Less Booty, or Bigger boobs?

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

ARgh...quandary!

I haven't made much of a secret of the fact that I used to be a BBW. In fact, at 285 pounds and 5'8", I was almost a SSBBW. Now I always say that I have a MILF-like body, because it's slender, but soft. I have done an amazing job I think of maintaining my weight loss and my size and shape, but over the past month (since meeting my coltish little friend) I have added a little extra junk to the trunk! I've only gained about 10 pounds, but it's noticeable to me, for sure. Here's the quandary though.

I actually like the way my boobs look better +15 pounds above where I like the way my arse looks. (SIGH)

Less booty, but less boob. Bigger boobs, bigger booty.

I am also 6 weeks away from the consult on a lift and slight augmentation. Faun argues that I have great tits, and shouldn't touch them (except to play with them!) I feel like I would like them to be higher, and slightly fuller, though I don't want to be above a DD. That would be 2 sizes...

Thoughts from anyone who's seen me naked (or would like to) are welcome! Anyone in the 'you're over 40 and past your best buy date: why bother?" just go ahead, say it out loud, and skip the thread!

xox
Ms E.

 

[kes458]

ARgh...quandary!

I haven't made much of a secret of the fact that I used to be a BBW. In fact, at 285 pounds and 5'8", I was almost a SSBBW. Now I always say that I have a MILF-like body, because it's slender, but soft. I have done an amazing job I think of maintaining my weight loss and my size and shape, but over the past month (since meeting my coltish little friend) I have added a little extra junk to the trunk! I've only gained about 10 pounds, but it's noticeable to me, for sure. Here's the quandary though.

I actually like the way my boobs look better +15 pounds above where I like the way my arse looks. (SIGH)

Less booty, but less boob. Bigger boobs, bigger booty.

I am also 6 weeks away from the consult on a lift and slight augmentation. Faun argues that I have great tits, and shouldn't touch them (except to play with them!) I feel like I would like them to be higher, and slightly fuller, though I don't want to be above a DD. That would be 2 sizes...
Thoughts from anyone who's seen me naked (or would like to) are welcome! Anyone in the 'you're over 40 and past your best buy date: why bother?" just go ahead, say it out loud, and skip the thread!

xox
Ms E.

Ahhh Ms E - - you know I think you are fine but being a bit of a boob guy I think a little higher and fuller would look great on you. And definitely don't go overboard alphabetically. Something for me to look forward to maybe

 

[twoblues]

I've always been a 'booty over boobs' sort of guy. Don't get me wrong, I love big ample breasts, but, after a while, they get in the way. A nice ass is something I never get tired of and...it doesn't lead to back pain

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Ahhh Ms E - - you know I think you are fine but being a bit of a boob guy I think a little higher and fuller would look great on you. And definitely don't go overboard alphabetically. Something for me to look forward to maybe

LOL Oh definitely! You see, the problem for me is that having been a 44GG when I was at my heaviest, they tend to look a little...deflated, let's say, when viewed from a certain angle. That said, the angles in which my boobs don't look so great, my arse is presented at its finest...

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

I've always been a 'booty over boobs' sort of guy. Don't get me wrong, I love big ample breasts, but, after a while, they get in the way. A nice ass is something I never get tired of and...it doesn't lead to back pain

Well they WERE big and ample when all of me was big and ample! :eyebrows: The booty is still a whole lot smaller than it used to be, but I might have to go up a jeans size again...
And now the lingerie fits properly in the bust, but since most of my panties are thong or g-strings, they all still fit! It's a tricky balance! If I lose the extra 12 pounds I've put on this summer, then go ahead with the lift...it may kill an old bull or two*, but they'll die grinning!

(and I am certified in One Rescuer CPR...I'll keep your heart pumping until the paramedics arrive (and the housemates can get you back into your pants and onto the sidewalk...:wink

 

[here4fun]

I fall into the bigger boobs and booty is better demographic. Yes would love to see you with both and would have loved to have seen you when you used to be part of the BBW club. That said you look great now.

The more important thing is how you feel about it. Sexiness is much more about attitude and the mind.

 

[87112]

I prefer a nicer rear.
Too many fake boobies out there while a nice rear from plastic surgery is not common.

 

[kes458]

You always look after me but it's good to know you can revive me too. And have the housemates just set me up behind the steering wheel if the paramedics don't take me !

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

I fall into the bigger boobs and booty is better demographic. Yes would love to see you with both and would have loved to have seen you when you used to be part of the BBW club. That said you look great now.

The more important thing is how you feel about it. Sexiness is much more about attitude and the mind.

You have seen me with bigger, darling: you have just forgotten! I however, recall that you were among my first 10 encounters!

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

That is a great ass for heavy / deep smothering a face :thumb:. Just lay him down face up....get on top, spread them, plop down and sit heavily without questions!! Ignore him while you read a book or surf the net Chuckle if he begs for mercy

Yup...it is!

I wanted weigh in (GROAN!) again on this, and thank all the wonderful gentlemen who commented in such a positive and useful fashion, whether you chose to do so publicly here, through PM, or, as one dear man did, phone just to reassure me that either way, he thinks I'm swell, and coming from such an ass man, it was a huge compliment! :nod:After considering the way I feel, and passing up the treats and temptations SOMEONE keeps bringing into the house for a few days, I am almost back to the prime balance, but not quite. Boobs still big, but butt bigger not better. Better butt beats bigger boobs*because baby's got too much back! I biought a new pair of shorts today at Old Navy and felt distinctly far too muffin toppy...so, back to squats and lunges in the woods I go...(sigh) Goodbye Cheesie Poofs: our briefly rekindled love affair must end, for otherwise, I will lose myself to you completely!

xox


*Try saying THAT 10 times, fast!

 

[hornygandalf]

There are, I believe, certain spices, such as tumeric and cinnamon, which are supposedly good for reduction of excess belly fat (in conjunction with appropriate exercise). Can't vouch for it myself, but my SO has takes it some of the time as part of a smoothie in the morning and claims that it has made a difference. And possibly it has. I would never dare contradict her on things like that.

 

[MissVioletRei]

There are, I believe, certain spices, such as tumeric and cinnamon, which are supposedly good for reduction of excess belly fat (in conjunction with appropriate exercise). Can't vouch for it myself, but my SO has takes it some of the time as part of a smoothie in the morning and claims that it has made a difference. And possibly it has. I would never dare contradict her on things like that.

Cinnamon is amazing!

Banana, cinnamon smoothie with oats & vanilla, mm!

 

[hornygandalf]

Frozen blueberries, rasberries, kale, cinnamon, tumeric, hemp seed powder, flax seed powder, flax seed oil, sometimes some walnuts, banana and almond milk.