do SPs only see you once if you aren't their preferred client type?

[Chessmen]

Based on my experiences, I've had SPs who did not reply to my emails after my first session. It was easy to book my first time, but for some reason I never got a response after I asked about meeting again

I'll like to believe that it wasn't about me, or that they are overwhelmed with other emails but could it also be that I wasn't their preferred type? I had an enjoyable first session and was given lots of attention so it is rather disappointing when you don't get a second date.

 

[hornygandalf]

Maybe they have been reading Michael Ports' book, Book Yourself Solid. Suggests you find the clients you love and ditch the rest. You will be happier, and 'cause you are happier, you'll tend to provide better service... and so on.

 

[bcneil]

If a session is just okay or below average, I wont generally try again. So I assume some of these ladies probably would rather not see me again either.

But you are talking about session that went well enough for you to want future sessions.
So its a bit odd.

How often does this happen?

 

[Chessmen]

Yes I enjoyed the session and the service was great, with the GFE experience I wanted. It happened twice, both with email contacts only. In the first case, based on what I read here, the SP mentioned that she preferred to stick mostly to regulars she knew well. She quit the industry not too long after.

In the second time, it's a highly reviewed girl on here. I sent her a follow up email after the session close to a week ago and she hasn't yet responded to my inquiry about a second meeting.

Is it fair for an escort to not see a client again if he didn't satisfy her enough or could it be simply because of the way I look and acted?

 

[Booblover123]

I think a lot of the girls are pretty busy checking emails,texts,pms,voice mails,and most dont want to reply if it is been too long.Having said that though the girls have every right to choose whoever they want to repeat with and everyone has different tastes.I would not dwell on it too much,it happens.

 

[Edward Lei]

Is it fair for an escort to not see a client again if he didn't satisfy her enough or could it be simply because of the way I look and acted?

Of course, it's fair for an escort to not want to see a client again. Clients do the same. It's possible she could be too busy or just plain missed your first email so a second follow up email wouldn't hurt. But if there's no reply again, it's probably best to move on. Some of the part time escorts only really check their email when they're actually working.

 

[LADY-VIA]

Maybe she did respond but her email never made it to you ? For some odd reason my emails do not always go through. I'm not sure why but occasionally they don't. I catch on sometimes when I have been conversing with someone for a while and then I don't hear back or if it's a regular who always messages me back right away. After no word back from them I have re emailed them with another email account only to have it confirmed that they never received my email explaining why I never received one back and so on and so forth.

 

[shedevil]

Based on my experiences, I've had SPs who did not reply to my emails after my first session. It was easy to book my first time, but for some reason I never got a response after I asked about meeting again

I'll like to believe that it wasn't about me, or that they are overwhelmed with other emails but could it also be that I wasn't their preferred type? I had an enjoyable first session and was given lots of attention so it is rather disappointing when you don't get a second date.

Unless someone has really upset me, I don't tell someone that I don't want to see them again. Unless they really, really push me.

I can always go through one appointment with someone new. I used to do it twice. the "is it you, or is it me?" session. However, I am extremely honest and hippy-dippy-feeling-intuitive-type. So, if something doesn't FEEL right to me, I cannot repeat.

I prefer to be genuine and spend time with someone that I genuinely enjoy. I will not force myself and fake enthusiasm for someone if it isn't there for me. It is mentally and emotionally draining and it really takes a lot of me as a provider and I found that in the past I would get extremely burned out from it.

I respect what the hobby costs for my clients and I want to bring my best for someone. If I cannot honestly provide that for someone I cannot repeat with someone. I also dislike having any confrontation with someone which I why I try to avoid the "You're fired, I'm not interested or I just don't like you" emails.

Just my opinion.

SD

 

[Chessmen]

Thanks a lot for your thoughts.
I won't dwell on it, but it will still be disappointing if this keeps on happening in the future. It'll make me wonder if there is something wrong or off putting about myself when a girl doesn't want to see me again. If this happens again and again with every girl I see, it is reasonable for me to know what it is about me that makes them not want a repeat session with me...

 

[rick hunter]

Thanks a lot for your thoughts.
I won't dwell on it, but it will still be disappointing if this keeps on happening in the future. It'll make me wonder if there is something wrong or off putting about myself when a girl doesn't want to see me again. If this happens again and again with every girl I see, it is reasonable for me to know what it is about me that makes them not want a repeat session with me...

Do you take a shower at the beginning? Most sp's ask this. I've had a few tell me that they had to make it mandatory after a client said they had showered at home but still stunk. Maybe you said or did something that raised a red flag for them or you tried to negotiate on the rate? I wasn't there but these are a few reasons why you could get blacklisted.

 

[Lady Companion]

Try calling instead of emailing.

It's possible that your email is going into spam, or there is some kind of glitch. It's also possible (if you are using her contact for to contact her) that you aren't typing in your email address correctly. I have several bounce backs every week because people type their email address in wrong).

Technology isn't nearly as reliable as we like to think.

It would be extremely unprofessional for a lady to just ignore you. If she doesn't want to see you again, she should simply say something along the lines of "It was wonderful seeing you, but I don't think we were the best match. You may be interested in person xyz, as I think you would really hit it off!"

Don't let you mind run in circles over it. It likely has nothing to do with you at all. I think it is most likely that she isn't getting your messages for some reason, but she could also be going through an unexpected tough time, and just not be looking at anything work related at the moment.