How young will you go?

[MrBrown]

This may come across as the weirdest question of the month, maybe the year, but whatever...

For those of you who past 40...
Some of you have daughters.
What would you feel as an appropriate age for an SP?
Putting aside preferences for maturity, experience, conversation etc. just age.

Say you're 55 and you have a daughter aged 25 - would you see someone younger than your daughter? Same age? Daughter +10, Split the difference?

Or is more plainly anyone that is not 20 years younger than you?

Or, as long as its legal you think "heck, I'll do her"?

 

[SamGomez]

I was in asia and had girls as young as 16 and 17 and i dont go looking for girls this young. In north america i've always seen girls 18+. Only once did i had someone underage in north america because she lied about her age. My preference is ages 18-22 of age.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

I know fellas in their 50's that are still dating young ladies (civvies) in their early 20's. Never married, no kids, that probably has some impact, but maybe not. Some of them have nieces that age, and they don't seem to make any connection. They just still go for the young girls. Perhaps it's just a matter or personal preference and comfort (confidence) levels?

 

[george.caruthers]

If they are legal, they are legal. though personally I prefer 25 + I would see younger

 

[Elmore]

The "if" or "as long as" they are legal is what concerns me because I don't think most guys are asking for ID. Women...girls lure some guys with ads that have headlines like "barely legal". What is the appeal??? I am genuinely curious what would make a guy who isnt in their 20s want to see a teen.

Guys are playing with fire by almost exclusively seeking out girls in their teens as it's hard to imagine they would not stumble upon someone they should not be seeing.

The OPS question is tough because even younger women don't advetise their real age. Actual age of around 23 - 25 would be fine for me since the lady is still youthful but at least has some sexual experience. However that age range is not ideal for me.

 

[lars_from_mars]

Prefer somebody experienced. Over 25.

 

[Elmore]

here is a pic of an 18 year old girl, I can't see the appeal either

Assuming she really is 18, all she needs is some pigtails and a grad cap and she's wifey material, right? :thumb:

 

[vancity_cowboy]

here is a pic of an 18 year old girl, I can't see the appeal either

nope, no appeal there for me either...

 

[AA_Train]

If we are talking strictly sex then anyone who is legal though I probably wouldn't want anyone younger than 19. If we are talking about seriously dating 22 is the threshold; 25+ is preferred (I'm 32 btw). If its just about sex, then my qualifications are primatily physical but for something more serious, there has to be some maturity which is something most college-aged people don't have.

To Lady Via's comment regarding her brother, you'll get over that, especially as he gets older. I have a younger sister who is 6 years my junior. I would never see anyone my sisters age or younger, but now most of the ladies in the dating pool are mid 20s so it doesn't really phase me so much anymore.

 

[Elmore]

20

Because....

Most SP's post at a younger than true age. Check their ID ? How many SP's would agree to that?

And... No kids.

Pretty much no escort would agree to it which is why it doesn't make sense to seek someone who is borderline age just because she is hot.

If I ask what the appeal of a 40 year old escort is, those who prefer them can give a few good reasons but to simply post a picture of a 40 yr old who looks 25 is pretty silly.

Basically what I was asking was why would someone want a good looking 18 yr old (who could pass for early to mid 20s) when you can simply go with someone who is 23 in the first place. That way you eliminate or reduce the possibility that a person is with someone underage. One guy in this thread already commented it happened to him.

I figured there would be a logical reason (at least to the pooner) for being older and having a preference for barely legal but maybe there isn't one.

 

[overdone]

here is a pic of an 18 year old girl, I can't see the appeal either

you need to get your eyesight checked or your testosterone levels

you might also want to check to see if you have a pulse while you're at it

 

[MissingOne]

Thirty or older is best for me. Sometimes I see a 25- 30 year-old who appeals to me.

My upper age limit climbs as I myself age.

 

[badbadboy]

For me, typically thirty's but have had some great times with some ladies in mid twenties too.

I tried a couple of SP's who were in their 40's and I guess they had a set routine down packed over the years and it was far too mechanical for me. Younger women IMHO have more spontaneity and go with the flow.

 

[Chef99]

I have daughters in the teens to the 20s. When I think about the age of an SP in relation to my daughters, it bothers me. This has tended to rule out the 21 and under providers. After that, I'm looking more for someone I think I can have more fun and a connection with, I'm not into a quickie session with a replacement for my hand (there was a thread on here recently where someone suggested men were just looking to masturbate into a female body - sorry, that's not me). I don't think what I'm looking for is defined by age but more a personality and approach to the business that the lady has. I don't think you can generalize by age category as to what experience you're going to have. In my very limited experience, I've had younger women that have been been very mechanical and some that were fantastic. But I do tend to connect better with the more mature.....

 

[johnsmit]

I never real looked for age when it came to seeing SP's..
It just was attracted by . pictures... and attitude..
allthough . any of the girls i saw were in there
early 20's.. others were on their late 30's and
one or two. 40 something.
Now 9 years later.. i am 59.. and i still see am attracted to the same girls.. who are. now.. lates 29's snd mid 30's.

But where as i never have been married.. . and dont even have female neises.. .I have no father daughter hang ups..

I like small brests.. and fit bodies.... with a young open minded attitude.. .and a lot more lively then . me... Now those can be found in many ages groups.. .. more so . under thirty..

So sure i would still go for under thirty.. maybe .23.. ..As form women .in their 40's and 50's.. i have very little in common.. accept.. i am aging. too.
I try to keep fit.. it is harder these days.. but i will also find an older woman that is fit.. and cares about how she looks.... i will find her sexy too.. and find myself wanting to see her..
The thing is . i don't see many .. women in their 50's. that i am attracted to.... and attitude has a big part in that.. They are set in their ways.. some bitter over relationships.. obsesses over grand kids... or still over their own grown kids... and there not much into doing because there wore out from work .. or work is there life.. Of cause i am talking about single women..

The other side is.. that many of the younger SP's.. have kids .. and failed relationships.. and still party.. or.. family is the priority..

It all comes into play . as to why i would see any . one . SP'.. or civi

 

[VanessaofBC]

From what I know young SPs are popular because guys want to "feel young again"

 

[Elmore]

From what I know young SPs are popular because guys want to "feel young again"

Interesting.
I can only speak for myself as someone in the mid 40 range and seeing someone more than half my age (who is possibly immature for her age) would have the opposite effect.

Or did you mean FEEL young again?

 

[Fullhouse]

This works for me...........

"I don't care how you bring 'em, just bring 'em young".

Life long motto of the polygamist leader of the Mormon Church,....Brigham Young.

 

[VanessaofBC]

Interesting.
I can only speak for myself as someone in the mid 40 range and seeing someone more than half my age (who is possibly immature for her age) would have the opposite effect.

Or did you mean FEEL young again?

Haha...okay maybe "act" young!

edit: Mormon church leaders, always a good influence.

 

[superhappyfun]

I am in my early 30s and tend to prefer SPs in their early to mid 20s though I am willing to go quite a bit older if they are fit and healthy looking. If I choose to see a younger SP (always >19+) I generally do so via a licensed agency since the SPs have to be licensed as well which requires them to prove their age to the licensing authority. For independents, if there is the slightest doubt about them being of legal age, then I simply avoid seeing them. I have also encountered several SPs who advertise as being in their early 20s but admit in person to being in their upper 20s or sometimes early 30s. While such advertising is deceptive, I don't think this particularly matters as long as their appearance in person approximates the appearance in their pictures. If I find an SP looks attractive I'm not going to care whether her actual age is 22 or 26. All that really matters is that the SP looks good, has a positive attitude, and is of legal age and sound mind.