Don't say that to any asian for that very reason. If you're basing your attraction on race then it's pretty insulting that you think of him/her as a novelty/fetish. Mind you, I can usually tell if some has yellow fever....cuz the person they are with isn't very attractive.
What does the acronym CBC stand for?
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I got to say this for Cantonese thou, some of the best music I have ever heard were Cantopop music from back in the 80s and early 90s. When Priscilla Chan, Cass Phang, Sally Yeh etc were ringing out the hits. Its just the words are so short its hard to make them sound good.
This guy does a great job of describing how Asians speak:
As for the Cantonese, he hits it right on the spot..... at 5:04 into the video.
I'm attracted to someone as a person and if they're a different race it's a cool opportunity to learn but that's it. I do seem to attract Caucasian men who formerly only dated Asian girls though. Is that a thing?
My family moved to Van when I was 15.I caught Asian Fever(I won't say Yellow Fever because I don't want anyone to get knickers-in-a-knot)
and I fervently hope I am never cured.
As for CBC girls,I've been fortunate enough to know quite a few and I didn't find them to be "dragons" or "princesses" or self-entitled.
I suppose it could be YMMV.
I always treated the ladies with politeness, respect, courtesy,consideration, and I listened to what they were saying.
Whether that made mt experiences happier I can't say,but my relationships were all good.
Without exception these CBC girls preferred to date Caucasians rather than Chinese guys,for a few reasons.
1.an early 20's Whitey might have his own place,where his Chinese counterpart would be living with parents.
2.Whitey would know how to cook a little bit.
3.Whitey would know how to use
a)washer&dryer
b)vacuum
c)broom
4.this seemed to be the most NB reason....if she married Whitey she would NOT have a Chinese mother-in-law.
different people have different experiences for sure.
I recall a French saying, "there is no such thing as a frigid woman, but there is such a thing as a clumsy man."
and I fervently hope I am never cured.
As for CBC girls,I've been fortunate enough to know quite a few and I didn't find them to be "dragons" or "princesses" or self-entitled.
I suppose it could be YMMV.
I always treated the ladies with politeness, respect, courtesy,consideration, and I listened to what they were saying.
Whether that made mt experiences happier I can't say,but my relationships were all good.
Without exception these CBC girls preferred to date Caucasians rather than Chinese guys,for a few reasons.
1.an early 20's Whitey might have his own place,where his Chinese counterpart would be living with parents.
2.Whitey would know how to cook a little bit.
3.Whitey would know how to use
a)washer&dryer
b)vacuum
c)broom
4.this seemed to be the most NB reason....if she married Whitey she would NOT have a Chinese mother-in-law.
different people have different experiences for sure.
I recall a French saying, "there is no such thing as a frigid woman, but there is such a thing as a clumsy man."
Good for you. I moved to Canada just before my teens and (not to get anyone's knickers-in-a-not, as you say), I caught "white disease", and I was never fully cured - you like the sound of that?
But as for CBC girls, I dated them only after I was over my white-only racist attitude against my own ethnicity (something which the girls you dated were probably inflicted with, promulgated I suspect largely because the majority's disregard of its own non-acceptance of the "other"), and that was when I was living off campus on my own so yes, I cooked, cleaned, and all that shit that you think the asian boys at home can't do (but just refuse to do because their dragon moms would be pissed if anyone touched their territory).
So it's not that you were better than them, it's because you were dating an inferior quality of woman who had disdain for her own kind, an inability to empathize with her own culture, and believed she would be saved by someone who was of the majority. She did not believe in herself, her family, nothing of where she came from and automatically you were superior. Some were so disillusioned that they eventually got caught up in the life of it and married "whitey", as you say. Now of course, despite the unfortunate motivation, one would expect they married a decent guy anyways. And lastly, the irony of it all, the desire to escape a Chinese mother-in-law is that they end up not escaping themselves as Chinese mothers-in-law, or in fact, themselves as a Chinese mother. Because the harder most people seem to reject something that is so bred in themselves, later find that they act in exactly the same ways themselves. I would not be surprised if these same women became dragon mothers (and you here about it all the time) and when their offspring marry, would be just as busy-bodied about their children's spouses as any Chinese mother-in-law.
The next time I call you "a fucken blow job" know it comes from a place of love, norm.
hello,Normi,I'm surprised it took you 21 minutes to respond.
firstly, I have NO problem with the term "white disease",so,sure I like the sound of that.I'm ok with who I am.
secondly, if the girls I dated had a racist attitude to their own ethnicity(as you confessed you did)they certainly hid it well.Rather, they appeared to embrace their Chinese traditions
whilst fully enjoying being Canadian,as Canadian as I am.so, I doubt they were "promulgated" with your inflictions.
thirdly, you cooked&cleaned all by yourself,well, good for you.However,that is the EXCEPTION(that has a somehow familiar ring to it I believe?)
I went to high school in East Van&had many CBC buddies,about 50% of whom I remain in contact with.
We'd joke about the allocation of domestic chores in their households,how everything would get done for them, by "po po", "ma", "dai gadji" or "sai mui"
fourthly, I'd ask you to please show me where I said I was "better than them".I've re-read my post and can't find where I said that.
btw, these CBC guys also didn't appear to have any self-hatred for being of Asian ethnicity
the girls I dated didn't think I was "superior" or saving them from anything,and they certainly believed in themselves and their families.
I can't say whether or not they will turn into dragons as mothers-in-law because it's far too early in the time frame,but I'd be surprised to see that happen.
"the other" other what? No, sorry I don't get it.
If they are sensitive about comments on how hot they look well then thats is a bit too sensitive. Tall or short, thick or thin, as a group Asian girls cannot be beat when it come to sexy legs.
Actually even though I used it, I never got the point of the expression "yellow fever". Most Asian I see are no more yellow than me.
I was not offended when I had an Asian client come over and we laughed when he said he had "White Fever". I took it as a compliment!
For me it wasn't white fever or anything.
1- no other chinese kids in my class until I was like grade 7
2- It was that dating a Chinese girl was like dating my sister (blech). Took a long time to get over this mental block.
3- I was one of the few asian boys that the white girls liked - I was funny, not too much of a geek, could actually dance, and probably most likely in my favour was that I was in w/ the jocks in school. The "cool by association" was a bonus.
4. Chinese girls of my generation (whether CBC or not) wanted white guys. They were sold against guys like me cuz we were short and had small dicks - typical western stereotypes. In a way, I don't blame them because when you grow up in the west, the images you see in books, movies, TV simply don't have any asian leading men and if asian males are cast in media- they are either slimy gangsters or uber-nerds. Similarly, asian boys are fed busty blonds as the standard of beauty. This was back in the early 80's before asian media existed in Vancouver.
I date white, jewish, black before I met a suitable Chinese girl (in my mid 30's)
1- no other chinese kids in my class until I was like grade 7
2- It was that dating a Chinese girl was like dating my sister (blech). Took a long time to get over this mental block.
3- I was one of the few asian boys that the white girls liked - I was funny, not too much of a geek, could actually dance, and probably most likely in my favour was that I was in w/ the jocks in school. The "cool by association" was a bonus.
4. Chinese girls of my generation (whether CBC or not) wanted white guys. They were sold against guys like me cuz we were short and had small dicks - typical western stereotypes. In a way, I don't blame them because when you grow up in the west, the images you see in books, movies, TV simply don't have any asian leading men and if asian males are cast in media- they are either slimy gangsters or uber-nerds. Similarly, asian boys are fed busty blonds as the standard of beauty. This was back in the early 80's before asian media existed in Vancouver.
I date white, jewish, black before I met a suitable Chinese girl (in my mid 30's)
I can relate to your experience growing up here.
I'm asian also and always liked the white girls when I was in HS. dating an asian girl as you said
would be like dating your sister and I didn't need that visual moving forward. plus, I remember caucasian girls
developing much better when we were in grade 11 and 12. ahhh, sweet memories of getting head in the
equipment room from my first gf.
yes, being a jock definitely helped and I went out with several caucasian girls from grade 10 on.
it wasnt until in my early 30's that I discovered the sweetness of Asian women. not the CBC kind but
the ones who come here to study. Japan and Taiwan are tops for me, Koreans not so much only
because of their princess complex.
nowadays I just prefer asians, whether dating or pay for play.
As a person who rarely watches TV or movies may I say that was HILARIOUS!! I have never seen that before, but I have heard of the actor, Ken Jeong.
My question is how do I pick up a CBC guy? Should I ask him if he knows kung-fu? Or if he would like to join me at the Night Market or some tea? HELP!!!!
MM, now all the Asian guys are gonna be mad for insinuating they are short.... what are you thinking?!?!?!For you... I would recommend the "fireman carry"
