Need Help ... Please Answer (Condom slipped off during sex)

lenny

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His main health concern is herpes
Really? Why?

Most adults involved in prostitution as clients or providers already have it, probably himself included before the accident in question.

The genital form is a risk even with an intact plastic baggie.
 
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UhOh

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Really? Why?

Most adults involved in prostitution as clients or providers already have it, probably himself included before the accident in question.

The genital form is a risk even with an intact plastic baggie.
If he and she already have herpes then I'd be even more concerned since having herpes increases the risk by 5 times of contracting hiv from an infected partner. Just in the interest of keeping it real.
 

lenny

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If he and she already have herpes then I'd be even more concerned since having herpes increases the risk by 5 times of contracting hiv from an infected partner. Just in the interest of keeping it real.
Most people don't have genital herpes. Moreover the OP makes no mention of having herpes or any sores being present & says he even uses condoms for BJs, so sounds like a very safe guy who'ld be low risk for contracting the disease.

"There is an estimated 2- to 4-fold increased risk of acquiring HIV, if exposed to that infection when genital herpes is present." http://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/stdfact-herpes-detailed.htm
 

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Hep A&B should never be an issue in the developed world since the option of a simple and cheap vaccine exists.
I know a teenage girl diagnosed with hep C. She's never done drugs and lived a clean lifestyle but her father has it, somehow it got passed to her.
 

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Wasn't that jesuschrist/normisanass/etc? That guy was a real gem, he took pride in showing me (it was allll his idea, he brought his laptop and an external HD into the coffee shop where we met...I had no idea he was gonna do that!) pics of him barebacking the SP's he "helped". He then asked me for a free session because he was "saving up for a trip."
wouldn't surprise me if ol' normi figured he could piss-away an STD,lol. his posts did provide comic relief.one of my fav's came when a newbie wrote that an sp had asked him if he'd had many
sexual partners.normi wrote that she was insulting him, that sp's want their clients to be sexual novices.what was behind his brilliance,only God&normi know.
after I stopped laughing I posted that an sp doesn't give a toss if the client has had 1 partner,or 100,or 1,000, all she cares about is getting her cash after 45min.

shouldn't pile on poor normi,his challenges are monumental.he has an obsessive fixation of hating the Caucasian race, yet also hates being Asian.
hopefully, he'll seek the help he so desperately needs.
 

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Did she get a blood transfusion from him?
My dad got it from a transfusion during back surgery.

He's been a guinea pig for their meds, the latest drugs don't work on certain genomes but my dad isn't one of them and now his hep c is in remission :) he's had the virus for 50 years!
She never had a blood transfusion. The doctors don't know how she got it but figure she has it because of her father.
 

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Wow. Well that's unfortunate. Is she on drugs for it yet? They have very good drugs now :)
She's a friend of a friend and doesn't know I know her story. Yes she has been prescribed medication but did have concerns about taking a daily drug for the rest of her life. Can't blame her, I'd have the same concerns.
 

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If in fact she was a true professional and practiced safe encounters, you really should have nothing to worry about. I do agree with a previous post that neither of you noticed?? Those are two very different sensations and would be difficult to miss. Aside from that, I hate to be the bearer of bad news but get ready for a couple of months of hell! As much as you will try to keep your anxiety and stress levels down, it probably won't happen. You will think about it when you first wake up every day, probably every second waking minute of the day and it will be the last thing on your mind when you go to sleep... Which will be a lot less as well. Now I'm sure every effort has been put forth in researching symptoms of STDs and believe it or not, you may exhibit some of those. That's the stress kicking in, which in turn will compound threefold. How do I know this? Been there. Condom didn't fall off because there wasn't one. Both myself and the SP went through this because of what I sum it up to be a bad judgement call. Not only for my health but hers as well. I mean, what did she know about me? It wasn't until we were both cleared some weeks later that we could both breathe a collective sigh of relief and believe it or not have actually become pretty good friends. Never again will I do something like that! In the meantime, occupy yourself the best you can to avoid the hell. It won't be easy, but after it is all said and done and all is clear, you may actually have a chuckle and say to yourself "why did I worry so much"? Best of luck to you, I'm sure it will be all fine.
 

lenny

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If in fact she was a true professional and practiced safe encounters, you really should have nothing to worry about. I do agree with a previous post that neither of you noticed?? Those are two very different sensations and would be difficult to miss.
IME not so difficult. Has happened on a number of occasians. The condom, BTW, just "disappeared". We were looking around on the bed & inside her trying to find it. A few times they had some difficulty retrieving it - deep inside them.
 

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I am a complete mess writing this post, early yesterday morning I saw an SP and during sex the condom rolled off without me or her noticing. It was 5-10 minutes thereafter I realized that I was unprotected and had to stop. I do not feel any symptoms atm and 100% am getting a full checkup to make sure I am clean but I am just in fear of the worst. I always play safe, even CBJ never BB, but to have this happen is a such a feeling I can't express. Feel so ashamed right now and am in dire need of advice.

1) When is the best time to get a checkup?

2) What can I do in the short term to neutralize the chances of a virus manifesting?

Please help me in which ever way you can, I am so disgusted I allowed this to happen... Just need some advice if you have anything to share.

Thank you
1) you have already found out from the clinic what the best times are for testing

2) to keep any virus from 'manifesting' do everything necessary to boost your immune system - vitamin supplements, good nutrition, lay off the booze and recreational drugs, get lots of rest... all the usual stuff. but most importantly, DO NOT stress about it. stress is the biggest killer because it suppresses an individual's immune system

most people are afraid of their own shadow, and unfortunately many of them are members here, and some of them have commented in this thread. comments that immediately asume the provider HAS an std to pass on to you in the first place... an possibility that is SO remote as to approach zero

so don't sweat it. odds that she was carrying something you don't want are infinitessimally small, and the odds that you would catch it after a few minutes of skin-on-skin exposure are even smaller

by all means get tested, the results will make you feel better, but in the meantime, don't let the safety bugs stress you out and lower your immune system - you might pick up a spring cold or the flu
 

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******************(UPDATE)************************* 06/27/2014

Had testing done earlier in the week and results finally back... Conclusion, I am negative for everything :peace: syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, HIV all negatives. I truly dodged a bullet and the positive words from a select few made the past 4 weeks tolerable and alleviated unneeded stress which can actually stimulate an infection.

For those of you worried about your sexual health please visit a local clinic and put your nerves at rest, testing is 95% accurate after 4 weeks past an exposure event and in most cases (if you practice safe sex or infrequently engage in BBFS with a trusted partner) you have nothing to worry about and are free from catching any infection. Infact the chance of catching HIV from a positive partner is less than 3% if engaging in infrequent unprotected sex. Save yourself and others.

Lastly I will be getting back to this hobby since I have avoided seeing any SP's especially my regular (lol she sent me a text a couple days ago saying where I had run off to, I told her I am avoiding all contact until I am certain I am negative). However I would like to stress that i will not write a review of the SP i saw when this event occurred, it would not be fair to her. All my following reviews will be based on beauties I see after this experience.
 
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