A Great Article On Casual Sex

[Thora]

This is a really great read about the prevalence of misogynistic double-standards regarding female sexuality - namely casual sex.

http://playboysfw.kinja.com/bros-this-is-how-your-slut-shaming-is-backfiring-a-se-1563665480

 

[chilli]

Yup agreed - men did it to themselves.

They want easy sex - and yet the girls that put out - they call sluts (because they won't put out for them).

Go figure....

 

[sdw]

This is a really great read about the prevalence of misogynistic double-standards regarding female sexuality - namely casual sex.

http://playboysfw.kinja.com/bros-this-is-how-your-slut-shaming-is-backfiring-a-se-1563665480

It's a pretty sure thing that the guy who "outed" Belle Knox basically put it "have sex with me whenever I demand it or I will tell everyone that you are a Porn Actress". So, good on her that her answer was to tell people that "Yes, I am a Porn Actress, I'm using it to pay for my Education". There are women that give it up to the bullies free, and then they find that he spreads the word that they are a slut anyway.

Everybody knows of a girl that had to move because somebody told everyone that he banged her. Everyone also knows that most of the time he's lying, because she isn't into useless pieces of shit like him.

 

[westcoast555]

Yes, you got the psychology right but a few people might miss the point you made... A 'slut' is a woman who enjoys casual sex without guilt... with OTHER men but not you.

Also, a LOT of slut shaming comes from other women. Sorry ladies.. it's true.

I never thought less of a woman for engaging in casual sex with me ever.. why would I?

 

[johnsmit]

If your a man slut or a women slut.. Or your paying for it... You sure as hell cant judge any one...

 

[deleted Miss Lux]

Yes, you got the psychology right but a few people might miss the point you made... A 'slut' is a woman who enjoys casual sex without guilt... with OTHER men but not you.

Also, a LOT of slut shaming comes from other women. Sorry ladies.. it's true.

I never thought less of a woman for engaging in casual sex with me ever.. why would I?

I agree! I've always been pretty happy owning my inner slut... But it can certainly be threatening to other women who have more conservative views/blocks around owning ones own sexuality in whatever way serves oneself in a healthy manner. I've definitely gotten more grief from women than men over the years.

xoxo Fiona Lux

 

[tantalizeme]

I agree! I've always been pretty happy owning my inner slut... But it can certainly be threatening to other women who have more conservative views/blocks around owning ones own sexuality in whatever way serves oneself in a healthy manner. I've definitely gotten more grief from women than men over the years.

xoxo Fiona Lux

I try my sincere best to respect most women--except self-righteous prudes.

But I've come to admire and adore a woman in proportion to her radiant, non self-destructive sluttiness.

Slut shaming comes from the same place as pooner shaming: the tradional cult of marriage and monogamy, and those with a vested interest in perpetuating it. Our society is still saturated with monogamist value assumptions, which makes it easy to use derogatory language to put down those who deviate from these assumptions.

More power to ladies like Miss Lux!

 

[deleted Miss Lux]

I try my sincere best to respect most women--except self-righteous prudes.

But I've come to admire and adore a woman in proportion to her radiant, non self-destructive sluttiness.

Slut shaming comes from the same place as pooner shaming: the tradional cult of marriage and monogamy, and those with a vested interest in perpetuating it. Our society is still saturated with monogamist value assumptions, which makes it easy to use derogatory language to put down those who deviate from these assumptions.

More power to ladies like Miss Lux!

And more power to the men (and women) who admire and adore those inner slut lovin ladies!

xoxo Fiona Lux