Age defining..or defying

[johnsmit]

We talked about this a few times.. What in a number.. There are more people to day that just dont look their age or act their age.. Or what we may had been use to seeing

Like our grandmother seemed old at 65.. These day.. 80 yr olds are more active then the elderly of 20 YRS ago

I am going to be 60 in another 3 .month.. I dont feel like it ..OR tbink i look like it.. i still think i am 27 lol.. Its nice to think that was.. I think hanging with girls 25 and 30 yrs younger then me helps that feeling of thinking young. Let a lone some times i have to find thst e energy of a younger guy.. to perforom

As for my friends that are older.. even at 65 they seem in good shap and spitit
Like today. mdt a guy i have know for 25 yrs..time surd flys.. and hd looks great at 70 still fhe same guy. A little droopy eyelids but still the same talk and walk

Age does not define us any more .. and does not deny use very much if we dont let it

 

[johnsmit]

When comes to guys.. Does not mater what age.. If we think a out sex we think we still can.. And we dont hsve to get it up to still have fun.. The little pills help .. From the male point of sexuality we dont have a bunch of things that go wrong. Yah maybe it not as hard.. and we dribble .. But if the prostate js still ok we still have a lot going for use..

Women have a lot more that go wrong
.

 

[johnsmit]

No insalt yo me Sarha .
I know i am nof one of them.. But is true .lots of women sure know how to pick the wrong guys . But it ways the women choise.
As for use guy .. I forgot about how i have fallen for some trouble. too
but i love every one of them in some way .. .and would not change a thing...maybe one..jusf make sure i had more money

 

[Bctraveller]

Well.....good thing your dick is still hard cause your spelling is going for shit !
Just kidding;-)

 

[green]

When I was younger, I did OK with girls, so I am comfortable around them. But back then I had some ammunition. Now I'm in my sixties, and found myself in need of some good sex, but without the bait to get it. I still feel like I'm 35 and a player, but a look in the mirror proves that I am not.

Finding this hobby has saved my psyche. Nothing will make you feel younger, and better about yourself, than fucking a 20 year old (or 30 year old or 40 year old . . .). I've been amazed at how well I've been treated by the SPs I've visited. God bless you all. I wonder when I'll finally hit the "too old" point. That will be a sad day.

 

[hornygandalf]

... I wonder when I'll finally hit the "too old" point. That will be a sad day.

That'll be when they are taking you out in an overpriced wooden box. Until then, enjoy

 

[newkind]

browsing profiles on dating site it surprises how age restrictive so many women are, saw 38 year old woman wanting a 35 to 43 year old guy only, etc.

considering how different two people of the same age can be, wonder why so many are so age restrictive instead of opening their minds and possibilities and forget about the age so much

 

[hornygandalf]

And frequently the women aren't wanting ANYONE older than themselves, and just looking for a younger guy.
I'm over a decade older than my SO, and she usually has more aches and pains than I do, though both of us are in pretty good shape.
And few think I am my actual age... so I it does bemuse me at times.

 

[OldMagpye]

Any 1 over 30. 35 tops. Is old. Ya there r da rare exceptions. Usta hate it when me was in me 20 ' s n saw the old 30-40 yrs olds crusine da niteclubs. Sheesh get thee to da legion or some old beer parlour. I'm old and try to stay outa youngsters way. Ya can feel n look as young as ye wants but da ageing is upon ya.

 

[hornygandalf]

Any 1 over 30. 35 tops. Is old. Ya there r da rare exceptions. Usta hate it when me was in me 20 ' s n saw the old 30-40 yrs olds crusine da niteclubs. Sheesh get thee to da legion or some old beer parlour. I'm old and try to stay outa youngsters way. Ya can feel n look as young as ye wants but da ageing is upon ya.

I'm going to have to disagree. Old is somewhere much higher than 30, and possibly higher than 60. It does in part depend on the individual as some are 'old' much younger, but 35 certainly isn't old, and I'm past 50 and object to be told I'm old. I'm just emerging into middle-age with a many good years ahead of me yet.

 

[dickotoole]

Old is when you can't fuck anymore.

 

[green]

I'm past 50 and object to be told I'm old. I'm just emerging into middle-age with a many good years ahead of me yet.

You call it middle age, but how many 100 year olds do you know?

 

[newkind]

I'm going to have to disagree. Old is somewhere much higher than 30, and possibly higher than 60. It does in part depend on the individual as some are 'old' much younger, but 35 certainly isn't old, and I'm past 50 and object to be told I'm old. I'm just emerging into middle-age with a many good years ahead of me yet.

agree with you, one can still be in great shape and just as good as they were when in their 30's right up until nearly the very end I think, so "middle" is not supposed to be "take total lifespan and divide by two", I'm better now than I was 20 years ago, take better care of myself, work out all the time, eat better, the me of today could kick the ass of the 25 year old me

 

[OldMagpye]

C'mon think back to your later teens early 20 ' s. My favourite sayin of da time was "don't trust anyone over 30". In me youth folks over 35 creeped me out. Now me gets to be creepy.
Sure a few folks finally get physically in better shape than in their youth but a fit 20yr old gonna beat any fit old 35yr old. N don't tell me of da exceptions. Not too many 40yr olds in da Olympics. ..shhh don't call curling a sport

 

[johnsmit]

Actually its not all about brawn.. as we get older it is about brains..experiance..and road we traveled that makes us better then the 25 yr old..
.
If you had some tuff experiances.. Life and death sinario.. Dont think the average punk would stand a chance. Against a 65 yr old..
.
Of course that is a generation thing.. .my dads generation. were tuffer men then my generation. as Canadian.
An america of my generation.. Was in the Vietnam war.. A different breed again..
They would have no qualms about showing them who was boss..

Of course i am not my father or an american..
Just a 60 yr old Victorian... which helps a lot i makes me feel young at heart and not wanting
To beet on any one ..

 

[johnsmit]

I keep geting suptised by people i knew from school. Some i have not seen in 40 Yr and i deffinitly do not recognize.. I barely recognize the name we give me..but they recognize me right away..they remember my first name . but never the last because they never could unanswered.

Today again i run into someone i knew in school.. but also have seen through the yr our paths would cross in the work we do. All though i have not seen him in 15 yrs or more..and he look different. thiner .and white hair. Were the same age..and he recognizes me right away..i had to here his name to know who he was... I can only assum that i have not change that much in the last 20 yrs... makes me quite happy to be a younger look 60 yr old... Or i was an old looking 40yr old lol..

 

[sevenofnine]

Getting old has a lot to do with your health,
Lots of guys in there late years bounce around like a young kid.

But I for one have arthritis, I could but it hurts to dam much to bounce anywhere.
and to be truthful there are worse things then arthritis. A few guys I know have heart problems etc.

So number one be dam thankful and say a pray or two, if your old, and there is nothing physically wrong,

Number two,
I think getting old is a big emotional thing,
has life worked out like you wanted your hopes and dreams family etc.
Life is not a sprint its a marathon its an extreme endurance race.

And when your getting to the end, I think all those things you did in your youth come into play or come back to haunt you,
is your family succussful do you even have a family etc, friends, etc. or do you regret all the things you never did and are miserable and alone

or surrounded by friends and loved ones.

its what is important to you, if you don't care then you don't care.
but if something was important to you, and you never acheived it or were successful at it, or never had the balls to got and get it.
then well your going to grow old and sad,


I have seen a lot of people old and sad,
because you know I don't think they had the guts to live.
they didn't have the guts to chase there feelings. or they were trapped my some negetive ones.


I see an sp for sex but more then that she is a positive in my life. we talk we have a great time, and we encourage each other to do the things important to us. its not at all negative, it positive but realistic.

its strange my life. my family is important to me I value it,
it defines who I am,

but it doesnt full fill every need,
me and my wife are not sexual,

and perhaps have fallen into a rut,

but that is where my sp comes in


finally money,
some people are just broke in there old age, to old to work and not enough pension or whatever, or they hate there job,
or life.

if i could change anything about my life, money sex anything

i wouldn't change a dam thing, its a work in progress, and i will get there when i get there on my own,

 

[johnsmit]

Was looking through an issue of Men's health at the barber the other day
It was talking about the different levels of heath and what to do at 20s. 30s... 40s.. and on into your 80s
At 60. I should be excersing .. watching my diet and getting fiber..
All so .making sure I have mental stimulus. .and keep active. Even if joint pain might cause me to not want to do thing.. they say take the ibuprofen and keep moving because that is better for you..
All so it points out that men should enable Tobe sexually active in to their 90. .

Well I think I need to stay the course I am on..With more excess / and excersis. . Keep having young girl friends.. and keep wanting to have sex...and maybe have it a more then I have been managing

 

[Slapshot1]

The OP has a point. I remember when I was a kid, thirty seemed SO OLD. Thirty-year-old guys were a lot older back then, with their mustaches, owning a home and having their career job. That's pretty much unheard of now. The saying "30 is the new 20" or "40 is the new 30" is pretty true now because this current generation both willingly and unwillingly have had to start up in the real world at a much later age.

I think that has kind of slowed down our aging process as we deal with less stress at an earlier age, I guess.

I also think now that we know so much more about health, in terms of what to eat, the importance of health, etc, people are able to slow down the aging process because we know eating at fast food joints on a regular basis is not very good for you.

Yay, I'm 30 again!! By the sounds of it, most of you are old enough to be my father, so I keep asking myself "Is that you Dad?"

 

[rickoshadows]

Yay, I'm 30 again!! By the sounds of it, most of you are old enough to be my father, so I keep asking myself "Is that you Dad?"

Depends. What did your mother look like?