But I do care about everyone I'm with... That's why I go for quality over quantity.... And I'm sure you don't believe me and O acknowledge that so please don't bother arguing the point and trying to convince me I don't, because the gentlemen I see know I do... And...wait until they're in their 30's? I'm talking about gentlemen in their 40's ad 50's who, for their own reasons, have never had a sexual experience in their life... Not some kids who are in a rush to "lose it"... And I'm still in correspondence with many of them and know that I have helped them move past this roadblock and raise their confidence to a level where someone who may have formerly found themselves to be socially awkward, has now been able to move forward and find healthy and fulfilling relationships. And we're still friends. And unfortunately, while I do love your optimistic "stats" 99% of people DO NOT lose it to someone who cares about them at all. I wish that was true, but it's not. I care much more for a gentlemen who I've gotten to know via email who has confided his deepest thoughts and fears to me, and humbly asked me to help him move forward with his life, than the the quarterback who convinces the drunk cheerleader that he "really really likes her" and never speaks to her again after the deed is done. I appreciate that you "don't blame me" but there's nothing to blame. I'm doing a wonderful service for these men helping them to find happiness and real fulfillment moving forward. You really have no idea until you've been in their position, but imagine being a 45 year old man having never experienced a hug, a kiss or even a kind word (let alone any kind of sexual experience) from a woman...what would you do?? And what would you suggest for them, if not a kind and caring woman who wants to help?
