How do you go 24 years without slipping and falling in some pu**y ?
Unless you were saving yourself in which case seeing a sp should be out of the window for you , I think most of them would agree that it definitely ain't something new threads like this get made more often than you think.
My advice to you is just go to erlist and pick anyone you think is suitable and get it over with, it doesn't matter who because you'll probably end up regretting it anyway.