If you make an SP cum.....
- Thread starter CyberJim
- Start date
- Status
i cant speak for anyone else but therre is a major difference between men and wolmen and "coming". especially if it is work. Its unlikely an sp is going to come during sessions for real as she'd tired out and not be able to work effectively. its easier just to fake it if the guy for some reason needs to believe he can make a woman for hire come. The session is for the men not the women. Im sure she'd rather come with smeone that SHE chose that turns her on.
Enough said....You really had to ask?
Come on Uhm No!
Women can get laid anytime they want so sex has a different level of importance. you arent doing her any sexual favors, The bestthing you can do for her is to nreat her well and realize the sesiion is about YOU. There are no universal techniques. WOmen like very different things and chances are an sp is more sexually aware of what she likes than most regular women so its not likely that you are going to be in possession of some magical technique that she has never experienced. She is going to cater whatshe says towards making you feel good. at least initially. I imagine dynamics can and likely do change over the long term if you keep seeing the same one. I dont understand men who honestly believe that thge firsttime or even the first few times they pay an sp for sex that she has the kind of attraction for you that you have for her enough to sexually arouse her to orgasm. .
What I enjoy, as a chick, is providing a pleasurable time for the client. It makes me uncomfortable when he feels he needs to "return the favor" because it forces me to fake it in order to satisfy him or expose my true feelings which ruins the illusion. I enjoy being genuine and do not like to have oto fake it. I can and will but honestly, remember these sessions are for YOU.
While I'm sure that this post was written "tongue in cheek", it's a good topic and has been covered at length in many previous threads (well, not the refund part, which I can't take seriously: thx BJohn).
What is it about pooners who make such a fuss about getting their SP to cum? Is there a certain 'badge of honour' that goes with it? Why do so many reviews make reference to the fact that she came, the strength of her orgasm, the number of times she came, or the effort the pooner put into getting her to cum?
Let's be real. Some people, gender notwithstanding, can cum at the mere thought of a sexual encounter. Others require their own special techniques...go slower, go faster, go harder, go softer, do it here, do it there, let's try this, let's try that...and typically (no, not always), it is quite a lot easier for the male of our species than the female.
And the faked orgasm is another topic altogether...but I'll weigh in here to say that, if the pooner is insistent upon trying to make his SP cum before he allows himself to finish, he is likely asking for a faked orgasm.
I dunno about that, I'd hire a SP because they're hot and so I don't have to worry about pleasing them, since you know, their fee should please them plenty.Many men hire SP's not because they want her to be a good lover, but because they need to prove to themselves that they're a good lover.
I found the majority of clients desired my orgasm more than their own.
but no, that doesn't mean you should get a partial refund.
Then if that is how you run your business then you should regulate the time if you are selling time. You are all independents and it's my position that as an independent business owner then it is your job to regulate how much or little time your clients get because that's how you run a good business. It's not a client's problem that a SP doesn't keep track of time. In fact I have had SPs tell me to quit worrying about the time when I had asked previously or keep things vague like "you have lots of time left" "How much?" "don't worry about it".
Furthermore, if a SP gets a client who is known, by referral, rumour, reputation or whatever, that they will go over time because they think they are so nice or so good at sex or whatever, then they should make sure they keep track of time and act accordingly to that client when he starts lagging about or making idle chit chat to drag things out.
Also, if someone is doing something icky, like putting numbing cream on their penis, then you have a right to refuse that service or ask them to take it off or wrap it or ask them to leave. It's your business and it's your body and your client's should respect that.
I sense the aggressive drama monster rearing it's head again. I feel you have a tendency to aggressively attack people that do not express an opinion exactly as you want them too and that doesn't lend itself to discussion, but that's just my opinion.
PS - I think you spelled Kayleigh Carter's name in your signature wrong.
Did you let him know why? Sometimes I think that is helpful for clients to know why someone won't see them again to help them rectify iffy behaviour for future encounters with other SPs...
Of course I suppose that depends on your read on the client and how well he can handle constructive criticism.
Seriously though, to the OP's original question the answer is an overwhelming NO! :doh:
Now there may be situations where you might see a particular lady and the 2 of you develop a certain chemistry, including you being able to give her the "BIG O" which may at some point translate into some benefits (social time, extra time at no charge, etc.) but to expect it is just wrong.
Personally I love the challenge when a lady tells me she either has trouble or cannot achieve orgasm.
Cheers
Now there may be situations where you might see a particular lady and the 2 of you develop a certain chemistry, including you being able to give her the "BIG O" which may at some point translate into some benefits (social time, extra time at no charge, etc.) but to expect it is just wrong.
Personally I love the challenge when a lady tells me she either has trouble or cannot achieve orgasm.
Cheers
Is that how you talk to people you don't know in real life? If it is then I can see why you don't think of that as an attack. Of course, if this is just your internet persona talking and this is not how you interact with people in the real world, then maybe you should reconsider how you deal with people on the internet. I express myself online in the exact same way as I do in the real world.
And maybe I recognize I have some issues to work on that have led me to talk to a therapist. Self-improvement starts from within and we can all be better. Me and you.
Well, like I said that depends on your evaluation of the client. But really, you would only be passing on information that could help him in the future, it is up to him if he takes it.
You forgot BOOBIES. Nothing calms me more than closing my eyes and imagining the rhythmic bouncing of a big set of 36DD's.
- Status
