this one I want to hear the gals comment on. I have travelled with sp's for the last ten years, never would consider one who had to sleep in a different room or bed. It is about sex, closeness, snuggling, and so on. I like to sleep rear to rear, naked, and my companions are pretty much the same, so many of the gals above wouldn't cut it. My approach has always been as much loving as I can take, but being more mature, that boils down to about an hour a night and once does it. Not onerous on the gals. I like a bit in the morning too, and that is great. Not going to work with separate rooms. I do wheeze and snore the odd time, but most gals just plug their ears, and can live with it. I had one threaten to leave the room, and some how that stopped it.
I pay well, expect what I want, and usually do a two to four day trip. not into fussy gals or picky ones. Have had to fire a few gals over the years, but generally with enough discussion before hand, it works out for everyone. Only sent one home early but she wasn't with it.
I guess the real question is are overnights worth it. One of those things you have to decide. You can get several sessions for the cost of one overnight.