Warm, genuine SPs who clearly enjoy their vocation

hornygandalf

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One of the things I value and put high importance on in an encounter with a lady is a warmth in personality, affection, joy, genuine, sense of connectedness and being in the moment, and thoroughly enjoying the experience as something more than just a commercial transaction. I find this is more important to the quality of an encounter than any so-called age number, breast size or firmness, or pubic-hair styling (or lack of).

I know ones' experience may vary along with inevitable personal chemistry (so, YMMV), but who are the warmest, most genuine and affectionate SP's you have had the pleasure of enjoying an encounter with? And what is it that has made it special or a standout for you (briefly)?
 

spoogie

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Creole lady marmalade aka Stephanie back in the day. Saw her tons. Just had a really chill friendly vibe with her.

Lucy Lake. Only have seen her once, was late and flustered. She was kind without being over the top, sexy as hell, and despite being sexy as hell, remained incredibly approachable.

Brittany bangs. Young, hilarious, and filthy mouthed. Never seemed like an act, more like you were joking with a friend. Her bj stands to this day as the one all others are measured by.
 
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It's Julie Page for me. She's my ATF for this very reason. I've seen her numerous times now, and I will again shortly. I just love spending time with her. In addition to being sexy as hell, she's warm, fun and funny, and there isn't the least hint of drama or bullshit about her.
 

westwoody

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Victoria Jolie. I have never had such a good connection with an SP, from the first time I met her it felt like she was an intimate friend. Great person to be with, the closest thing possible to a true GFE.
 

georgejetson

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With the responses you had so far, I think it you can see that for a true GFE type of date it is a ymmv thing depending on chemistry.
 
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westcoast555

Victoria Jolie. I have never had such a good connection with an SP, from the first time I met her it felt like she was an intimate friend. Great person to be with, the closest thing possible to a true GFE.
Yeah, Victoria is fantastic. She is a true courtesan.. and love her accent. Kim Capri is a sweetie too. So is Miss Luxx. I think YMMV is a very important guiding principle.
 

hornygandalf

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With the responses you had so far, I think it you can see that for a true GFE type of date it is a ymmv thing depending on chemistry.
Which is why I said:
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I know ones' experience may vary along with inevitable personal chemistry (so, YMMV) ...
I expected a diversity of answers. I wasn't looking for a specific GFE recommendation for myself, as I know it is YMMV and dependent on chemistry.
But, I thought it would be an interesting thread for fellow gentlemen to share their thoughts and experiences. And there have been some interesting responses already.

For me, my experiences have been too few and far between, and I haven't repeated with anyone, but probably the closest would be Serina Treat and Playful Alex, though Sally from Tina's operation in the past was pretty good too. And even in those names there is a fair amount of diversity.
 

Vitargo

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Of the 18sp's I've seen, there are two that that stand out.

Miranda 9157- my first sp who had me hooked,pretty much just saw other sp's when she wasn't available
Monica Love- smiling and happy from start to finish. Nice when shed hold me close during intermission. Need to see her again(hope she hasn't retired as mentioned recently in a review)
 

tadolder

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Heidi Hayes, beautiful, very chill, intelligent, great personality, easy to talk too, great sense of humor, very skilled, and those eyes are incredible!!! Fun to be with, not a clock watcher, a really caring person. Feels like its all about me the whole time, every time.

Claire Monet, gorgeous, laid back, smart, funny, amazing personality, easy to talk to, cute laugh, sexy as hell!! I've spent a lot of time with Claire, including dinner and play dates, various lengths of time, bottom line we need a month together. Amazing person!!! YMMV, but for me it's like being with someone i have known and wanted for years, just wasn't able to.

Both ladies haven't been tainted buy the business, and are well grounded, no drama, no surprises, no disappointments.
 

georgejetson

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I expected a diversity of answers. I wasn't looking for a specific GFE recommendation for myself, as I know it is YMMV and dependent on chemistry.
But, I thought it would be an interesting thread for fellow gentlemen to share their thoughts and experiences. And there have been some interesting responses already.

For me, my experiences have been too few and far between, and I haven't repeated with anyone, but probably the closest would be Serina Treat and Playful Alex, though Sally from Tina's operation in the past was pretty good too. And even in those names there is a fair amount of diversity.
Saying that, in my experience I would recommend Chloee Rose.
 

NVM

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I've seen quite a few ladies over the years and this is one quality I try to look for as well. I take pride in my job and always try to be the best at it. Saying that I completly realize sp's have a slightly different job than most but I feel like there are a few out there who truly enjoy what they do.

Hers my experience:
#1 christy aka little miss sunshine. She is AMAZING and I feel that everytime I go and see her she wants to make the experience better than the last time.

#2 Lavinia. Sex machine start to finish. Weather we did really click or not she sure made me feel like we did. I had my first duo with too and she went above and beyond to make everything perfect.

#3 odette Harlow. I've know odette for a long long time. She has a absolute slamming body and is one of the nicest ladies you will ever meet.

This is my list. I ask a similar question back in 2007 when I joined and the fellas on here helped me out huge. I hope this thread helps you find what you are looking for.
 
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westcoast555

Yeah, Victoria is fantastic. She is a true courtesan.. and love her accent. Kim Capri is a sweetie too. So is Miss Luxx. I think YMMV is a very important guiding principle.
Actually, I've been extraordinarily lucky with almost all the lovely women I see. Firstly, I only go with premium providers. Second, I am courteous and clean and make a point of trying to match their level of energy.

It sounds like I'm bragging so I hesitate to mention but I feel like the women I'm with always enjoy being with me. And yes, I know I've been played and I've definitely had sessions that were terrible or where the girl did her job but was clearly just going through the motions with zero chemistry.

I'm reasonably fit, toned, and clean shaven etc.... but I'm no stud. I do OK with the ladies outside of the SP world but nothing to brag about - no bar star or club stud especially with the young ones. That said, I've been lucky. I think for a lot of SPs, once they assess a client and determine that he's clean, has FRESH BREATH - this is a huge one, pleasant, decent looking etc. they can relax and enjoy themselves. I know I'm not alone in being lucky this way. It's one of the reasons I recommend pooning when you are younger and it's not out of the question that the SP might actually even find you attractive. Some of the most amazing sex I've had has been with SPs. The trick of doing it when you are younger is being able to do it without being a douchebag (i.e. exuding a lot of ego, attitude, narcissism, trying to bargain for extras or trying to re-enact your favorite gonzo pornos). If you can avoid those pitfalls I'm convinced there's a kind of eroticism in the relationship with an SP where it can turn them on to do something for money that they wouldn't really mind doing anyway. For one, it completely removes the power politics from the situation. Basically its: "I know what you need, you know what I want - now let's have fun doing it". No complications, no ambiguities, no unknown expectations, no conflict, no misunderstandings, no power dynamics. And I think on a deeper level there's an compelling and empowering dissociation for the SP that she is free to engage in random and illicit sex with no consequences and a clear financial benefit. The relationship dynamic is completely flattened by the injection of a precisely determined and agreed upon amount of money. It's that simple.

I would say I've had stellar sessions and mutual enjoyment (i.e. where they really did seem to enjoy it or even come hard without faking) with all of the following on top of the ones that I've mentioned above:

1) Shelby Luxx
2) Claire Monet
3) Lavinia
4) Natlia Bijoux
5) Volpina Vance
6) Daria Fox
7) Odette Harlow
8) Blonde Brynn
9) Talisha Cruz
10) Various other girls from the FoxDen
12) Reiko Love
13) Sheila
14) Serina Treat
15) Cami Parker

Of course maybe they are just consummate professionals and I'm delusional and they roll their eyes and sigh once they shut the door behind me. But I don't think so. And besides, if that's the case I don't care anyway, I'm usually happy and delighted after a session.

Just my thoughts.
 

hankmoody

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One of the things I value and put high importance on in an encounter with a lady is a warmth in personality, affection, joy, genuine, sense of connectedness and being in the moment, and thoroughly enjoying the experience as something more than just a commercial transaction. I find this is more important to the quality of an encounter than any so-called age number, breast size or firmness, or pubic-hair styling (or lack of).

I know ones' experience may vary along with inevitable personal chemistry (so, YMMV), but who are the warmest, most genuine and affectionate SP's you have had the pleasure of enjoying an encounter with? And what is it that has made it special or a standout for you (briefly)?
Great topic!
I agree 100%. Looks and services are meaningless to me without the above qualities.
I would ad Angelina Develin and Michelle Fox to the list. Very special ladies.
 
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Man in Submission

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I'm reasonably fit, toned, and clean shaven etc.... but I'm no stud. I do OK with the ladies outside of the SP world but nothing to brag about - no bar star or club stud especially with the young ones. That said, I've been lucky. I think for a lot of SPs, once they assess a client and determine that he's clean, has FRESH BREATH - this is a huge one, pleasant, decent looking etc. they can relax and enjoy themselves. I know I'm not alone in being lucky this way. It's one of the reasons I recommend pooning when you are younger and it's not out of the question that the SP might actually even find you attractive. Some of the most amazing sex I've had has been with SPs. The trick of doing it when you are younger is being able to do it without being a douchebag (i.e. exuding a lot of ego, attitude, narcissism, trying to bargain for extras or trying to re-enact your favorite gonzo pornos). If you can avoid those pitfalls I'm convinced there's a kind of eroticism in the relationship with an SP where it can turn them on to do something for money that they wouldn't really mind doing anyway. For one, it completely removes the power politics from the situation. Basically its: "I know what you need, you know what I want - now let's have fun doing it". No complications, no ambiguities, no unknown expectations, no conflict, no misunderstandings, no power dynamics. And I think on a deeper level there's an compelling and empowering dissociation for the SP that she is free to engage in random and illicit sex with no consequences and a clear financial benefit. The relationship dynamic is completely flattened by the injection of a precisely determined and agreed upon amount of money. It's that simple.
Couldn't have said it better! It sure is nice to click to the point where we always go over the allotted time, but because she enjoys our time together and wants to go longer. You treat a genuinely good person with kindness, respect and generosity (I make a point of always bringing a gift(s) and a tip), it will probably be reciprocated. For me personally, a lady's enjoyment is paramount and if I sense for a second it's a chore for her to be there, which luckily has rarely happened, then I will politely ride out the session and not call again. It is not unusual for a lady to be guarded initially, but it sure is gratifying to break down the barrier, build trust and eventually see her genuinely enjoying herself and feeling comfortable enough to take control and initiative. And when she - in a non-intrusive manner - encourages you to visit again soon, and always greets you when you do with that warm, inviting smile and tender embrace, it really is something special. Inspirational too - I have never been quite as thorough, resolute and diligent with hygiene, fitness and general health as I have been since our first rendezvous. I'm determined to always be the best I can be for her, and that is helping me to grow as a person in so many ways.
 

Dickson

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Well gentlemen this is a great way to start the year. I have seen well maybe too many SPs over the years and I have to agree what has been said. For me it is about the connection and there are a lot of great SPs over the years who fit this discription. Many are listed here. A few missing include Ashley Lawerence, who has been more than kind, sweet Bree one of the nicest, sweetest. However I have to say that in all my years doing this in all the cities the one who went way beyond any SP out there is hands down Catherine James. No lady is more real and careing. This lady touches not only your body but your heart and soul.

Ms James is by far and away the ultimate GFE. She goes out of her way to make a connection and is so real and easy on your personal well being. For me the ladies indicated and listed have been so good to me over the years and I have a great deal of respect even the ones who can not take me on as a client. However if you guys want to know one way beyond the list then Ms James is the one you need to see and step into heaven.

Catherine James no question will take you over the top. But that is just my opinon after years of service and too much money to count. I just find that Ms James redefines the game. Few times do you see that happen but this lady does that. You will think you died and went to heaven.
 
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