Has anyone ever ended up dating the escort they were seeing or client??
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In so much as it's pop corn moment, yes
I have watched them come and go, and inevitably dissolve into trolling.Now that I have my balls firmly planted where they belong. I felt it necessary to elaborate. You are right, GFE is all about the effect. I justnt prepared for the affect. First woman I was intimate with after my divorce. This sp was 100% professional. But still let me down softly. She no longer takes me as a client, for obvious reasons, but still responds in kindness when I do reach out.
I try to stick to short visits, with little or no conversation :thumb: to keep me grounded.
I try to stick to short visits, with little or no conversation :thumb: to keep me grounded.
You know
women get lonely to.
Sp,s
It's as flattering and an ego booster as all hell.
When your just nobody a walmart greeter, like me and an sp who sees thousands of guys more rich better looking better in everyway then me and she reaches out to you and offers you friendship or some free social occassion.
Its hard to understand really why me.
I don't know just want to say that women are human to, and get lonly, in some ways I think it has to be a very lonly life.
All these men, but how many real connections and friend ships do we have or they have.
And I am sorry, my deepest apology,
women get lonely to.
Sp,s
It's as flattering and an ego booster as all hell.
When your just nobody a walmart greeter, like me and an sp who sees thousands of guys more rich better looking better in everyway then me and she reaches out to you and offers you friendship or some free social occassion.
Its hard to understand really why me.
I don't know just want to say that women are human to, and get lonly, in some ways I think it has to be a very lonly life.
All these men, but how many real connections and friend ships do we have or they have.
And I am sorry, my deepest apology,
Never seen a regular SP, but first domme I saw, very much younger than I, we ended up together for 3 year and 6 months, got engaged and almost got married. What inevitably happened was the slave-domme relationship was unsustainable and become vanilla, and though we are still friends for life, we both needed something else. The age gap proved to be a bit of an issue over the long term as well.
Not sure if the dynamics of a slave-domme relationship is maybe more conducive to forming a more permanent bond. Maybe there is a different level of trust, sincerity, vulnerability and intensity involved, where you expose more of what you are about as opposed to an hour or so of wild, unbridled sex. You show a side of you that will lovingly worship a lady in so many ways and a willingness to abstain from orgasm indefinitely ... perhaps those are attractive qualities to a lady.
In that environment, if you show to be genuinely gentle, caring and trustworthy (and are gainfully employed, moderately intelligent and have some physical appeal), there is always the chance things could evolve into something more serious and long lasting. My only advice is not to come in 'expecting' it to happen; things will play out as they will, probably after several fulfilling sessions for both parties involved.
Have a great day everyone!
MIS
Not sure if the dynamics of a slave-domme relationship is maybe more conducive to forming a more permanent bond. Maybe there is a different level of trust, sincerity, vulnerability and intensity involved, where you expose more of what you are about as opposed to an hour or so of wild, unbridled sex. You show a side of you that will lovingly worship a lady in so many ways and a willingness to abstain from orgasm indefinitely ... perhaps those are attractive qualities to a lady.
In that environment, if you show to be genuinely gentle, caring and trustworthy (and are gainfully employed, moderately intelligent and have some physical appeal), there is always the chance things could evolve into something more serious and long lasting. My only advice is not to come in 'expecting' it to happen; things will play out as they will, probably after several fulfilling sessions for both parties involved.
Have a great day everyone!
MIS
I think we can all respect that Angela. By no means was I suggesting it happens all the time or even one-tenth of the time. Nor, as I mentioned, should a fellow go into it expecting it to happen. But it can happen - as I lived it first-hand.
Lavinia: That was a bittersweet story. So sorry for that couple to connect so perfectly on those kind of levels and then have it taken away from them. I still reflect on the time I had together with my ex when our waking moments away from work were filled with worship and whippings! It was a special time in my life I will never forget, though it also confronted me with realities that long-term subservience to a woman is largely unsustainable, and also that I may never again be truly content with a vanilla relationship. I do have a vanilla friend with benefits, so I guess I will try to intersperse it with worshipping a beautiful domme and hope I can find a happy medium, within a reasonable budget of course! Needless to say I am still sorting out my feelings with all this.
Hrm... you know you can string together amazing, beautiful and wondrous experiences into a stream of awesome partnership...
I have a similar mindset and for me, it's in the same way my doctor would never dream of dating me. While I provide a very intimate and personalised level of service (handmade chocolate covered strawberries for long vists, I did a soul food dinner once too) what I provide is an encounter. A beautiful, awesome moment in time for you to always remember. And that's not what relationships are. I specialse in breathtaking encounters
Wait, relationships aren't just a really long beautiful, awesome, moment in time?I have a similar mindset and for me, it's in the same way my doctor would never dream of dating me. While I provide a very intimate and personalised level of service (handmade chocolate covered strawberries for long vists, I did a soul food dinner once too) what I provide is an encounter. A beautiful, awesome moment in time for you to always remember. And that's not what relationships are. I specialse in breathtaking encounters
Nice thought bro but I doubt I could carry it off. Not sure how I could ever break that to a SO, but I think I heard a few on board who do/have done it. Good for them but I couldn't and wouldn't. What might be cool would to meet an open-minded lady and she could grow into the role as a domme, maybe it could have some longetivity. I'm sure I would be able to offer her some suggestions based on prior experiences lol:fear:
Well here you can find what happened to one relationship with a SP
http://www.courts.gov.bc.ca/jdb-txt/SC/13/05/2013BCSC0590.htm
http://www.courts.gov.bc.ca/jdb-txt/SC/13/05/2013BCSC0590.htm
I dunno guys, I'm willing to bet it was ...love...
"The parties married on June 16, 2012 and separated sometime between July 6 and July 27, 2012."
I really don't think the issue is whether you have a thing for an sp or happen to omg love her.
Its more about your maturity and emotional level. How much of an adult are you.
Many people go through bitter nasty divorces you wonder how they even managed to be married and stay married.
Others divorce and still remain good friends.
Its more about your maturity and emotional level. How much of an adult are you.
Many people go through bitter nasty divorces you wonder how they even managed to be married and stay married.
Others divorce and still remain good friends.
I met an SP on the job as I was a client of hers. Eventually after seeing after seeing one another professional numerous times she asked if I'd like to get together unprofessionally. I was wary at first but said yes. We ended up dating for 3 1/2 years including her retiring from the business, moving in together and buying a place together.
We are currently still together and have been married for 10 years and have 1 child. How we met affects us slightly, as she's open to me seeing SP's occasionally as long as we talk about it first, but I have not seen anyone in a long time.
I haven't felt like there has been any advantage taken by either of us. Joint bank accounts. Her new jobs pays better than mine. She put herself through school while working as an SP.
We are currently still together and have been married for 10 years and have 1 child. How we met affects us slightly, as she's open to me seeing SP's occasionally as long as we talk about it first, but I have not seen anyone in a long time.
I haven't felt like there has been any advantage taken by either of us. Joint bank accounts. Her new jobs pays better than mine. She put herself through school while working as an SP.
I am just wondering .why so many think that a relationship between a escort and a none client would be more successful.. if they were both honest with each other...
If the guy had seen other escort or had miltable sex partners... What is the differeance..
Or do the girls only want some inexperiances.. vanila boy.....and would he accept an ex escort....
zThere is a lot of hippocracy rampid here
If the guy had seen other escort or had miltable sex partners... What is the differeance..
Or do the girls only want some inexperiances.. vanila boy.....and would he accept an ex escort....
zThere is a lot of hippocracy rampid here
In my years of pooning I have come across perhaps four or five ladies I had a good enough connection that a dating relationship was a possiblity. Unfortunately for me, I messed up one, and the other four I just wasn't in a place or right "head space" for me to seriously consider pursuing anything.
None of the ladies and I ever "dated" though, but the one I messed things up with, we were getting really close..and we had discussed the possiblity of dating but I ended up seeing a girl she worked with (and hated) at her place of work...I know how stupid could I be?..and that more or less sunk things for us. Even though we never formerly dated, it still created a rift between us and we were never the same after. I regret thinking with my little head that day, or who knows? Perhaps her and I would be a couple right now...alas I guess that ship has sailed.
I have not met anyone since that I have any desire to date, nor experienced the same depth of connection with that I would even consider that prospect...
None of the ladies and I ever "dated" though, but the one I messed things up with, we were getting really close..and we had discussed the possiblity of dating but I ended up seeing a girl she worked with (and hated) at her place of work...I know how stupid could I be?..and that more or less sunk things for us. Even though we never formerly dated, it still created a rift between us and we were never the same after. I regret thinking with my little head that day, or who knows? Perhaps her and I would be a couple right now...alas I guess that ship has sailed.
I have not met anyone since that I have any desire to date, nor experienced the same depth of connection with that I would even consider that prospect...
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