And the smart ones use them and will not marry them.
My advise to any man who thinks he is not getting laid enough - make more money.
How important is money for women?
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My advise to any man who thinks he is not getting laid enough - make more money.
What was the show called? I wish I could find a video clip of it. It's more funny than anything.
My dad always use to say that you're gonna attract the wrong type of "friends" when you play the part. Not that there's anything wrong with enjoying your money. Just be careful with overly friendly people when you're playing that part.
In my experience meeting women in my age range so girls in there 20's some do only care about money or may even be looking for a arrangement. But the majority of women I meet are looking for someone that will treat them with respect and like them for them and all that good stuff.
Women tend to look at the whole package when it comes to men. If he's lacking something, she looks for compensation elsewhere. Too old? Too conservative? Too wild? Too ugly? Too short?
Creature comforts are probably one of the highest ranked things a woman looks for that a man can provide, and it naturally becomes a means of compensation. Why wouldn't a girl want a guy who's wealthier, all things being equal? And if he's not equal, then money compensates.
Then there is the reason in the back of a man's mind, that is almost always there, when he decides to terminate the relationship or accept it's end: she doesn't make as much as he does and he's tired of the financial burden of supporting her. That's the bold bloody truth, and face it, most women couldn't make enough to buy a decent house in a good location and make a car payment at the same time. And why would a woman be happy with the prospect of growing old and barely scraping by in a rented home, or a shitty house in a shitty location, with a car that's going to fall apart? Certainly for most, their financial situation vis a vis their career does not improve dramatically over time - and certainly not enough to compensate for her advancing age and quickly deteriorating desirability.
The equation for a man when he shacks up with a woman is usually this: he pay for most if not all of everything, in return she gives him domestic comforts and sex. If he can accept domestic comforts which usually improve over time to compensate for the sex of a female who gets older and less desirable, then the trade off might be worth it as he surrenders more and more of his finances to her and future family. It's not a great equation for most guys, and unfortunately they don't realize that's what the equation is until too late. Women on the other hand, know full well in advance and have a pretty clear-eyed view of what the romance project entails.
The best situation for a man I think is to approach every female prospect the same way: view her like acquiring a new car - lease it or buy it. In most case, a lease will do just fine because in a few years, you'll want the new model anyways.
These days women are as well educated and can find good or better jobs than their male counterparts. Guess what? I'm looking for my "sugar mama"
While women may be better educated etc. the avg. female salary is still less than that of men (at the same level of job). Furthermore, society is still socializing the sexes that men are expected to make more than women and that men are still expected to be providers more so than women. This mindset only perpetuates the stigma of the gold digger woman vs. the sugar daddy man. You only need to look at personal ads to see that the phrase/requirement "financially secure" is used in more W4M ads than M4W ads.
The moral there is that (usually) someone who can't treat themselves with respect is probably not going to treat others with respect either.
What you are talking about is the presentation of confidence and success, rather than wealth as such. People will not be attracted simply because of wealth, but they will definitely find confidence and evidence of success a turn on. At a basic level it sends the message that your genes are good, therefore you are potential mating material. Success and confidence usually produces wealth, so those people are often wealthy, but the reverse is definitely not true. Subconsciously everyone knows this, it is hard wired in our brains, and it affects how we react to these people.
The flip side is to look at these young punks from immigrant families who drive around with some high end car and bling bought by daddy's hard earned cash. Although they display all the symbols of wealth, everyone knows that they didn't earn it themselves personally, so they are generally looked on in contempt. They do not have the corresponding personality traits to match their appearance, so they fail, except in the eyes of those who want to exploit them and take some of their stuff.
I just found this..."What Girls Want" (a young man's perspective)
IDK if this helps answer questions or just makes you ask more......
edit: I am not responsible for the ending!!!!
IDK if this helps answer questions or just makes you ask more......
edit: I am not responsible for the ending!!!!
The moral of the story is live your life for you. If you think you need all the external things... you are only showing that you lack self-confidence.
That's not what I got from the video. You have to hit the girl in the head if you want her. Just like our ancestors the Cave Man did.
I know that my preferred method of courting, for sure! :nod:
That's not what I got from the video. You have to hit the girl in the head if you want her. Just like our ancestors the Cave Man did.
That's not what I got from the video. You have to hit the girl in the head if you want her. Just like our ancestors the Cave Man did.
you mean that was a COURTING ritual with tila tequila??
You project an image out to the world.
I mean you throw around a lot of money your going to attract a certain type of person, not just women but lots of people just thinking this guy is rich maybe I can go around for the ride.
You do it to yourself, I mean you throw around money it means its important to you, just a normal girl maybe the cutest thing in the world just working doing her thing you wouldn't even notice her because she is not wearing a lot of bling not showing a lot of cleavage,
The end of the day you see what you want to see, you see what you project outward.
The people that you attract you do it, because you want to, call them gold diggers or whatever,
its only your fault,
You can't blame them at all,
I mean you throw around a lot of money your going to attract a certain type of person, not just women but lots of people just thinking this guy is rich maybe I can go around for the ride.
You do it to yourself, I mean you throw around money it means its important to you, just a normal girl maybe the cutest thing in the world just working doing her thing you wouldn't even notice her because she is not wearing a lot of bling not showing a lot of cleavage,
The end of the day you see what you want to see, you see what you project outward.
The people that you attract you do it, because you want to, call them gold diggers or whatever,
its only your fault,
You can't blame them at all,
You are so wrong.
But nice try.
So many people in denial in this thread and full of shit.
Men generally like sexy good looking young women.
Women generally like successful men who have the external things that show he has his shit together - a car, a home, nice shoes, etc... (read has MONEY).
It's how things are.
Asking this kind of question here; where women charge men money for sex is the height of irony which may be lost on you, but isn't lost on me.
Money is not important to women at all. That's what we have men for. Now how do you do that [sarc] thing again?
Glad, I could help.[sarc] Money is not important to women at all. That's what we have men for. [/sarc]Now how do you do that [sarc] thing again?
i've never had a boyfriend who was rich, or bought me gifts...I actually have NEVER gotten any type of gift except maybe flowers one time (flowers for an apology lol) from any guy ive dated. I keep on hearing and seeing pics on facebook from my girlfriends of all the expensive gifts their boyfriends keep buying them, i've never ever had this experience in my short life...lol, not even going shopping and having them buy me my clothes, when I was broke with no job, the only person buying me my clothes was my mom.
I always end up with simple guys with little to nothing, the last time i dated was when I was probably 21 or 22, and so most guys in my age group aren't that successful, and i tend to go for such losers in their academic and career lives, but they made me really happy and feel good otherwise emotionally...so yeah, i am totally not a gold digger at all. I could never sacrifice my happiness for money, I couldn't marry someone for his money and be with him day and night for years and have his kids, just so i can get my hands on his bank account lol...i dont know how some girls do it, there has to be an attraction or genuine care for that person otherwise you'd be miserable forever - unless you're a sociopath and get happiness from material items hehe
I always end up with simple guys with little to nothing, the last time i dated was when I was probably 21 or 22, and so most guys in my age group aren't that successful, and i tend to go for such losers in their academic and career lives, but they made me really happy and feel good otherwise emotionally...so yeah, i am totally not a gold digger at all. I could never sacrifice my happiness for money, I couldn't marry someone for his money and be with him day and night for years and have his kids, just so i can get my hands on his bank account lol...i dont know how some girls do it, there has to be an attraction or genuine care for that person otherwise you'd be miserable forever - unless you're a sociopath and get happiness from material items hehe
