I Have Finally learned my Lesson

[Cock Throppled]

I now will NEVER follow through with a meeting with an SP if an at-the-door delay happens.

Every time i have booked and a time has been set and I was asked to wait "a few minutes" when I arrive the session has always been shit.

When I can get to a location through heavy traffic, park and find a building I've never been to before and still manage to arrive on time and an SP has had anywhere from 1 - 2 hours to get ready and can't manage it she's not worth seeing. Okay, I know shit happens sometimes, but I don't need to be a part of it.

There are plenty of other vaginas in the sea.

 

[abooteh]

I had one of my most interesting sessions when I was delayed at the door.

 

[rhydogg]

Re-thought my post, deleted.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

It sounds like the OP is angry, not just because of the time delay, but because there seems to have been a direct correlation between the readiness of the party to meet their agreements, and the service (lack thereof) that ensued.

Everyone knows that shit happens, and something can go wrong, when any type of appointment is booked. Readers here haven't got much detail to go on (such as how long he waited) but, if CT wants to implement a policy that, if the lady isn't ready at the agreed-upon-time, he walks, can you really blame him?

From reading these forums, it seems pretty obvious that many appointments are made without even the slightest idea as to whether or not:

a) the young lady can actually make it to the incall on time (accounting for transportation time)
b) the incall will be in use, or available, at said appointment time (accounting for the schedules of others)
c) she's allowed enough time to personally get ready by the said appointment time, etc, etc, etc

I really get how frustrating this must be, especially if it's happened to him on a few occasions.

 

[luvsdaty]

I'm with the OP. especially if it's two delays in the same session.One thing i can't stand is being blown off.I'll usually bail if the say can you give me 10 more minutes,too me it just seems like a power thing,like"ha ha i made this asshole wait an extra 25 minutes.Dick move in my opinion.

 

[*emmanuelle]

Just thought I would chime in.

I recently asked a guy to wait a few minutes because he arrived early (which I pretty explicitly say NOT TO DO on my website - I hate being rushed). He figured something sketchy was up and decided to just leave without telling me. In fact I only wanted him to wait so I could put the final touches on my hair and make-up, to look my best for him. So yeah, waiting not always = something sketchy!

 

[badbadboy]

I used to get pissed off with it and have just come to expect it now. If they are on time, great but if its going on 15 minutes or so - no biggie.

Half an hour or more, I am gone.

 

[Sexiaccent]

I was "Stood up" three times in a row for one of the top ranked escorts here in Vancouver, and believe me, no hard feelings!!! I even send her an e-mail (actually three e-mails) wondering if she was ok? after all I am a gentleman!!! And of course she is still in my sight!!! oh yes!!!

 

[bcneil]

I was "Stood up" three times in a row for one of the top ranked escorts here in Vancouver, and believe me, no hard feelings!!! I even send her an e-mail (actually three e-mails) wondering if she was ok? after all I am a gentleman!!! And of course she is still in my sight!!! oh yes!!!

Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.
Fool me three times.........

 

[Stoo]

For me, punctuality says a lot about a person's character... if they care enough to be on time, then odds are, they care enough to carry on business (whatever it might be) in a proper way. I agree that shit happens, but even traffic is generally predictable.

A few minutes is not an issue, but if it's "wait 15", then another 15 and so on, best to go to Plan B.

 

[grusse]

I believe that,especially when going to an incall for the first time,the "appointment" can be a fragile thing.

For example, a 3o'clock appointment is fine......unless some other pooner shows up at 2:45.Suddenly, the 3 o'clock "appointment" gets delayed.

 

[Alix Turner]

I have a regular who constantly shows up 15 minutes late and tries to blame traffic every time. I have essentially cut him off because I'm fucking sick of it. It's been going on once or twice a week for almost a year, he's had his chance to redeem himself.

If he books half an hour once a week for a year you're talking $200*52 or $10400 in visits at least, this guy seems to be a big fan of you, I can't imagine why he would be doing it on purpose, like is it a bizarre passive aggressive thing do you think?

 

[PlayfulAlex]

I have a regular who constantly shows up 15 minutes late and tries to blame traffic every time. I have essentially cut him off because I'm fucking sick of it. It's been going on once or twice a week for almost a year, he's had his chance to redeem himself.

For that kind of coin, wouldn't it make more sense just to factor that delay into your planning? IE, he says he'll be here at 10, so just be prepared for him to arrive by 10:15?

 

[Caramel]

Its the opposite for me, I am always on time and ready to go (unless they show up early then I have to say "give me 2 minutes")...and a lot of my clients are late, its so annoying because I don't hang out at my incall so theres nothing to do there while I'm waiting, its incredibly boring and I can't even have a cigarette because I don't want smoke smells on me. I know my place is hard to find so its not their fault - but why not use gps? Most of them have it but only about half of them use it

 

[blazejowski]

Sometimes they don't have 1-2 hrs to get ready.
My guess is that you assume we sit around all day at our incall waiting for you to call. News flash: WE DON'T.
At my incall where 3-4 girls share (myself included, depending on touring schedules) sometimes there's a client who stays over time (but hey! "she's not a clock watcher") and so the next girl is delayed slightly...don't group everyone into the same pot please.
Girls at my place show up 15 minutes prior and are always on time. Their clients, NO SO MUCH. They show up 5-30 (yes 30 minutes late and still expect that we'll be ready and waiting and that the incall will be open for the late appointment) and then some think staying over time is totally acceptable. Granted sometimes we get carried away, but guys don't realize that sometimes it's not just the time of you and the girl you're with that you're affecting, sometimes it's the next girl and her client that you're affecting.
Be mindful guys.

Hey, when I came to see you, you were honest with me, and told me you needed to finish supper. I appreciated that, and I was happy I waited for when you were ready....

 

[Cock Throppled]

Respect is the key. And I acknowledge it's a two way street.

If I book a 3:00 appointment and another client shows up at 2:45 any professional SP would not take that earlier appointment.

I always try to book the first appointment of the day so a client staying too long is not an issue.

My point is, I have booked, I have confirmed or got the address as little as 15 minutes before the appointment, so how can I be left standing in the rain for ten minutes waiting after all I went through to get there? By the way, I apply this standard to every other business I patronize. I'm giving them my money. I expect them to be ready to accept it. Like I said, there are other women who want my business, so why put up with crap? It's about respect. I respect SP's. I expect them to respect me.

 

[AA_Train]

Respect is the key. And I acknowledge it's a two way street.

If I book a 3:00 appointment and another client shows up at 2:45 any professional SP would not take that earlier appointment.

I always try to book the first appointment of the day so a client staying too long is not an issue.

My point is, I have booked, I have confirmed or got the address as little as 15 minutes before the appointment, so how can I be left standing in the rain for ten minutes waiting after all I went through to get there? By the way, I apply this standard to every other business I patronize. I'm giving them my money. I expect them to be ready to accept it. Like I said, there are other women who want my business, so why put up with crap? It's about respect. I respect SP's. I expect them to respect me.

I agree. A lot of SPs don't seem to think of themselves as a business, but that's what they are. Otherwise, they'd be doing it for free. The same standards should be applied to them as any other kind of business one would use that bases it self on personal reputation, like a lawyer or an accountant for example. This is why I don't think arguments like "wanting to look their best" really doesn't hold any water. Unless the appointment was short notice or they have a particular or elaborate appearance request, I would think most ladies who have done this awhile can accurately gauge how much time they need to get ready for a "standard" session and be ready on time. If you have been given 24 hours notice for an appointment, you should be able to determine 1. if you can take the appointment and 2. Manage your day so you can be ready fo it. No client should suffer for a vendors poor time management.

 

[Alix Turner]

on the other hand, it is regularly pointed out that we are not established professionals in a typical sense.. while some famous actors are likely very good time keepers, are adept at conflict resolution, and are very mindful of what the people signing their cheques want to see.. others are known for their poor behaviour, lack of reliability at times, and having ridiculous requirements they expect of anyone that they are hired by ... but they are still in very high demand, for whatever it is they do that just seems to work for people

I understand that people have a right to expect things of a person they are paying for a service, and I think it's up to the individual to see those that prioritize similar standards..
.. but if I started looking at my dates as doing business, where i provide professional services for financial compensation decided in advance of the appointment.. I don't think my business model would be anywhere near as enjoyable as things seem to be now.

 

[Cock Throppled]

I understand that people have a right to expect things of a person they are paying for a service, and I think it's up to the individual to see those that prioritize similar standards..
.. but if I started looking at my dates as doing business, where i provide professional services for financial compensation decided in advance of the appointment.. I don't think my business model would be anywhere near as enjoyable as things seem to be now.

Hate to break it to you, but you are in business providing a service. You can romanticize what you provide all you want, the same as many customers do, but you get paid to provide a service. A more personal service that most others, but a service nonetheless.

A reliable provider is a professional provider.

 

[Sharky66]

on the other hand, it is regularly pointed out that we are not established professionals in a typical sense.. while some famous actors are likely very good time keepers, are adept at conflict resolution, and are very mindful of what the people signing their cheques want to see.. others are known for their poor behaviour, lack of reliability at times, and having ridiculous requirements they expect of anyone that they are hired by ... but they are still in very high demand, for whatever it is they do that just seems to work for people

I understand that people have a right to expect things of a person they are paying for a service, and I think it's up to the individual to see those that prioritize similar standards..
.. but if I started looking at my dates as doing business, where i provide professional services for financial compensation decided in advance of the appointment.. I don't think my business model would be anywhere near as enjoyable as things seem to be now.

An SP can choose to act as a professional or not.

Some actors can get away with childlike behaviour depending on the drawing power of those actors. But at some point, the downside can become too much. Also, some actors might also overestimate their worth.

And about your business model not being as enjoyable as it seems to be now? Not understanding your point. Enjoyable for who? You offer a service for remuneration. If the service is not good, or reliable, or there are other compromises, your business will suffer. Perhaps an SP has built up a reputation and has a special bond with her clients, and therefore has distinguished herself from being a commodity (and therefore, but only for her regular clients, she might get away with some bullshit). But for others who have not developed such a situation, they will soon see some disadvantage.

Hate to break it to you, but you are in business providing a service. You can romanticize what you provide all you want, the same as many customers do, but you get paid to provide a service. A more personal service that most others, but a service nonetheless.

A reliable provider is a professional provider.

Can't argue with that logic.