a significant other so outcalls are very rare unless I'm traveling. I understand there are costs involved with having an established incall but like any business, there's overhead. If you don't offer an incall location, I believe (I maybe wrong) that you are significantly reducing your market share. I would think that most "clients" are attached and are looking for that "experience" (refer to above section) that they cannot get in their current relationship. This is not simply just sex but fantasies as well and I'm sure this pertains to single guys too. So obviously I prefer incalls but there are certainly some aspects of incalls that I do not like. First is shared incalls when multiple SP's are present. I don't want the possibility of running into another client of the other SP. I don't even want to see his shoes or him see mine. It sort of takes away from the experience. I understand it's a business but the business is selling a fantasy and the fantasy isn't going to a shop, screwing someone in room 1 and leaving. The fantasy (at least for me) is going to a sexy girl's apartment and living out an experience that I can't get at home. The second point is buildings that have 24hr security and/or concierge. I know in the grand scheme of things, this is very minuscule but I don't like to interact with anyone when I'm doing this other than the SP. I don't want to walk into an building, have awkward eye contact with the guard and then 45min to an hour later, walk past him again. I'm sure he can see in his monitor which floor I'm getting off on and when I exit the elevator, unclear of where the room is. It's probably nothing and I'm just being paranoid but that's exactly it. When I'm doing this my senses are heightened so I'm extra paranoid and over act to compensate which probably makes me look sketchy or out of place. Thirdly, don't talk to me through the buzzer/intercom. Text me your unit number and I'll see you upstairs. All 3 points have to do with discretion. You get the idea.
Independent vs. Agency
I find independent SP's either really organized or not organized at all. The really organized ones have their shit together and are a pleasure to deal with. They answer emails in a timely fashion and respond respectfully. It's a business and like any business, you are reflected by your customers. If your first point of contact is short or rude, how's that professional? Now the unorganized ones... I've contacted SP's via email and text and I am always polite and a gentleman. I've received responses that make me feel like I am interrupting or wasting their time OR there's no response at all. Is that how you treat potential clients? If I am ACTUALLY interrupting, just send a quick acknowledgement when you can and get back to me later. If I'm wasting your time, then why did you post an ad and say "call me"? I think Agency's for the most part are great. They are organized and usually have dedicated phone staff to field inquiries.
Don't get me started on fake pictures.
Sorry after reading this back to myself, it sort of turned into a rant and that's not what I meant it to be. These are observations that turned into preferences.
Thanks for reading.
I've broken it down into categories. I won't be naming names, dates, times, locations etc. My experiences are based on SP's mostly in and around Vancouver but also other cities across North America.
Caucasian vs. Asian
I have seen both and I have to say hands down, Asian SP's are a better experience overall. Let's disregard the obvious old Asian aunties and compare young early 20's, in relatively good shape SP's that make your head turn as you pass them in the mall. They both look really good on the outside. When I see a SP, I'm paying for an experience. I understand that every session is an experience in the sense that you are in a place, you are coherent, you are present and that you are experiencing something, good or bad. That's not what I'm referring to. I mean an "experience". Let me try and explain. I see some members on here constantly referring to the "standard k-girl routine" as it's a bad thing. I understand it's routine and it becomes expected but that's what I like and want. I've been to Caucasian SP's where they are too free and flexible and sort of wait for you to initiate. I'm there to be shown a good time, not to direct. I'm sure some like to direct but that's not me. I prefer the SP to take the lead, offer things I know I already like without asking if I want it or even worse, wait till I ask for it. Bodyslide, dfk, bj, daty... yes please. Just do it. Why else do you think I'm here? Also, outfit requests (unless it's a ridiculous request) should be the norm. It's all part of the fantasy.
Another thing i've noticed. Caucasian SP's skin is never as smooth as Asian SP's. No matter how young, how in shape and how toned a Caucasian SP is, I can always find an Asian SP with smoother, softer, tighter skin. And yes, I have seen some high end 'elite' Caucasian SP's if that's what you are wondering.
Incall vs. Outcall
I, like many other members on this board, have a significant other so outcalls are very rare unless I'm traveling. I understand there are costs involved with having an established incall but like any business, there's overhead. If you don't offer an incall location, I believe (I maybe wrong) that you are significantly reducing your market share. I would think that most "clients" are attached and are looking for that "experience" (refer to above section) that they cannot get in their current relationship. This is not simply just sex but fantasies as well and I'm sure this pertains to single guys too. So obviously I prefer incalls but there are certainly some aspects of incalls that I do not like. First is shared incalls when multiple SP's are present. I don't want the possibility of running into another client of the other SP. I don't even want to see his shoes or him see mine. It sort of takes away from the experience. I understand it's a business but the business is selling a fantasy and the fantasy isn't going to a shop, screwing someone in room 1 and leaving. The fantasy (at least for me) is going to a sexy girl's apartment and living out an experience that I can't get at home. The second point is buildings that have 24hr security and/or concierge. I know in the grand scheme of things, this is very minuscule but I don't like to interact with anyone when I'm doing this other than the SP. I don't want to walk into an building, have awkward eye contact with the guard and then 45min to an hour later, walk past him again. I'm sure he can see in his monitor which floor I'm getting off on and when I exit the elevator, unclear of where the room is. It's probably nothing and I'm just being paranoid but that's exactly it. When I'm doing this my senses are heightened so I'm extra paranoid and over act to compensate which probably makes me look sketchy or out of place. Thirdly, don't talk to me through the buzzer/intercom. Text me your unit number and I'll see you upstairs. All 3 points have to do with discretion. You get the idea.
Independent vs. Agency
I find independent SP's either really organized or not organized at all. The really organized ones have their shit together and are a pleasure to deal with. They answer emails in a timely fashion and respond respectfully. It's a business and like any business, you are reflected by your customers. If your first point of contact is short or rude, how's that professional? Now the unorganized ones... I've contacted SP's via email and text and I am always polite and a gentleman. I've received responses that make me feel like I am interrupting or wasting their time OR there's no response at all. Is that how you treat potential clients? If I am ACTUALLY interrupting, just send a quick acknowledgement when you can and get back to me later. If I'm wasting your time, then why did you post an ad and say "call me"? I think Agency's for the most part are great. They are organized and usually have dedicated phone staff to field inquiries.
Don't get me started on fake pictures.
Sorry after reading this back to myself, it sort of turned into a rant and that's not what I meant it to be. These are observations that turned into preferences.
Thanks for reading.
