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But the thing is, I've found what I consider "next level shit" but it merely is not available regularly enough.
If the next level isn't available to you regularly enough maybe the problem lies with you. If you actually have a connection with someone rather than a checklist who knows what could happen.
 

Alix Turner

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Try Cami parker. Maybe you need to up your budget to find the girl you will be happy with since all the main blondes here aren’t a fit for you? That ‘next level shit’ you want may require additional cake :p.
Im just gonna leave this here

just saying, a connection is not something that a higher asking price guarantees.. or a lower one, for that matter. That's part of why we cherish that feeling so much*

*I have no idea if people still cherish connection, but my faith in humanity on the whole insists on believing so
 

BORKO

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Im just gonna leave this here

just saying, a connection is not something that a higher asking price guarantees.. or a lower one, for that matter. That's part of why we cherish that feeling so much*

*I have no idea if people still cherish connection, but my faith in humanity on the whole insists on believing so
I still don't get this talk about connections with SPs, shouldn't people seek connections with the people in their every day lives rather than with paid encounters?
 

amigo67

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If you don't value a connection with an SP.... why do you bother look for regular SP?

A connection is an amazing thing... with whomever you find it with.
 

BORKO

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If you don't value a connection with an SP.... why do you bother look for regular SP?

A connection is an amazing thing... with whomever you find it with.
Because connections shouldn't be formed with paid relationships....

A regular SP is a SP you see regularly and reliably. If you want a connection with a SP then you're looking for something else.
 

amigo67

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I have a connection with my hairdresser. She cuts my hair the way I like it and she is fun to be with. If
I didn't have a connection with her I would see someone else. It doesn't mean I want anything more from her.
 

BORKO

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I have a connection with my hairdresser. She cuts my hair the way I like it and she is fun to be with. If
I didn't have a connection with her I would see someone else. It doesn't mean I want anything more from her.
Then you and I have very different definitions of connections...
 

amigo67

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Connection to me does not mean I secretly want her to be my girlfriend. Connection to me means liking someone because we have a good vibe together.
 

BORKO

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Connection to me does not mean I secretly want her to be my girlfriend. Connection to me means liking someone because we have a good vibe together.
Like i said, you have a different definition of connection than me. I don't think just having fun together constitutes much of a connection.
 

badbadboy

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I still don't get this talk about connections with SPs, shouldn't people seek connections with the people in their every day lives rather than with paid encounters?
That is the crux of the issue here. It takes time to develop a rapport with anyone; paid or not.

I suggest you choose a few with good potential and see them minimum four or five times. IMHO each visit only gets better, at least it does for me anyways.

Putting down four bills and expecting instant connection according to your 'menu' (most SP's detest this term) is quite unrealistic.

You could of course buy the blonde wig and find an SP with any hair colour who might fit the bill and get her to wear it :nod:
 

BORKO

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That is the crux of the issue here. It takes time to develop a rapport with anyone; paid or not.

I suggest you choose a few with good potential and see them minimum four or five times. IMHO each visit only gets better, at least it does for me anyways.

Putting down four bills and expecting instant connection according to your 'menu' (most SP's detest this term) is quite unrealistic.

You could of course buy the blonde wig and find an SP with any hair colour who might fit the bill and get her to wear it :nod:
Everyone here seems to be projecting this connection thing upon me when that's not what I'm seeking. All I want is some one to see regularly and reliably...
 

amigo67

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If you read the hundreds of reviews that are on this site you will see one thing over and over. When the question is asked:
"Would you repeat?" The reason for "no" most of the time is: "we didn't connect".
I can only speak for myself but if I am with an SP, I want to enjoy my time with her beyond the physical act of having sex. I also would like her to seem to enjoy my company ... chatting or listening to my silly jokes. "Professional Companionship" is what I look for in a regular SP. I am guessing many on this board feel like i do.
Because we aren't you it is hard for us to point you in the right direction because we only know our own tastes and motivations.
 

amigo67

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.... je ne sais quoi.
Well said... but that is so subjective. One man's "je ne sais quoi." is so different from another's. You pretty much gotta see them and see if they have the right "fit".
 
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badbadboy

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I still don't get this talk about connections with SPs, shouldn't people seek connections with the people in their every day lives rather than with paid encounters?
Everyone here seems to be projecting this connection thing upon me when that's not what I'm seeking. All I want is some one to see regularly and reliably...
Do you not even read your own quotes?

FWIW

I see probably 3 - 4 ladies on a regular basis. Each are unique in their own way and I enjoy myself a lot with each one because of a developed connection.

Take what you want from this thread but I get the feeling that just because you throw $ at an S P all your wishes will come true.
 

BORKO

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Do you not even read your own quotes?

FWIW

I see probably 3 - 4 ladies on a regular basis. Each are unique in their own way and I enjoy myself a lot with each one because of a developed connection.

Take what you want from this thread but I get the feeling that just because you throw $ at an S P all your wishes will come true.
I think you need to read what I am saying, I will seek a connection in my personal life because that is personal. A SP is something that is not personal and connections are not what I'm looking for there.
 

Elmore

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I think you need to read what I am saying, I will seek a connection in my personal life because that is personal. A SP is something that is not personal and connections are not what I'm looking for there.
I agree 100% but the difference is that I don't seek regulars. It seems like you're basically just after sex...like me. But you can get that for a helluva lot less than $400/hr. Maybe look on ers instead of paid advertisers here.
Try Heather maybe

http://www.erslist.com/female-escor...r_come_heat_up_the_sheets_with_heather-191487
 
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