*~* would you date an sp? *~*

[Cami Parker]

Well my mom doesn't really disapprove, that was kind of the script. However she did disapprove of Dennis, seeing that he's not a very nice person... Nothing happened to him... HBO stopped filming Cathouse and Working Girls once I left but he's still out in Nevada. I think he's bought several more brothels out there, but the rates at the BunnyRanch are quite high... Mine was $3000/hr... but I think he was in the process of buying some budget brothels? I'm really not sure, but he still yells @ me on twitter sometimes... He's still mad I left since I basically carried his brand and was the star of... Oh... Everything... lol

Cami's mom on TV giving her dis-approval of her lifestyle - Interesting.

Hey Cami what ever happened to your better half Dennis Hof if you mind me asking?

 

[Cami Parker]

Yaaa that was 2 years ago, I was still so young and very much under his influence...

Wow Alex, found a gem appropriate for this thread.

 

[Cami Parker]

Thanks mama, and thanks for digging this out of the archives.... Awesome!

I just have to say that I don't watch TV and I've never heard of Dr. Drew but that episode is complete and utter bullshit and I'm sorry you went through that, Miss CP. This Dr. Drew (and whoever that woman is with him) is bossy and judgemental, and has a serious superiority complex, like many other TV shrinks.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Drew_Pinsky

"Pinsky, who admits in his 2009 book, The Mirror Effect, that he scored a 16 on the Narcissistic Personality Inventory (average is 18 for celebrities), and shares several traits with the "closet narcissist", asserts that he was never motivated by fame to become a media figure, but from a desire to educate the public, especially the youth, on the medical facts distorted by the media."

Whatever...fuck him!

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Thanks mama, and thanks for digging this out of the archives.... Awesome!

Like I said, you've obviously had an interesting life. But, like many of the veterans around here, I just have no patience for pompous asses strutting around telling us how it is and how it ought to be (who gives them the right? Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr)

Anyways, it seems like you've always spoken up for yourself, so you don't need me to. Shit like that just irks me, and I can't not say something! Congrats on making the most of life! Many girls would like to accomplish a fraction of what you've done in a few short years!

http://www.vh1.com/celebrity/2009-10-29/cami-parker-diary-from-the-bunnyranch

 

[Poseidon]

SoOo.... I'm currently single and loving it. It uncomplicates my life. However, I have had relationships in the 6 years I've been in this business. Of course, in the interest of full disclosure, I strongly believe you must always always be 100% honest about what it is you do when perusing a relationship of the dating/"monogamous" nature. I have had some boyfriends who couldn't care less.... I tell them once they say ok, and never think about it again as they believe (correctly) that it doesn't effect our relationship. I have had boyfriends that absolutely love it. They think it's so hot and want to use detailed accounts of my exploits as fodder for our own personal sex life. I've had guys that thought they were ok with it initially, but found themselves unexpectedly driven insane with jealousy (needless to say, that didn't work out! Lol) And I've had guys that have said "No Way! Thanks, but No Thanks! No Judgement!" (Understandably so, I'd say.... I don't necessarily blame them for their stance on the issue... I don't like to share either lol)

So the question is this:

GUYS: Have you/Would you date an SP? Why or why not?

LADIES: Would you care to share some of your "real world relationship" experiences while working? I prefer running my business while blissfully unattached... Makes my life easier... How about you?

I CAN't wait to hear everyone's insight. I'm sure it will be fascinating.....

I would only date a former SP. So that means she would no longer be in the business. I think if you are in a relationship, you have to be monogamous and devout your time and love for each other. This will be hard if she is having sex with other people. Now if she wants to cut loose for a while and have a hall pass, I don't mind at all giving it to her as long as she gives me one too.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

I would only date a former SP. So that means she would no longer be in the business. I think if you are in a relationship, you have to be monogamous and devote your time and love for each other. This will be hard if she is having sex with other people...snip

These are my sentiments, exactly (without the hall pass)! I'm sure that there are a lot of men who believe in monogamy and hope to get there one day, with the right woman...

 

[Cami Parker]

Thanks Doll! You know it's funny when I was little people always asked "what do you want to be when you grow up?" And I'd always reply that I wasn't sure, that all I knew was I didn't want to have a "normal" life... I wanted to do something sooo far outside of the average.... And I think I've accomplished that. Thanks for your support and for your encouraging words. Always very much appreciated from a lady as wise as yourself!
And that's right, how dare they?

Like I said, you've obviously had an interesting life. But, like many of the veterans around here, I just have no patience for pompous asses strutting around telling us how it is and how it ought to be (who gives them the right? Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr)

Anyways, it seems like you've always spoken up for yourself, so you don't need me to. Shit like that just irks me, and I can't not say something! Congrats on making the most of life! Many girls would like to accomplish a fraction of what you've done in a few short years!

http://www.vh1.com/celebrity/2009-10-29/cami-parker-diary-from-the-bunnyranch

 

[Cami Parker]

That's why I prefer to be officially single... It doesn't feel right, inside, sleeping with someone else when there's someone in my life who I truly love in a romantic way....

I would only date a former SP. So that means she would no longer be in the business. I think if you are in a relationship, you have to be monogamous and devout your time and love for each other. This will be hard if she is having sex with other people. Now if she wants to cut loose for a while and have a hall pass, I don't mind at all giving it to her as long as she gives me one too.

 

[Cami Parker]

So true... You know my friend always says, before people start complaining that "there are no good ones left" they need to make sure that they are one of the good ones themselves... There are lots of great guy and gals out there, if you have the time and inclination to look....

These are my sentiments, exactly (without the hall pass)! I'm sure that there are a lot of men who believe in monogamy and hope to get there one day, with the right woman...

 

[VanessaofBC]

Like I said, you've obviously had an interesting life. But, like many of the veterans around here, I just have no patience for pompous asses strutting around telling us how it is and how it ought to be (who gives them the right? Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr)

Anyways, it seems like you've always spoken up for yourself, so you don't need me to. Shit like that just irks me, and I can't not say something! Congrats on making the most of life! Many girls would like to accomplish a fraction of what you've done in a few short years!

http://www.vh1.com/celebrity/2009-10-29/cami-parker-diary-from-the-bunnyranch

That link was a fun treat, Alex! No doubt Cami, you must have a MILLION stories to share!!!

 

[Poseidon]

These are my sentiments, exactly (without the hall pass)! I'm sure that there are a lot of men who believe in monogamy and hope to get there one day, with the right woman...

I know the hall pass is sometimes necessary, because sometimes you get bored of being in a monogamous relationship and it's human nature to cheat on your partner.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

I know the hall pass is sometimes necessary, because sometimes you get bored of being in a monogamous relationship and it's human nature to cheat on your partner.

Hmmmm, well thanks for giving me something to think about!

 

[Cami Parker]

I have a million and one!!!

That link was a fun treat, Alex! No doubt Cami, you must have a MILLION stories to share!!!

 

[Cami Parker]

Not a popular opinion, but I agree it could possibly be biology.... But that's why God invented 3somes :nod:
You know what Robin Williams said... God Gave men 2 heads, a big one and a little one, but only enough blood flow to control one at a time... (Sorry guys, just a lil crack at your expense! LOL!)

I know the hall pass is sometimes necessary, because sometimes you get bored of being in a monogamous relationship and it's human nature to cheat on your partner.

 

[Cami Parker]

Ahhhhahahahahaha!!!!!!!!
Funny coz it's true? I find both heads very charming!!! Both have their own unique redeeming qualities!

It’s not a crack at our expense at all Cami.
We use it ourselves all the time.
Stupid dogs are harder to kick, or kick out

 

[Fullhouse]

Tell us something new, Cami.

I thought your little crack was always at our expense. lol

 

[Cami Parker]

True, true......

 

[hiddencloud]

I know the hall pass is sometimes necessary, because sometimes you get bored of being in a monogamous relationship and it's human nature to cheat on your partner.

I don't see this as being necessary at all. A couple who openly discuss their sex lives and adapt to each others needs will probably never run into this situation. It's when one (or both) people in the relationship stop responding to the needs of the other or stop communicating their own needs that things break down. Sex with the same person can be very fulfilling, but both parties have to work to keep it that way. It takes a lot of work to keep a single partner sexual relationship fresh and a lot of people are just plain lazy or are ignorant of that fact. This is why a lot of monogamous relationships break down or people cheat.

We can probably blame the overall poor state of sex education and the stigmatization of a healthy sex life for a lot of this.

 

[Cami Parker]

You make so e very valid points as well... Valuable insight... Thank you!!

 

[luvsdaty]

I know the hall pass is sometimes necessary, because sometimes you get bored of being in a monogamous relationship and it's human nature to cheat on your partner.

Don't necessarily agree with that. Every relationship that I was in, I never cheated .If one of us got bored we parted ways. Being together is a choice, just as cheating is a choice.
I'd much rather be single and poon as opposed to being with someone I can't stand being with.
Just my 2 cents.