So I see this person today

[rexxx]

So you disagree with the prevailing thought in both Western and Traditional Medicine that a healthy mind is the foundation of a healthy body?
Since you are a proponent of western methodology you may just be the person to let the AMA and the CMA know that Psychosomatic Induced Illness does not exist.

Psychosomatic induced illness? Sure. Psychosomatic induced Testicular cancer? Not in a million years

 

[westwoody]

The only thing you have said is " no , no , no....."

Are you serious? What you are saying is as ridiculous as shaking a magic wand at a tumour and expecting it to disappear.

Post one link to peer-reviewed journal article about stress-related testicular cancer. Please.

 

[myselftheother]

Why did you guys let luckydick hyjack an interesting thread? It's like giving Silky credibility...

 

[westwoody]

German New Medicine is...

That quack had his medical license revoked for fraud. The guy claims things that are completely false and preys on sick people.
He has advised patients to stop chemotherapy and pay for his treatments instead. Patients who subsequently died.
He makes anti-Semitic rants about a global Jewish conspiracy of doctors that are suppressing his quackery.
And here you are promoting his frauds.
I don't know if you are just trolling to annoy people or are actually stupid enough to believe that stuff.
My mother died of cancer and I take cancer scams very seriously. There is nothing funny about those lies.

Posting nonsense on youtube is not the same as having a paper published in Science or The Lancet.

I can't believe anyone takes this crap seriously. It's like getting advice on how to stay slim from Oprah.

 

[sevenofnine]

First of all you or one shouldn't make assumptions of what I feel or what my needs are my marriage is like etc,
you don't know me or my marriage, and everyone is different,

and I clearly state, my cheating is wrong, just stupid, and there you have it no defense, I have rationalized it but in the end its between me and my wife, and god if there is one.
but again life is not perfect I am not perfect, far from it,


I guess at the end of the day, you could say I don't want to be judged for my actions so why am I judging some one else, fair enough,

I don't know any one who has gone through the operation well, its just my feelings on the matter, that its wrong,
to cut off perfectly good body parts.
like me, when I first saw escorts,
it was the most driving thing in my life, now ten years latters, its, what have I done,

I wonder if a guy that guts off a penis and some point down the road, will wonder what have I done,
I kind of think so,

and about fitting into society,
I know about fitting into society, my father was arrested for rape for days he was on the front of the news paper. before that years of dysfunctional abuse.
life is hard enough with out putting a bull's-eye on you, look at me I am a freak,

I understand a lot more then people give me credit for,

all I am really saying at times something grabs you, and it won't let you go, like sex or this need for something, and once you achieve it, what the fuck was the big deal.
im saying just because you can change a guy to a girl doesn't mean you should,

sometimes it takes years of living to look back and look back then you wonder what the big deal was.
but at the time it was the most important thing in your life.


i think in a sense, sometimes you have to go through things to realize they are wrong or not such a big deal,
but when you cut off your penis you can't go back,

and personally i think a lot of the stats are screwed or biased,
like someone i know keeps saying gay marriages are the most stable the most happiest, the best place to raise a kid,
and they keep saying research proves this out,
bullshit, gay people can be just as stupid as anyone else. straight people don't have the market on stupid,
maybe at the beginning of this whole gay marriage thing, people have really thought it out, but when it becomes more common,
gay marriages will become just as fucked up as any other marriage,
right now its in the honey moon stage,


and i kind of think that is where were at with trans gender,, doing this operation were in the honeymoon stage, its all good and great, why should we struggle with these feelings all our life, we can change you to a women so lets. do it,
but decades down the road, i think we will wonder if it is such a good idea.

and not to talk about any one in specifics.

cheating on your wife is bad for society, it leads to single moms single parent families, a lot of instability in the family in society, which brings about troubled kids, which causes more of everything court time therpists cops etc, i don't say how anyone can say cheating is good.
its easy to make generalities but, then you have to look at specific cases.

we shouldn't cover everyone with the same blanket.

The problem is common sense isn't all that common

I really don't think the docs are the right people that should be in charge of this, and therapists,
there supposed to be so smart therapists and shrinks,
but a lot of people have wondered about, therapy in general and this whole sort of marketing of mental health and therapy,

any way just my opinion,

and i kind of believe a lot of people feel the same way, there just too afraid
to be not politically correct.

 

[LalaniElectrica]

Yes, 7of9, I think there is most definitely a double standard in society with regards to the laws that are upon us and being accepting of all orientations. I actually had a TS (MtoF) Alexis dyne was my partner for 4 years, and we travelled the world together! Still very good friends, and I can tell you that the discrimination faced specifically by M to F TS's as many people mistook me for a TS since I am tall and muscular so I can tell you the discrimination faced is horrendous! Being a Lifestyle Domme means I encounter many such people in transition as well. It's commendable that Alexis got her surgeries from her own hard work!

That being said, if a TS only wants to get her top surgery, the government will not fund it at all and nor will the Dr's allow it unless they get the bottom surgery as well. The only place that they can go for it is Montreal, and they make you get both at the same time, which means more expense to provide flights etc… I think it's moronic for the Health care professionals to insist on both top and bottom, what if the person wants to keep the bottom, or their partner wants them to keep the bottom etc??? So thank god for Thailand as there are many surgeons who will do a great job for a fraction of the price, and the clinics are very sterile and service was exceptional!

So sorry to hear you are in a sexless marriage and I agree that society should not make you feel like a criminal for looking to a professional for companionship, as touch is something we all need from time to time… Lots of Hugz, Lalani xoxox

 

[wilde]

First of all you or one shouldn't make assumptions of what I feel or what my needs are my marriage is like etc,
you don't know me or my marriage, and everyone is different,

and I clearly state, my cheating is wrong, just stupid, and there you have it no defense, I have rationalized it but in the end its between me and my wife, and god if there is one.
but again life is not perfect I am not perfect, far from it,


I guess at the end of the day, you could say I don't want to be judged for my actions so why am I judging some one else, fair enough,

I don't know any one who has gone through the operation well, its just my feelings on the matter, that its wrong,
to cut off perfectly good body parts.
like me, when I first saw escorts,
it was the most driving thing in my life, now ten years latters, its, what have I done,

I wonder if a guy that guts off a penis and some point down the road, will wonder what have I done,
I kind of think so,

and about fitting into society,
I know about fitting into society, my father was arrested for rape for days he was on the front of the news paper. before that years of dysfunctional abuse.
life is hard enough with out putting a bull's-eye on you, look at me I am a freak,

I understand a lot more then people give me credit for,

all I am really saying at times something grabs you, and it won't let you go, like sex or this need for something, and once you achieve it, what the fuck was the big deal.
im saying just because you can change a guy to a girl doesn't mean you should,

sometimes it takes years of living to look back and look back then you wonder what the big deal was.
but at the time it was the most important thing in your life.


i think in a sense, sometimes you have to go through things to realize they are wrong or not such a big deal,
but when you cut off your penis you can't go back,

and personally i think a lot of the stats are screwed or biased,
like someone i know keeps saying gay marriages are the most stable the most happiest, the best place to raise a kid,
and they keep saying research proves this out,
bullshit, gay people can be just as stupid as anyone else. straight people don't have the market on stupid,
maybe at the beginning of this whole gay marriage thing, people have really thought it out, but when it becomes more common,
gay marriages will become just as fucked up as any other marriage,
right now its in the honey moon stage,


and i kind of think that is where were at with trans gender,, doing this operation were in the honeymoon stage, its all good and great, why should we struggle with these feelings all our life, we can change you to a women so lets. do it,
but decades down the road, i think we will wonder if it is such a good idea.

and not to talk about any one in specifics.

cheating on your wife is bad for society, it leads to single moms single parent families, a lot of instability in the family in society, which brings about troubled kids, which causes more of everything court time therpists cops etc, i don't say how anyone can say cheating is good.
its easy to make generalities but, then you have to look at specific cases.

we shouldn't cover everyone with the same blanket.

The problem is common sense isn't all that common

I really don't think the docs are the right people that should be in charge of this, and therapists,
there supposed to be so smart therapists and shrinks,
but a lot of people have wondered about, therapy in general and this whole sort of marketing of mental health and therapy,

any way just my opinion,

and i kind of believe a lot of people feel the same way, there just too afraid
to be not politically correct.

God, you're phucking insufferable. All of that BS to try and justify your pooning/cheating because in comparison to a sex change, it is so inconsequential. People don't undergo a sexual realignment surgery on a whim, decades later they still identify with the gender they felt they were supposed to be to begin with. Having a rapist for a father, one would think that you of all people should be more tolerant due to the stigma of growing up with the sins of your father through not fault of your own.

 

[sevenofnine]

An article in the newspaper on a transgendered person in Toronto, Lost his, her, job, after the operation, because of the bad atmosphere in the work place, cannot find another one, years I think they have tried, gets one interview and never called back.


I think it was Bill Cosby who said, the smartest man he ever met was his father or grandfather, who only read one book the bible,
He said first comes reality then comes philosophy. And you can start by paying the rent.
The world you have to fit into, the world doesn't adjust to you, And if you can't get a job, have a limited opportunity to socialize have friends.
I dunno, but like I said it makes no sense to me, for many many reasons.

yeah I am entitled to my opinion,
personal attacks seem funny in that no one knows me well enough, and its my fucking life to live.
and I put myself out on this board, im more honest and open as to who I am then any one perhaps on this board.
so I get there is a lot to say. about me,

but people with there criticisms,, should talk about their life and see how it comes. that would be funny,
who has such a perfect dam life, anyone.

at then end of the day what does it get you worrying about some one else's life. your the one you see in the mirror each and every day, and your the person you have to live with.

and of course I am justifying my reasons for seeing and escort, duh

but we all have needs. desires. that is no secret, but there is a big difference in how we go about getting what we want. and in some cases what we want, as in some eighteen year old girl so I can stick things up her ass, when Im sixty or

an sp who is more close to my age, and I have seen her for ten years, and we have a relationship, whether its real or in my own mind,

Some one once said at the end of the day, character is all we have.
ya I am cheating on my wife, but she doesn't want to have sex with me any more,
so there you have it,

the facts.
my options, don't have sex ever again, have an affair divorce my wife, or pay some one,
I chose to pay someone,

like most of the men on this board, the women are selling,

my choice to stay in my marriage, family kids are important to me, I saw both my kids in and through university my son has a great job opportunity coming up,
I don't know what my family would be like if I through them in to turmoil, and they had to worry about simply surviving, instead of what they wanted to do with there life,

and I am not a martyr, I enjoy my kids, my family, coming home every night, my home is not a bad place to be,
just not a lot of sex happening,

and that is pretty easy to take care of one way or another,

 

[rickoshadows]

The funny thing about hypocrosy is that it is a two way mirror that you are standing on the wrong side of.

 

[wilde]

An article in the newspaper on a transgendered person in Toronto, Lost his, her, job, after the operation, because of the bad atmosphere in the work place, cannot find another one, years I think they have tried, gets one interview and never called back.


I think it was Bill Cosby who said, the smartest man he ever met was his father or grandfather, who only read one book the bible,
He said first comes reality then comes philosophy. And you can start by paying the rent.
The world you have to fit into, the world doesn't adjust to you, And if you can't get a job, have a limited opportunity to socialize have friends.
I dunno, but like I said it makes no sense to me, for many many reasons.

yeah I am entitled to my opinion,
personal attacks seem funny in that no one knows me well enough, and its my fucking life to live.
and I put myself out on this board, im more honest and open as to who I am then any one perhaps on this board.
so I get there is a lot to say. about me,

but people with there criticisms,, should talk about their life and see how it comes. that would be funny,
who has such a perfect dam life, anyone.

at then end of the day what does it get you worrying about some one else's life. your the one you see in the mirror each and every day, and your the person you have to live with.

and of course I am justifying my reasons for seeing and escort, duh

but we all have needs. desires. that is no secret, but there is a big difference in how we go about getting what we want. and in some cases what we want, as in some eighteen year old girl so I can stick things up her ass, when Im sixty or

an sp who is more close to my age, and I have seen her for ten years, and we have a relationship, whether its real or in my own mind,

Some one once said at the end of the day, character is all we have.
ya I am cheating on my wife, but she doesn't want to have sex with me any more,
so there you have it,

the facts.
my options, don't have sex ever again, have an affair divorce my wife, or pay some one,
I chose to pay someone,

like most of the men on this board, the women are selling,

my choice to stay in my marriage, family kids are important to me, I saw both my kids in and through university my son has a great job opportunity coming up,
I don't know what my family would be like if I through them in to turmoil, and they had to worry about simply surviving, instead of what they wanted to do with there life,

and I am not a martyr, I enjoy my kids, my family, coming home every night, my home is not a bad place to be,
just not a lot of sex happening,

and that is pretty easy to take care of one way or another,

7of9, you're still at it, I see. Why do you insist on drawing a comparison with a transgender person? Does it make your own shitty life feel better? You don't get any sex at home as you've told us many times before. Abstinence, jerk off, find a mistress, see an sp, have an affair, divorce that bitch, who gives a shit. Has a transgendered person shit on your bed lately?

 

[vancity_cowboy]

And that is the question you should have asked yourself instead of posting a single word to this thread... Unless, of course your entire intent was to get a bunch of strangers to dump all over you.

eh? what's that you're saying? nobody strange here... :crazy: :clap2: :wave: :eyebrows:

 

[myselftheother]

And that is the question you should have asked yourself instead of posting a single word to this thread... Unless, of course your entire intent was to get a bunch of strangers to dump all over you.

Yup...the woe is me thing. Made himself the innocent victim, ' oh my god, I saw a transgendered person, help me perb!'